FabSwingers.com forum: Another rant

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
15 weeks ago

glasgow

It can't just be me who gets the same or very similar messages over and over again from the same people. They don't get a reply and think spamming will change my mind?

I feel a serious blocking frenzy coming on.

Seriously, why do they do this? Why do they ignore the warning message every time they send another message without getting a reply? Do they think it's sweet? Or endearing? Or their persistence will turn me to jelly?

No, it just tells me they can't respect a choice not to reply, so why would they respect any other decision I made?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Because they are thick

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By *ikeandtheCityMan
15 weeks ago

colchester

Who knows, but when putting yourself on an open forum you have to expect the unwanted.

Surely if you say no to them its job done. They will stop. If not hit the block button

The world online is very different to reality

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

Don't wait to use the block button. It'll save you a lot of agony

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
15 weeks ago

Bedale

We often use the block function as a general purpose filter.

If we don't want to play with you, and the situation isn't going to change, why not remove ourselves from your consideration and you from ours.

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
15 weeks ago

glasgow

"Who knows, but when putting yourself on an open forum you have to expect the unwanted.

Surely if you say no to them its job done. They will stop. If not hit the block button

The world online is very different to reality "

There's no winning. I've tried a polite no thanks and get the same spam.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
15 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Just block them. Save you ranting

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Use your block button liberally and fab becomes a much nicer place to be 💜

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By *exySiren01Woman
15 weeks ago

RCT

I've a few regulars in my inbox that are up to like 10 unopened messages, I haven't opened the 1st message so beats me why they think I'm going to open 10 off them...maybe they think they can grind us down and we will relent in the end and answer them lol

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

"I've a few regulars in my inbox that are up to like 10 unopened messages, I haven't opened the 1st message so beats me why they think I'm going to open 10 off them...maybe they think they can grind us down and we will relent in the end and answer them lol "

The relentless overwhelming onslaught will eventually win you over with persistence 🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The block button is your friend.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Bolton

"The block button is your friend.

It really is!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

"The block button is your friend.

It really is!"

And the filters

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The block button is your friend.

It really is!"

Even us guys use it, now and again.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

"The block button is your friend.

It really is!

Even us guys use it, now and again.

It’s been known

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Bedford

Are they from a call centre by any chance.

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 weeks ago

Bedford

Maybe they thought you didn't see their first message? As some women get loads of messages, apparently the messages at the bottom may no longer be accessible if there are too many messages in the inbox.

Try deleting rather than leaving on unread, but also just block and move on if you're not interested in them. I don't think there is a limit to how long your block list can be.

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By *wingingphil69Man
15 weeks ago

castleford

Hi m8

How many time do I get this and nothing else what kind of reply do they want 🤣🤣

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By *herrybakewellCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Men do stupid shit when they're horny.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
15 weeks ago

Lake District

I think it's more to do with the fact you've either not read, or deleted, their first message(s) - so by sending another it automatically moves them to the top of your inbox so increases the chances you'll see it/read it/possibly reply this time.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
15 weeks ago

furnace

"Men do stupid shit when they're horny. "

As I man we do stupid shit nit just when were horny

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By *ongandharderMan
15 weeks ago

Rotherham

I think sometimes if it's not deleted we aren't sure if it's just a look and reply later

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By *ee And MikeCouple
15 weeks ago

Cannock

We get that a lot, we try to be nice to people if we are meeting but it’s almost as if they think they will bully you into meeting with them !

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By *iGuyForCouplesMan
15 weeks ago

Staines

I put in my bio that I do not play with single guys and delete one word messages. Yet everyday I go on here to see 5 messages form single guys "hi". Does my head in. Block and delete

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