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Profiles with no veris for a year or more?

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By *ussexDevils OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Brighton

It confuses us that we have so many messages from profiles that have had no verifications for a year or more, funny how none have actually come to anything

How recent do you want to see a verification to enter in to conversation??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm not really bothered.

We don't have any verifications from the last couple of years. The last person we met didn't verify us nor we him. Neither of us felt it was necessary.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

We haven’t had a verification for a while but that’s due to having a break, so don’t worry about recent ones, more the profiles with none that have been on here a while

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By *exySiren01Woman
2 weeks ago

RCT

Personally I don't look at the length of time from last veri

Take myself for example my last veri says 12 months ago but I've actually met people since then such as people I've met previously so no need to reverify or people who have no interest in doing verifications

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Most of my meets have been from users without verification and chose not to leave each other one, it's not compulsory and it's how many start off

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By *ichaelsmyMan
2 weeks ago

douglas

some simply collect veris

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By *otfoot377Man
2 weeks ago

Chingford

I don’t look great for verifications, personally I don’t ask, and haven’t bothered myself to send any. Mixed feelings on this subject, either way for me.

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By *9 kisses.Man
2 weeks ago

clacton on sea

Ive met couples and singles in the past, took a long break from here,

Maybe others have done the same,

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By *mbisextrousCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester/Glossop

Have had a long break, but have since met up with 2 couples a few times who aren’t on here anymore so they can’t verify us, saying that one is just drinks now as they don’t swing anymore xx

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By *atinaChica54Woman
2 weeks ago

Marlborough

I do like a bit of a nosey of verifications....but I can also be a little curious as to why someone who's been on here for a year or more doesn't have any....it's more a case of confirming the true identity of the person as I've come across some obvious fakes on here.

Not all my meets have done verifications as there has not felt the need to do one....

Or they have been forgettable fucks on occasion....

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I don’t really pay attention to them anymore, if they’re verified I know the chances of them being fake are lessened and that’s what matters.

Perhaps those who are verified but haven’t received a new one in a while have a regular fwb - I know I don’t expect or need a verification every time I meet mine.

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By *ny1localMan
2 weeks ago

READING

A simple reason not to show verifications is because I can. I know I'm real,and only an idiot would pretend to be an ancient old git like me.

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By *otuseater11Man
2 weeks ago

kilwinning

I like others on here don't really bother looking at verifications.i just go with the flow

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By *aveing funCouple
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Unfortunately then we avoid

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By *lanenakedMan
2 weeks ago

near you

Maybe some of us are fussy and have standards. I could certainly get more verifications if I was the kind of guy that would shag a barbers floor but well that just isn't me. The hot ladies are inundated so getting your messages seen and replied to is a tough enough ask never mind actually meeting them asking for a verification. If you aren't into going to clubs or live in the city it's extremely tricky to get verifications if you are in any way fussy. It's very much a numbers game in here and in more rural areas of Scotland there is literally zero pickings, never mind getting verifications.

In addition tbh, a list of verifications is really off putting.. yes it's a sex site and despite many people's best efforts to try and portray themselves as not shagging about on their profiles 'not wanting to shag the whole site' etc that's exactly what they are doing when you read the verifications.. lol.. "looking for a regular Feb" yet their veris which they select to be displayed says they shagged different people every 4 days .. commical ..

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
2 weeks ago

North West

We havent put veris up for over 3 years I think due to a weirdo messaging people on them about us.

Easy to prove you are legit.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
2 weeks ago

wickford

Had a cpl of meets recently but his no longer on fab, as long as fab verified and can chat on the phone if we decide to meet then all good for us x

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By *hesubtlegentMan
2 weeks ago

surrey

Seeing verifications gives a reassurance people are real. I also like to have a nosy through veri’s to see if I might be the type of guy the women I’m looking at go for. I would still message someone with no veri’s but I’d be hesitant to arrange anything until they had proved they are genuine.

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By *lanenakedMan
2 weeks ago

near you

People with verifications can still be assholes. You've really got to actually have chat and get to a meet to see for yourself.

They are however really helpful in finding the red flags if you follow the trail.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

People may have met up with existing friends in the last year and not verify each other every time they meet (that applies to us). Many profiles have recent fake verifications. It's up to the individual to judge whether a profile is real, following the verification trail helps.

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By *nkedguy777Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

My last verification is from early last year but believe me I do try and arrange meets but just can't seem to get any,so even though I have verifications I can understand it might put people off because it's from quite a while ago

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"We havent put veris up for over 3 years I think due to a weirdo messaging people on them about us.

Easy to prove you are legit."

Yeah another reason I have chosen to remove mine from display is I’ve had guys message someone I’ve met to see if they can “tag team”…. Just bypassing my own needs wants or consent

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Why do people put so much emphasis on someone else's opinion in a verification regardless of when it was written?

Are we really that lazy that we can't be arsed talking to people and forming our own ideas about them or would that then remove the ability to whinge when they don't turn up or aren't as amazing as TripAdvisor assured us they would be?

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By *endalshaggersCouple
2 weeks ago

Lake District

Interesting everyone's perceptions on verifications on this site: you seem dammed if you don't have any, but then questioned if you do!

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By *harAndBryCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We very rarely read verifications but we also won't meet anyone without a meet verification in the past twelve months. That nothing to do with them proving themselves genuine or anything, but more to prove that they do leave the house and meet and aren't just getting off on arranging meets they never turn up to.

The two common denominators in our no-shows are (a) no meet verifications and (b) over 50miles away.

(Bry)

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By *luefire2Couple
2 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

Not all meets are via FAB or with people on here.

We use other social media, which to be honest is more successful than here.

Veri's aren't everything. Obviously it helps to see if the person/couple exists but, veri's can be made up at the end of the day.

Mrs R

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By *ove2LurveCouple
2 weeks ago

Dartford


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Veri's aren't everything. Obviously it helps to see if the person/couple exists but, veri's can be made up at the end of the day.

Mrs R"

Veris could be faked, but it doesn't look to be really simple, as a veri needs to be from a separate username with a separate IP address/computer.

We have to say the only 'couples' who have really messed us about/failed to come to an arranged meeting are the ones who have no verifications.

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By *cgmcgMan
2 weeks ago

kingston

Not that bothered by veris, though like to see one. I notice a trend for new accounts to get immediate veris which I suspect are from separate accounts owned by the same person.

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By *ertcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

We can't seem to find anyone to meet us to give us one. We have met 2 others who don't do veris that was last year tho. Hope we can get some this year!!! X

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
2 weeks ago

london

We haven’t got any but have met up with other couples. C

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By *ertcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

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By *ickingdelightMan
2 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Haven’t met anyone from here in that time frame. Without the lack of trying. But women/couples have messaged but not confirmed to a meet.

Equally in that time frame life has been crazy from changing jobs, houses, growing family.

I don’t see veris as that useful, still had no shows from those verified

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By *itygamesMan
2 weeks ago

UK

some folk choose not to show verifications , some have had half a dozen very genuine ones but if the profile that left the veri leave the site , the veri leaves with it.

i think good communication prior to a meet more useful than a veri.

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple
2 weeks ago

North West


"We havent put veris up for over 3 years I think due to a weirdo messaging people on them about us.

Easy to prove you are legit.

Yeah another reason I have chosen to remove mine from display is I’ve had guys message someone I’ve met to see if they can “tag team”…. Just bypassing my own needs wants or consent "

Pretty much not far off us!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We haven't pushed this as hard the last 12 months as Mr isn't as interested in it anymore, so our verifications are older.

I need to encourage him back into the scene!!

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