FabSwingers.com forum: Best icebreaker when inviting a single guy to you and the wife's hotel room on a spontaneous night?

By *ynergy OP Man
26 weeks ago

Manchester

Does hubby go down and meet him or he come to the room and what happens when he gets to the room how to break the ice? Like this is my wife etc ? Seems abit awkward lol or do you just get down straight to business

By *stwo60Couple
26 weeks ago

Hampshire

We normally meet for a drink first, just to make sure everyone is comfortable..

By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
26 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Does hubby go down and meet him or he come to the room and what happens when he gets to the room how to break the ice? Like this is my wife etc ? Seems abit awkward lol or do you just get down straight to business "

We normally meet in the bar and have a few drinks and a chat to make sure everyone is still comfortable with everything and that there is a good vibe. On our earlier meets we would all leave together however on our latest meets either hubby leaves us in the bar for another wee bit and we follow him up or we leave him in the bar and he follows us

A word of advice if you feel for any reason the chemistry isn’t there or you just don’t feel things are “right” don’t be afraid to just say thanks for meeting but you just not feeling it. I know this could be potentially hard to do but from experience I’ve went through with a meet where I wasn’t comfortable as I didn’t want to disappoint our guest and it wasn’t a pleasant experience for either of us and I wish we had said something earlier