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By *carletts OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Harpenden

I know this is a sex site but it's so shocking and disturbing to see how many people these days are having unsafe sex with many multiple people.

You ain't technically sleeping with one person but 100's if peoples verifications are anything to go by and photos

Different guys and women in photos indulging in unprotected sex for me just shows a lack of respect for not just yourself but other people. Coughs and sneezes spread disease so does unprotected sex but worse!

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
6 weeks ago

Loughborough

And unfortunately, you'll never know what goes on behind closed doors either...

Those who preach safe sex will easily forgo protection if it means getting a meet. And that's not just men who people will always try to tarnish first!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 weeks ago

Leeds

This is why I expect honesty, I know it's our own responsibility to keep ourselves as safe as possible but that's a lot easier to do if honesty is involved x

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By *harmizardMan
6 weeks ago

London

I always confirm safe sex is agreed upon before meeting. Would be awkward to have to leave if someone expects it during the meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think if people could say they prefer unsafe sex without the fear of judgement it would be better for everyone.

How many use protection for oral?

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By *carletts OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Harpenden


"I always confirm safe sex is agreed upon before meeting. Would be awkward to have to leave if someone expects it during the meet"

Totally agree but I have left meets in the past because a guy thought I'd be OK with it. Wasn't awkward felt empowered and lucky escape lol

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By *harmizardMan
6 weeks ago

London

Sure, but what a waste of time with travelling, engaging etc. A lot of time can be saved by some honest and open communication


"I always confirm safe sex is agreed upon before meeting. Would be awkward to have to leave if someone expects it during the meet

Totally agree but I have left meets in the past because a guy thought I'd be OK with it. Wasn't awkward felt empowered and lucky escape lol"

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By *otuseater11Man
6 weeks ago

kilwinning

Always let everyone know it's safe sex only even before I meet them face to face

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By *carletts OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Harpenden


"I think if people could say they prefer unsafe sex without the fear of judgement it would be better for everyone.

How many use protection for oral?"

So true all the people I've met in the past have provided a recent STI clear check but still you wonder about the oral and i've been guilty of not protecting in that respect but slightly assured by the clean health check otherwise

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By *harmizardMan
6 weeks ago

London

Oral, anal or vaginal. It’s all the same, be safe!


"I think if people could say they prefer unsafe sex without the fear of judgement it would be better for everyone.

How many use protection for oral?"

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By *ustAnotherMan
6 weeks ago

Mids

Bit of a disclosure I guess but I think it's relevant .

Met someone off fab last year and she tried to pull me in while we were kissing, playing before I'd wrapped up. She got really pissy when I stopped her. She tried it again, aggressively so, then I got up and left to not a little abuse.

The reverse of that situation (and guys removing condoms without consent / knowledge) is rightly being called what it is - sexual assault, why the fuck did she think it was ok to do that to me after I'd said no?

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
6 weeks ago

Loughborough


"Bit of a disclosure I guess but I think it's relevant .

Met someone off fab last year and she tried to pull me in while we were kissing, playing before I'd wrapped up. She got really pissy when I stopped her. She tried it again, aggressively so, then I got up and left to not a little abuse.

The reverse of that situation (and guys removing condoms without consent / knowledge) is rightly being called what it is - sexual assault, why the fuck did she think it was ok to do that to me after I'd said no?"

That is rough, we're sorry. Hopefully you had a chance to tell her what it was before you blocked her!!

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By *ustAnotherMan
6 weeks ago

Mids


"Bit of a disclosure I guess but I think it's relevant .

Met someone off fab last year and she tried to pull me in while we were kissing, playing before I'd wrapped up. She got really pissy when I stopped her. She tried it again, aggressively so, then I got up and left to not a little abuse.

The reverse of that situation (and guys removing condoms without consent / knowledge) is rightly being called what it is - sexual assault, why the fuck did she think it was ok to do that to me after I'd said no?

That is rough, we're sorry. Hopefully you had a chance to tell her what it was before you blocked her!!"

Certainly did

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
6 weeks ago

Bedale

People are going to do what they want to do. There's no such thing as truly safe sex, just safer sex. As a result of that reality all of us are simply expressing our own level of risk appetite.

For us, that means rubbers. But even that is not 100% safe as we were very much reminded at the conclusion of a playdate recently

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By *carletts OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Harpenden


"People are going to do what they want to do. There's no such thing as truly safe sex, just safer sex. As a result of that reality all of us are simply expressing our own level of risk appetite.

For us, that means rubbers. But even that is not 100% safe as we were very much reminded at the conclusion of a playdate recently "

Oooo go on do tell, nosey cow here?

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
6 weeks ago

Bedale


"People are going to do what they want to do. There's no such thing as truly safe sex, just safer sex. As a result of that reality all of us are simply expressing our own level of risk appetite.

For us, that means rubbers. But even that is not 100% safe as we were very much reminded at the conclusion of a playdate recently

Oooo go on do tell, nosey cow here?"

Not much to tell beyond the obvious, amazing 4 way fun being had, I get my train to the station, pull out anticipating I'll take off the rubber and finish outside to find instead a rubber band wrapped around the base and dripping...

They were very polite about it, and I've had the snip, so limited risk from a single exposure with a lady who seems eminently sensible in her own right so I doubt I've anything to worry about. Unfortunate nonetheless.

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By *affa2Couple
6 weeks ago

London

She didn't deserve your dick, glad you got away.

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
6 weeks ago

West London

Safe only for me but certainly wouldn’t judge others who make different choices

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By *ustAnotherMan
6 weeks ago

Mids


"She didn't deserve your dick, glad you got away.

"

🫶

Thank you

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