FabSwingers.com forum: Who sends photo first?

By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Okay, i have a question! I like to stay discreet on here as most people do. I've been messaging this woman for a few days but she is not photo verified or meet verified. She is asking me for a face photo but I don't want to send first or until she is verified in some way.

Am I being to paranoid that she is a catfish or something? Or is it a valid reason?

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By *avexxMan
6 weeks ago

cheshire

"Okay, i have a question! I like to stay discreet on here as most people do. I've been messaging this woman for a few days but she is not photo verified or meet verified. She is asking me for a face photo but I don't want to send first or until she is verified in some way.

Am I being to paranoid that she is a catfish or something? Or is it a valid reason?"
... ask her for a face photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

I have, but she says she doesn't want to send first.

Makes me question it even more

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By *ust_jackMan
6 weeks ago

Plymouth

If it seems suspicious or you’re just not comfortable then don’t do it. It takes 2 seconds for someone to photo verify

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

Whoever asks has to send one first.

I don't share face pics unless I'm actually going to meet someone and even then it's not a deal breaker but I would never send a pic to anyone regardless of whether they are verified or not if they hadn't already sent me one before asking.

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

"I have, but she says she doesn't want to send first.

Makes me question it even more "

Best advice is end the conversation and move on.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Sitting on the table

So basically it's a blank profile asking for a face picture?

Absolutely not.

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 weeks ago

Midlands

Whoever messages first should send face pics first. Unfortunately it's likely you've messaged a Man.

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By *neakypeaky30Man
6 weeks ago

Midlands

"If it seems suspicious or you’re just not comfortable then don’t do it. It takes 2 seconds for someone to photo verify"

This..... it's easy and straightforward. Don't get bullied into something you're not comfortable doing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Suggest a ten minute meet for a cup of coffee. Neither of you need send a photo and it quickly establishes if someone is genuine

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

I don't ask for them. If someone sends one I'll send one...I prefer to meet first. A lot of face pics are not a great indicator. But if someone has no verifications or pics up you'd imagine they'll meet to get that first verification.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
6 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I would be very suspicious and think that you are taking to a man. Big red flag if they want to move it onto a messaging app.

My advice is don't seen any pictures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Thanks for all the replies. I've just stopped messaging them and blocked the profile.

Seemed to risky, thanks for all your help and advice

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