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"Do any ladies on here actually get off on knowing another man is going behind his ladies back when meeting up with you? " A woman started a thread saying she did recently. | |||
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"It's a dealbreaker for me. As an openly proud visibly trans woman after 49 years hidden away I won't be anyone's secret anymore." I think that's it for me too. I don't want to be a side piece. | |||
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"Then general consensus is that it’s a no go. But I do wonder if some ladies get a kick from it" Yes, they do. They think they're getting one up on the wife and that the man prefers them or they're giving him something his wife won't or can't. He's always going home to his wife though and he'll dump the 'other' woman without a second thought. | |||
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"Nope honesty makes a relationship you should be honest and end marriage if you ain't happy simples" This, couldn't say it any better! | |||
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"Then general consensus is that it’s a no go. But I do wonder if some ladies get a kick from it Yes, they do. They think they're getting one up on the wife and that the man prefers them or they're giving him something his wife won't or can't. He's always going home to his wife though and he'll dump the 'other' woman without a second thought." | |||
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"Im referring to if a single male is on here behind his wife’s back." If he has a wife.. how can he be single?? | |||
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"This is my only issue in this lifestyle, my man can meet whoever with my permission as long as I know about it first and the woman knows I know. Sex is fun and natural, but secrets isn’t and I can’t stand a woman feeling like she has a one up on me. If she is disrespectful towards me then my partner avoids. X" Agreed !! | |||
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"Im referring to if a single male is on here behind his wife’s back. If he has a wife.. how can he be single??" As in a males profile, not couple profile | |||
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"Holds no interest for me. I’m too old for drama and games. Swinging should be based on openness and honesty." It has to be fair and honest for the best outcomes for both parties x | |||
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"I wonder if there’s more of a taboo element involved Then general consensus is that it’s a no go. But I do wonder if some ladies get a kick from it Yes, they do. They think they're getting one up on the wife and that the man prefers them or they're giving him something his wife won't or can't. He's always going home to his wife though and he'll dump the 'other' woman without a second thought." Probably. | |||
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" It has to be fair and honest for the best outcomes for both parties x" Absolutely! It should apply to everyone who is part of this lifestyle x | |||
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"Some do, some don't. Personally I think the ones that do are lower than a snakes belly especially when they say "their personal life has nothing to do with me, I'm not the one who's married etc etc etc.... Girl code...yeah only exists if they don't want to fuck your man behind your back"  | |||
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"We are a married couple and we think it’s not our business what anyone else’s situation is. We don’t ask and as long as we’re all comfortable and safe then we’re happy x" This is our take on it. We don’t ask and we don’t expect them to tell us. Everyone has to make their own decision. | |||
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"Holds no interest for me. I’m too old for drama and games. Swinging should be based on openness and honesty." Yeah, agreed. I had a guy message me whose profile said he was playing behind his wife's back. I said I'm not the one for him if he's not happy to be seen with me in Costa or something. He thanked me for being honest and we went out separate ways, no harm no foul. | |||
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"Holds no interest for me. I’m too old for drama and games. Swinging should be based on openness and honesty. Yeah, agreed. I had a guy message me whose profile said he was playing behind his wife's back. I said I'm not the one for him if he's not happy to be seen with me in Costa or something. He thanked me for being honest and we went out separate ways, no harm no foul."  | |||
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"Could certainly make a social a little awkward if his wife was to walk in " Lol just a little bit | |||
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