FabSwingers.com forum: Do some women get 20+ messages per day

By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

I know women get more messages than men, but do some get 20+ or more...

Must be a nice ego boost.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
26 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Just by seeing the statuses that get put up I would image a lot of women get a lot more than that.

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By *ustAnotherMan
26 weeks ago

brumish

On a meet once lass got her phone out and just held it, watching the inbox fill up in real time while we sat there. Incredible.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
26 weeks ago

cahoots

Easily over 20 yes

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By *emma200Woman
26 weeks ago

Warwickshire

I’ve had 60+ messages today.

If there’s a new picture , forum interaction possibly even a meet/ verification numbers daily are different

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By *llabebadWoman
26 weeks ago

Oxford

20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.

Worse, the messaging system breaks down somewhere around 250 incoming messages and maybe 50ish sent messages. It simply will not show more than that, so my inbox only shows any messages from the last 8 hours or so.

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By * MRS ShyButNotShy MRSCouple
26 weeks ago

Stoke

"I know women get more messages than men, but do some get 20+ or more...

Must be a nice ego boost.

A lot more than that. It's why I can't always reply. Not being rude. If I was to check and reply to every message it would be a full time job

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By *estructionDollyWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester

20 is a slow day

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By *ympho6969Woman
26 weeks ago

glasgow

After a photo upload or switching photos from private or friends only to public, o can easy get 100+ messages

Actually can be pretty overwhelming

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By *aramel.desiresMan
26 weeks ago

Laleham

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By *aramel.desiresMan
26 weeks ago

Laleham

"20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.

Thata because you are stunning.

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By *exySiren01Woman
26 weeks ago

RCT

20 a day would be manageable lol my inbox is standing at 938 this weeks messages it's madness

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
26 weeks ago

cardiff

20 a week maybe

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
26 weeks ago

Essex

Get 20/30 decent messages..

But get a load of crap ones..

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By *ot_spicedCouple
26 weeks ago

Queenstown

The first week after we joined fab, it was 300 plus for the first couple of days, then a couple of hundred. It does settle down fairly quickly tho.

It's probably about 75 a day on average now

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
26 weeks ago

IRVINE

20 mmmmm try more than 30 each day mrs

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
26 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes lots. It's also an ego boost showing my husband xx

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By *lackMetalMan
26 weeks ago

Centre

Attention to women is like what I imagine, worship to a deity is like. The more you give, the more powerful they feel.

So Fab is like what a church is to women.

And ladies, just like a deity, you will lose your power if you don’t pay attention to your attention-givers, as they will go on to the next.

So yes, it should be a full-time job answering those 724 messages or so, so quit your jobs and answer those messages full time.

And before you take this all seriously, it’s all a joke!

Woke up too early this morning and in need of some excitement so will start with message 1 of 724!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

Watching the inbox fill up ..... sounds like fun. Should be on the voyeurs thread..

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By *lackMetalMan
26 weeks ago

Centre

"It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.

Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.

It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.

Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.

Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If we have put a new pic up or status update can easily get over 100 messages in a day, turn on!

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By *avid_jones87Man
26 weeks ago

Ascot

Waaaaayyy more! I get 10-20 messages a day as a single guy most of the women I know get hundreds and need a full time PA!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If I post a new pic/vid i get hundreds. On a normal day it’s about 50

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
26 weeks ago

Port Talbot

Sunday seems to be the busiest day for messages, especially after uploading a new pic. Everyone must be hungover, horny and wanking like mad!

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By *osWeCan69Couple
26 weeks ago

North West

We have had 2 this month LOL

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By *eekendVixenCouple
26 weeks ago

Leicester

To reply to all of them would literally be a full time job. We do our best though!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Probably average around 5 a day more if we upload a pic or vid. Maybe we have to up our game

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By *uliette500Woman
26 weeks ago

Hull

I easy clear 20 in a day, if I put up a pic or video it's has been in the 100's

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

But how many of these hundreds of messages actually get a reply and what kind of messages do you reply to?

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By *oelMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

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By *oelMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels

"20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.

Woah

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By *pgroupsexMan
26 weeks ago

Kingston

This is a REALLY interesting thread as I, for one, had no idea how swamped both single girls and couples get.

This explains a lot.

You can certainly see why, on the other side of things, some resort to a scattergun one-liner approach or simply copy/paste from a template.

I'm not sure how anyone who takes this seriously (so is actually trying to meet like minded people!) and who diligently reads a profile properly, so he can compose a respectful appropriate opening missive, ever even gets considered (let alone, for really popular people, as far as someone's in-box!).

I'm left thinking this is clearly a pure numbers game and wondering if it's ever worth even trying (certainly if you actually care who you meet). Somewhat disheartened by the numbers (and associated reality) I must say.

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By *ustus5555Woman
26 weeks ago

Mansfield

More like 20 per hour.

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By *arolTVTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Norwich

Dread to think how many messages women get, as a (not great) crossdresser I get 3 or 4 a day, mainly apparently straight men.

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By *uri00620Woman
26 weeks ago

Croydon

You can 20 by having a blank profile with no photo as a new member!

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By *ugar tWoman
26 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I get extreme amounts of messages over 100 a day so impossible to connect with some guys xx

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
26 weeks ago

Wolvo

Certain ladies get 20+ messages per day. Use of filters and hiding photos can significantly reduce messages. Having a desired look or trait can increase messages.

For some its a big ego boost, for others they know guys will message for attention, rather than genuine interest. A good example is arranging gangbangs, many men will message for details, assurances to attend etc but on the day very few turn up.

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By *lue_eyes86Man
26 weeks ago

London

I get no messages lol it’s very easy to manage the inbox

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By *riel13Woman
26 weeks ago

Northampton

I can, some days, now things have calmed down... It isn't an ego boost at all

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By *anonfire96Man
26 weeks ago

Mansfield

Not surprised really.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.

It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.

Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.

Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way."

So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?

Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.

Men 🤮

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Definitely not an ego boost. I only chat to forum peeps now, hidden profile so I don't get a massive amount through when hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.

It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.

Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.

Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way.

So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?

Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.

Men 🤮

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By *end1Man
26 weeks ago

southend on sea

I think your find most get more than 20+ OP hence why I no longer message single females or couples first as the chances of having your message read are very slim let alone replied too.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
26 weeks ago

Even I get 20+ some days, so I imagine women must get a lot more

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If my filters are open I always get that many or more.

Honestly, it's mostly a chore. Most people who message (not just men) don't bother to string sentences together, are rude/entitled, and the messages are more like spam.

Like imagine if you got 20+ texts a day "you really want Domino's" "sink your teeth into Burger King" "you need a cheeky Nando's" "I bet Five Guys would satisfy you". Even if you're in the market for a takeaway, it gets old fast.

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By *lackMetalMan
25 weeks ago

Centre

Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.

It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.

Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.

Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way.

So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?

Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.

Men 🤮

No I am not saying that. You are saying that.

You are going to get the good with the bad if you put provocative images online. That’s the reality.

You can’t control what people will do, but you have to be realistic about it and be prepared for it, like blocking all men from messaging you in the first place.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
25 weeks ago

La La Land

Possibly 10 a week and most of those messages are from the same person

Messaging filters are good

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By *aveing funCouple
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

O hell yes

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By *ewtfaceMan
25 weeks ago

Bracknell

The gender imbalance is insane. As single man I almost never get messages; I'm always the party asking first. 95% of messages don't get answered.

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