FabSwingers.com forum: Blokes posting rants

By *akeland-lad OP Man
5 weeks ago

South Lakes

Whilst I have only been on here two weeks and therefore had to ride out the 336 hour block before posting, it's allowed me to at least browse the forums.

I notice a lot of chaps posting rants and moans about how they don't get messages, don't get meets, everyone must be a fake profile, attention seeking etc.

Can't just be me who reads these rants and thinks "and this is really helping your cause, buddy?"

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By *ympho6969Woman
5 weeks ago

glasgow

There's a cycle of the same or similar threads. Some a nice and fun, or good talking points. Some are this. Or rate my profile. Tell me what's wrong, what I can fix. Instead of using the search function and looking at the 1m other posts asking the exact same thing.

Some things will never change

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By *ink vixenCouple
5 weeks ago

Medway

And guys virtue signalling

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By *he Happy ManMan
5 weeks ago

Merseyside

"And guys virtue signalling

Also guys playing the white knight in shining armour.

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 weeks ago

Midlands

Most Men probably join thinking they'll get meets easy and eventually realise that's not the case. Some Men are fortunate to get a meet within an hour of joining

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"And guys virtue signalling

This. It's hilarious and so obvious what they're trying to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"And guys virtue signalling

Also guys playing the white knight in shining armour. "

And also this. It makes me cringe.

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By *pgroupsexMan
5 weeks ago

Kingston

I think, due to the ratio of single guys to girls/couples, for most guys, the site is ultimately disappointing.

If you write a few, well crafted, opening messages, presumably due to the sheer number of incoming mails, these will often not even be read, or even if they are looked at, will, more often than not, simply get no acknowledgement at all.

If you've a thick skin or you don't care who you actually meet (you just want to fuck), I presume you soon resort to one liners or copy/paste, often without reading the profile, simply hoping a scattergun approach, may result in something.

That then pulls the site quality down and those on the recieving end, of the virtual SPAM deluge, moan about that too.

It can be frustrating and people vent about it, hoping that'll attract kindred spirits more than not (or simply because it IS far from expectations and ultimately pretty frustrating).

People do look at your profile more, if you post in these forums (as opposed to sitting on the virtual fence) and what you say here (good/bad/realistic or not) is indicative of the person you are of course.

I'm a realist and it is what it is

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Pfft

Rant over

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 weeks ago

Midlands

"Pfft

Rant over"

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
5 weeks ago

furnace

Get so many moaning that I’m not bi

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"I think, due to the ratio of single guys to girls/couples, for most guys, the site is ultimately disappointing.

That then pulls the site quality down and those on the recieving end, of the virtual SPAM deluge, moan about that too.

It can be frustrating and people vent about it, hoping that'll attract kindred spirits more than not (or simply because it IS far from expectations and ultimately pretty frustrating).

I'm a realist and it is what it is

I’m always surprised when people, totally seriously, speak about how good their messages are. If they aren’t getting responses then they aren’t good.

And most importantly, attraction is the main thing that gets responses on here.

None of us are entitled to a reply. No one is perfect.

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By *pgroupsexMan
5 weeks ago

Kingston

"I’m always surprised when people, totally seriously, speak about how good their messages are. If they aren’t getting responses then they aren’t good.

And most importantly, attraction is the main thing that gets responses on here.

None of us are entitled to a reply. No one is perfect.

I'm certainly not claiming my messages are perfect (far from it!), but time and time again I see threads here, where people bemoan that those writing send one liner "wanna fuck" and don't pay any attention to the profile, yada yada.

Personally I read what people say and if I think we might get on, then I'll try and write something appropriate (and honest).

I've zero expectations because if you have those here, you'll, often as not, be disappointed and it also seems the deluge of "you are hot, let's meet now" will often drown out any serious reply.

Attraction isn't purely physical.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I’m always surprised when people, totally seriously, speak about how good their messages are. If they aren’t getting responses then they aren’t good.

And most importantly, attraction is the main thing that gets responses on here.

None of us are entitled to a reply. No one is perfect.

Personally I read what people say and if I think we might get on, then I'll try and write something appropriate (and honest).

I've zero expectations because if you have those here, you'll, often as not, be disappointed and it also seems the deluge of "you are hot, let's meet now" will often drown out any serious reply.

Attraction isn't purely physical.

For me initial attraction is purely physical. If I don’t find someone physically attractive I wouldn’t want to have sex with them. That might make me shallow but for what I use fab for I’m ok with that

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfair

We live, lust and love in sad times, OP. Some of us men - including myself - saunter the barren wastelands of Fab dealing with rejections, dejections and unfulfilled erections. I'm like a Paladin ⚜️ without an equerry, a knight-errant without a purpose and with a pennant full of false hope and broken dreams waving in the false breeze.

The ladies, sirens and the courtesans have never had it so good. 🚩

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By *oelDorianMan
5 weeks ago

vanaheim

"Whilst I have only been on here two weeks and therefore had to ride out the 336 hour block before posting, it's allowed me to at least browse the forums.

I notice a lot of chaps posting rants and moans about how they don't get messages, don't get meets, everyone must be a fake profile, attention seeking etc.

Can't just be me who reads these rants and thinks "and this is really helping your cause, buddy?""

Oh I read and laugh and it’s a never ending cycle

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"We live, lust and love in sad times, OP. Some of us men - including myself - saunter the barren wastelands of Fab dealing with rejections, dejections and unfulfilled erections. I'm like a Paladin ⚜️ without an equerry, a knight-errant without a purpose and with a pennant full of false hope and broken dreams waving in the false breeze.

The ladies, sirens and the courtesans have never had it so good. 🚩"

Such a way with words😁

Don't think anyone could put it better👌

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By *etefromderbyMan
5 weeks ago

Derby

So bloody fed up ! Can’t get the player to work on my Samsung smart tv , anytime a go through the internet app to watch xxxx porn videos lately it won’t work play

Off sick with a empty house and wanted to make the most of it

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By *naswingdressWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a never ending cycle of the whiners, the incels, the suck ups and the pick mes.

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