FabSwingers.com forum: Going to a club alone

By *_2025_uni OP Woman
5 weeks ago

cambridgeshire

Do single women tend to go to clubs alone or with a friend/couple/group?

I’ve been intrigued about clubs for a while but the thought of going alone is a daunting one! None of my friends are aware of my interest in this lifestyle so can’t entice them along…

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I go on my own all the time, I didn't mind it at all. I made friends and enjoy the socialising side too

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

I usually go with friends I've met in the lifestyle. The couple of times I've gone totally alone I've chatted to people online beforehand in event chats and that helps but it is still daunting as I can be quite shy. But if there's an event chat it's a great way to get to know people ahead of the event.

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
5 weeks ago

Dumbarton

My boyfriend lives the idea of me going alone in the hope that later I can text him all about it

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By *uchessdoeWoman
5 weeks ago

Northampton

I go on my own, and it can be super daunting, but [most] people are really friendly and are happy to let you join their conversation/group/orgy

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By *vonne5exMan
5 weeks ago

Doncaster

"I usually go with friends I've met in the lifestyle. The couple of times I've gone totally alone I've chatted to people online beforehand in event chats and that helps but it is still daunting as I can be quite shy. But if there's an event chat it's a great way to get to know people ahead of the event. "
looks like Pandoras and not quest

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I always go on my own, but find it very easy to make friends

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By *batMan
5 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I went to Rio's in London alone.

As a single guy, it wasn't as easy as I'd hoped to make conversation with people, but I struck lucky with a very friendly couple who made the whole experience worth it!!

My suspicion is that it will be easier for a single woman to get into a conversation!

Gbat

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By *ympho6969Woman
5 weeks ago

glasgow

I did. Really didn't enjoy it. Was incredibly nervous and felt out of place. Strange cos I'm very casual about casual sex lol

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By *rdere OpusCouple
5 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Until I met S, I regularly went alone. Sad truth is women are much more likely than men to find that people are willing to approach or welcome approaches and you’re unlikely to feel lonely if you’re happy chatting to strangers. If you become a regular attendee at a club or an event, you’ll also find you see familiar faces and make friends.

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By *penguy1978Man
5 weeks ago

Bristol

"Do single women tend to go to clubs alone or with a friend/couple/group?

I’ve been intrigued about clubs for a while but the thought of going alone is a daunting one! None of my friends are aware of my interest in this lifestyle so can’t entice them along…"

Im going to a club friday on own of you wanted to join me?

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
5 weeks ago

South East London

I initially went alone, a fair while back because I had so much curiosity tbh. I was in a similar situation as yourself then. You won't get any grief of anyone if you don't want to engage , in whatever manner. Just go and try it. Have fun and don't be shy in talking to people.

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By *inkyPair2018Couple
5 weeks ago

Wolves and Northants

I went to a club alone twice. (Mrs here)

First time was not so good. Went on a couples night so I was swarmed with couples wanting a girl to join them. Whilst I’m not averse to playing in that dynamic I hated the fact that everywhere I went I had a couple right in my face introducting themselves to me and quickly alluding to the fact they wanted to explore F4F and a threesome

Next time I went I decided to try and mixed night. Single males and couples and far more successful. Met a lot more single people in the same situation as me and was able to relax a million % more and had a great night playing at the end

Mr is yet to go along on his own yet though but he’s gonna bite the bullet soon!!!

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