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"I say this in a non aggressive way Why can't she look for herself? " I was thinking similar, she is likely to have a much more optimistic outcome if she does it herself. I would have thought that any woman who has to message you is going to be suspicious | |||
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"I say this in a non aggressive way Why can't she look for herself? I was thinking similar, she is likely to have a much more optimistic outcome if she does it herself. I would have thought that any woman who has to message you is going to be suspicious" Speaking only for myself. If a woman needs to have a single man intermediary I am immediately suspicious. | |||
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"I say this in a non aggressive way Why can't she look for herself? I was thinking similar, she is likely to have a much more optimistic outcome if she does it herself. I would have thought that any woman who has to message you is going to be suspicious Speaking only for myself. If a woman needs to have a single man intermediary I am immediately suspicious." This. A single man wanting to arrange for me to meet a woman who has her own profile and hasn't been involved in the arrangements would raise huge red flags and safety concerns for me. There's no way I'd go up to that hotel room, not knowing who is waiting in there | |||
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"Have you thought she may not be a single women ?.and may prefer another " friend " to make arrangements on her behalf so her " family " are less likely to discover her life away from home !." So she's looking for herself is happy for you to provide her profile name privately but has concerns about her family finding out? Can you see why people might have doubts? | |||
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"Have you thought she may not be a single women ?.and may prefer another " friend " to make arrangements on her behalf so her " family " are less likely to discover her life away from home !. So she's looking for herself is happy for you to provide her profile name privately but has concerns about her family finding out? Can you see why people might have doubts? " More red flags than a Chinese state parade...  | |||
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"Good valid point ,maybe my interpretation of events is somewhat skewed . both my last friend and the other lady in question would have met socially , chatted and have arranged the " hotel " meet between themselves prior to the day . so no hidden surprises or safety issues whatsoever . apologies if I'd not made that clear ." I’m struggling to understand why a man needs to be involved at all? | |||
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"Good valid point ,maybe my interpretation of events is somewhat skewed . both my last friend and the other lady in question would have met socially , chatted and have arranged the " hotel " meet between themselves prior to the day . so no hidden surprises or safety issues whatsoever . apologies if I'd not made that clear . I’m struggling to understand why a man needs to be involved at all?" The woman's fantasy is to have the op meet the woman and take her up to the room  | |||
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"Never arranged anything similar and I'd suggest that you and your long term lady friend start a couples profile. For safety reasons not many single women are going to meet a man and go to a hotel room without knowing who was in there waiting. " Exactly this! What if I turn up to meet the guy, go to the hotel room with him and, instead of a lady waiting there for me, there is a group of men? Also, what if I go to the hotel room with the guy, there is the lady waiting, and then either of us decide we're not attracted to each other/there is no chemistry? | |||
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"That wouldn't happen as I've already pointed out the two ladies would have met socially over a coffee Or a drink previously to make sure there was chemistry there . if there wasn't it wouldn't have reached a hotel meet state ." With all due respect this isn't what you said in your original post. You clearly stated 'I go to the bar to greet a lady I've arranged to come to the hotel to play with her' That is why people are suspicious. | |||
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"That wouldn't happen as I've already pointed out the two ladies would have met socially over a coffee Or a drink previously to make sure there was chemistry there . if there wasn't it wouldn't have reached a hotel meet state ." If they’ve already met then what’s the point in you being there? Just to walk someone up to a room? Why can’t the woman walk up there by herself? If they’ve met and exchanged details why wouldn’t they just meet by themselves instead of complicating it? And this extra woman - she doesn’t know you at all, so why would she want you to greet her and vice versa. Nothings adding up. | |||
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"The OP needs to start the thread again, it’s lead to nothing but conjecture. Either that or the friend creates her own and specifies what she is wanting, highlighting discretion is needed." The friend has her own profile but can't access it as often as the op can access his. | |||
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"The OP needs to start the thread again, it’s lead to nothing but conjecture. Either that or the friend creates her own and specifies what she is wanting, highlighting discretion is needed. The friend has her own profile but can't access it as often as the op can access his. " Yeah I read that but the thread is so messy now and people are judging the situation in a way OP isn’t going to get anything constructive from it. She could maybe set the thread off and mention his profile in it and he is the admin? Just trying to progress things positively. | |||
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"The OP needs to start the thread again, it’s lead to nothing but conjecture. Either that or the friend creates her own and specifies what she is wanting, highlighting discretion is needed. The friend has her own profile but can't access it as often as the op can access his. Yeah I read that but the thread is so messy now and people are judging the situation in a way OP isn’t going to get anything constructive from it. She could maybe set the thread off and mention his profile in it and he is the admin? Just trying to progress things positively." Yes I see that you're doing that.
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"The OP needs to start the thread again, it’s lead to nothing but conjecture. Either that or the friend creates her own and specifies what she is wanting, highlighting discretion is needed. The friend has her own profile but can't access it as often as the op can access his. Yeah I read that but the thread is so messy now and people are judging the situation in a way OP isn’t going to get anything constructive from it. She could maybe set the thread off and mention his profile in it and he is the admin? Just trying to progress things positively. Yes I see that you're doing that.
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"That wouldn't happen as I've already pointed out the two ladies would have met socially over a coffee Or a drink previously to make sure there was chemistry there . if there wasn't it wouldn't have reached a hotel meet state ." I only read the original post before replying. | |||
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"C meets women on her own without me but it’s solely a ladies only play meet. If she said to me that she was meeting a guy in a bar and he was then taking her upstairs to a hotel room where a woman would be present and he would leave then I’d want to go to, to ensure the guy does leave. If they meet for a social and arrange a date then any one else doesn’t need to get involved. I’ve arranged blindfold meets where I’ve left C on a bed to then go and collect people from the bar but I’m also involved. I think your request is very flawed and seems to be you getting more involved than you need to. K " It’s not his request, it’s his lady friends request. | |||
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" It’s not his request, it’s his lady friends request." It’s his request to find someone at her request  | |||
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" It’s not his request, it’s his lady friends request. It’s his request to find someone at her request "I think I’ll request payment for trying to clarify his request of her request, even though I’ve not been requested to do so 😂 | |||
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