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By *hole Nuts n Chill OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

B’stoke

Just wondering ….. due to recent ask to play alone

Couples who seek single males find it safer and preferable to opt for just the guy from another couples profile, if the female is ok with it?

In our mind on one hand it’s like why not , it’s easy and safe with no letting down. On the other could it be cause for drama. What do you think?

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
2 weeks ago

york

Ironic as we see alot that flat out refuse to go with half of couples (including ourselves).

Don't want to get In-between anything etc

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By *ature SpiceCouple
2 weeks ago

Ramsbottom


"Ironic as we see alot that flat out refuse to go with half of couples (including ourselves).

Don't want to get In-between anything etc"

We wont go with one half of a couple. Most that want that are fake profiles.

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Would make me wonder if it was a couple at all.

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I've been fortunate enough to have met with the M half of a MF couple and the get invited back to join both of them another time very flattering!

I'm sure there's a large amount of fake couples profiles but there are genuine MF couples who legitimately allow the M to play separately (within their agreed boundaries)

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By *helamontsCouple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Well as far as i'm aware there is no such thing as a Married Single Guy only un-married guys can be single ...

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By *andlerMan
2 weeks ago

shipley

Majority of people on here are men, men's sex drive is usually higher than that of lady, so there are going to be plenty of married men out there looking some extra activity.

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By *eo BillsMan
2 weeks ago

Westcliff On Sea

As I’m a single guy on here I have met some great couples to play with. It’s seems to be so many of us around that can ruin it for a lot of people?

I pride myself on being 100% genuine when meeting people as I hate time wasters.

It should be so much simpler meeting a single guy rather than a married guy as it is less drama I wished more couples looking for guys would use more single guys

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan
2 weeks ago

witney

If any couples are looking for a single no ties male to join them and fulfil some of their fantasies dm me and let's have some fun together

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By *unincornwallMan
2 weeks ago

launceston

Just be honest on your profile..if a couple are interested they will let you knowx

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By *endalshaggersCouple
2 weeks ago

Lake District

Interestingly enough I posted something similar on the forum the other day regarding meeting halves of couples - we had been trying to arrange some socials and due to work/life balance etc some proposed times only meant one or the other of us would be available. Every person we talked to outright refused to meet Mr alone - and said they "don't meet couples alone, just together" but all were expectionally keen to just meet me, Mrs, alone!

Personally I don't quite believe the "every couple is a fake profile" narrative that some on here peddle - I've already seen it in this thread! If that was the case then there'd be no one meeting anyone would there!

If a couple has verifications, which ironically some people complain if you don't have but then question them if you do, then use your judgement and gut feeling.

We would, although it is all depending on the circumstances. Everyone is different. Some people don't live this lifestyle 24/7 like others do. Some only meet in swingers clubs. Some prefer a coffee at Costa. Work, childcare, other responsibilities etc can get in the way and not everyone is available at every second of every day. It's each to their own.

C xoxo

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By *iGuy197747Man
2 weeks ago

Stamford

Good morning all,

I'm married but my wife no longer plays. It's all in the open and consensual but still find great reticence from other couples, or continued requests to know about my wife.

Whilst I understand that it can cause a degree of complication and everyone is free to make a choice etc, I was quite surprised by the negativity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't think married men who play singly from a couples profile are any safer or cause less drama than any other kind of single man. Human interactions can get messy and unsafe whatever the marital status and type of permission the participants have.

I'd argue that a guy without permission or the knowledge of his partner is probably going to more discreet and aware if safety than a lot of others but 🤷‍♀️

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Good morning all,

I'm married but my wife no longer plays. It's all in the open and consensual but still find great reticence from other couples, or continued requests to know about my wife.

Whilst I understand that it can cause a degree of complication and everyone is free to make a choice etc, I was quite surprised by the negativity. "

From day one we decided not to meet partnered men playing alone whatever their circumstances. We're not negative towards them but it's a sledgehammer to crack a walnut approach that works for us.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands


"Just wondering ….. due to recent ask to play alone

Couples who seek single males find it safer and preferable to opt for just the guy from another couples profile, if the female is ok with it?

In our mind on one hand it’s like why not , it’s easy and safe with no letting down. On the other could it be cause for drama. What do you think?"

Sounds like potential for drama, and there are so many swinging couples that split up . If we were looking for a single guy we would choose one that has genuine verifications showing he accommodates (many aren't actually single).

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