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By *akeland-lad OP   Man
6 weeks ago

South Lakes

This may be a slightly controversial topic so, sips tea, bear with me.

What do you think/how do you feel about seeing public videos on a single guy or gal's profile of them fucking etc - especially profiles who are not meet verified from here?

The vast majority of footage I would assume are not a meet they've had off here and of a previous experience prior to FAB (unless the video has been tagged/titled as such but these seem few and far between). It also makes me wonder if the other person in it even knows the pictures/video is on here, let alone consented to it being shared - eg the other person involved was a one night stand, a current or ex partner etc who the profile holder made the footage with.

I get a lot of it is putting yourself in a shop window, we're all here to meet others for sex in essence, and 99.999999% on here aren't virgins. Having footage of you in action is part of the peacock ruffling it's feathers to attract a mate sort of theory.

I'm not targeting single profiles out of spite and I'm not exonerating couple profiles of this either - but they tend to have pictures and videos of them having sex with each other which is understandable more so than Joe Bloggs who's been on here a week, not had a meet, having 3 diffeent videos of him fucking different 3 different women.

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By *ympho6969Woman
6 weeks ago

glasgow

Some videos pause and make me think whether the other person knows its out there in the world. More than a few actually.

I tend to be cautious of profiles with other people in them, especially when the profile owner hides their own face but is fine with the other person's being on display

I have videos with a fwb, and they stay secure in a password protected folder, never to be shared. That's private and I would want the same consideration.

It's also why I never allow men to take videos of me. If he wants videos, they are done with my phone so I can edit them first.

It wouldn't surprise me that most people have no clue

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
6 weeks ago

Ends

I asked this in the lounge once. I would bet that most single profiles don’t have consent to share on here. The solution is basically though to not allow single profiles to post pictures or videos with others in them. Fine by me personally. But couples are also guilty of this. They’re the tough ones to get.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It annoys me when men upload pics where you can see and identify the woman/women giving him a blow job. Yet all you can see is his cock.

I do worry how many know they are on here and are happy with that, especially as you said the ones with no verifications.

Its a filter for me being honest, I want to see the man, not all their past conquests in all their glory.

Saying that, it's the same with couple profiles for me. Where there's loads of other people in the pics/vids and you can't tell which are the couple.

Again, it's them I'd want to see, how can I gauge any attraction,on profiles that show more of others than themselves.

If course before anyone says it, it's their profiles and they can do as they wish. But it can reduce their chances, especially with many women who don't need or what to see loads of random action shots.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah pics and/or videos of singles hanging out of someone, who is unlikely to know anything about it.

When we’ve questioned it it’s usually an ex, which then begs the question ‘so your ex is happy for you to show pics/videos of her so you can try and entice others to have sex with you?’ 🤔

They shouldn’t be allowed to post videos of others in this age of consent being required.

Kind of harder for couples though 😬

K

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

Yep, pics and vids like this are a major turn off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

I just avoid them if I can, same goes for pictures of men where they show a tiny bit of themselves and a woman's while body. If you're inviting me out to dinner i wouldn't expect you to send me photos of you eating with someone else to prove you can, why do I need to see evidence that you can have sex?

It just shows we're not and never will be compatible.

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By *ony MannMan
6 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

I don't have videos, but have had sex on cam with women, one rather alot.

There are a couple of pics that I have masked, and a few I have permission to show.

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By *ony MannMan
6 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover


"Yeah pics and/or videos of singles hanging out of someone, who is unlikely to know anything about it.

When we’ve questioned it it’s usually an ex, which then begs the question ‘so your ex is happy for you to show pics/videos of her so you can try and entice others to have sex with you?’ 🤔....

K"

That give alot of confidence...I don't think, next month I am on their profile

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If the person is unidentifiable, then I don't see any great harm.

However, as a way of showing off the profile owner, I'm not so keen. On some profiles, it feels more like a collection of trophy shots and films and that is very off putting.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Yeah pics and/or videos of singles hanging out of someone, who is unlikely to know anything about it.

When we’ve questioned it it’s usually an ex, which then begs the question ‘so your ex is happy for you to show pics/videos of her so you can try and entice others to have sex with you?’ 🤔....

K

That give alot of confidence...I don't think, next month I am on their profile "

The beauty of this site is what is a no for one is a yes for others.

Be yourself and you’ll find your people.

It’s a great filter

K

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By *ongAndThick123Man
6 weeks ago

Leeds

I have videos on my profile with another person, and they were aware of it, permission was asked. That’s why the person is covering their face.

Fab also has rules (though I’m not sure admin always notices) whereby you cannot show the face of another person on your profile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I would also add to question, even where someone has permission to share an image, did that permission extend to a publicly available site like this?

And how long is this permission granted for?

I'm sure if life has moved on, the etiquette and likelihood of changes to that permission are extremely high.

It's why I really don't like to see people sharing such content freely.

The odd time we've taken pics with others and both uploaded it on here, we've noted both profile names on the pic, and removed it after the moment has passed, or things have changed.

C

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