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Ladies, what makes a message stand out that will make you replt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ladies, you get lots of messages why do you reply to some, not others.

And which message are likely to end as a meetup ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....reply

Good spelling helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being crass or rude and not just saying “Hey”

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"Hi ladies, you get lots of messages why do you reply to some, not others.

And which message are likely to end as a meetup ?"

We will always respond to messages where the sender has clearly read our profile and not just looked at the pictures

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Where we can see they have actually taken the time to read our profile. One liners get ignored,

Kink

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple
over a year ago

Stoke


"Hi ladies, you get lots of messages why do you reply to some, not others.

And which message are likely to end as a meetup ?"

Somebody who has read my profile and can make me lsugh

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By *exyScientistsCouple
over a year ago

Castlebar


"....reply

Good spelling helps "

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Hate that you can't edit...I've deleted so many posts because of my typos

But something with a bit of personality always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abit of humour always gets my attention, some effort and not just one word and something that doesn’t look like a copy paste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour always helps and reading the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Something where I can tell you've read the profile and are talking to me, as opposed to every woman within fifty miles. ("I've read your profile" is not sufficient. "Hot pictures" really doesn't work either, given my current photos are decidedly not)

Being polite. (Not deferential, but polite. I'm not an animal, I'm not a sex toy, I'm not less worthy of respect than you.)

Give me some idea of why I might be interested in you. (Bravado and bad erotica are bad ideas)

A well written profile that gives me an idea of why I might be interested in you.

... That's no guarantee, but it'll put you in the top 1-5% of people who message me

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By *exySiren01Woman
over a year ago

RCT

If I don't like what I see on the profile then I won't even open the message let alone reply

However a message that shows they match what I'm looking for (showing they've read my profile) and a sense of humour tends to get a reply from me

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