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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed on a few profile "no cut & paste messages"

Am I being really thick or is it actually what I think? Blokes write one message and paste it into a message to someone else?

I personally don't understand the reason why?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its not usually a one line message. As you say, what would be the point.

Most C&P messages are either a very long 'erotic' story about what they want to do with you. For example, any that start off with 'you are sat at the bar. Your long legs look inviting in black sheer stockings....' are going to be C&P. Or any message with the wrong name or a generic 'you guys' is a dead giveaway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not usually a one line message. As you say, what would be the point.

Most C&P messages are either a very long 'erotic' story about what they want to do with you. For example, any that start off with 'you are sat at the bar. Your long legs look inviting in black sheer stockings....' are going to be C&P. Or any message with the wrong name or a generic 'you guys' is a dead giveaway."

Oh yes chapter and verse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, I thought it was being a wally!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same gent that sent me the same cut and paste message twice, a good few months apart, as he had forgotten that I turned him down the first time.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I had the same gent that sent me the same cut and paste message twice, a good few months apart, as he had forgotten that I turned him down the first time.

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There was a post on here ages ago about a guy who sent the same message out constantly. He had sent it to about 10 women on the forums. Very attractive, that sort of personal thought.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I can't blame them....they hardly get replies so why waste their time writing a mail out everytime.

We use cut and paste to send no thanks out.....shoot us

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I proactively messaged looking for meets, I would copy and paste the main body of a message and add to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't blame them....they hardly get replies so why waste their time writing a mail out everytime.

We use cut and paste to send no thanks out.....shoot us "

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I would do the same, however, it takes less time to type it out than to locate the Notepad file on my lappy as I can't remember where I have filed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always take the time to personalise a message to a recipient based on what they are looking for.

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

I've always used cut and paste in job applications, then substantially tailored it for the specific institution. I knew of someone who applied for pupillage (to become a barrister); arrived at the inter_iew and was asked, "why did you address your cover letter to a different set?" She got the pupillage though.

We got an email a few weeks ago from a sexy couple with what seemed to be a short but thought out message. We couldn't make it and said so (nicely); no further reply, and a few days ago we received exactly the same message again.

I'm sure there's a point in there somewhere.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I think I should do a stock reply for all the copy n paste messages we receive from guys who clearly don't read our profile.

I have literally just typed out yet another individual reply to yet another copy n paste request. I could save myself the hassle if I employed the same method as a lot of guys on here.

I don't get my knickers in a knot over it though - it's just a tad tedious.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I can't blame them....they hardly get replies so why waste their time writing a mail out everytime.

We use cut and paste to send no thanks out.....shoot us "

I frequently copy and paste messages and make no apologies for doing so. I used to make more of an effort but soon realised that it made little or no difference, as the majority of the messages just get deleted anyway. Now I usually send out some kind of generic ice breaker and if I get a reply then I'll be more creative with the next message.

I still read people's profiles and will make minor adjustments as necessary but I tend to avoid the profiles with a long list of do's and don'ts anyway.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker "

I never know whether to ignore them or let them know what they did wrong.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker

I never know whether to ignore them or let them know what they did wrong. "

It depends on my mood at the time, can be a little fun pointing out their school boy error

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

'you are sat at the bar. Your long legs look inviting in black sheer stockings....'

Can you please fill in the rest of the details ,, I could do with a good read,, , don t leave a guy hanging,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker

I never know whether to ignore them or let them know what they did wrong. "

I'll usually let them know the must have the wrong profile as that's not my name...and they'll often reply to say fancy a shag anyway!!

Can understand the cut n paste messages but think it does need a bit of personalisation after the paste too, even if it is just the name

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"'you are sat at the bar. Your long legs look inviting in black sheer stockings....'

Can you please fill in the rest of the details ,, I could do with a good read,, , don t leave a guy hanging,, "

LOL pretend to be a woman on here and you'll get enough of them sent to you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker

I never know whether to ignore them or let them know what they did wrong. "

I've sent back

Thank you for the message. Again. You've sent me this message 2/3/4 times already this week/month. My reply is still thanks but no thanks. Good luck and happy swinging

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I find it amusing when they forget to change the name of who they are addressing, nothing gives them away quicker

I never know whether to ignore them or let them know what they did wrong.

I've sent back

Thank you for the message. Again. You've sent me this message 2/3/4 times already this week/month. My reply is still thanks but no thanks. Good luck and happy swinging "

*copies for future pasting*

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Wouldn't this site be perfect if we all just sit down and looking at each other profiles and never send a message???? No matter how hard you try you will never please everybody

You copy and paste, delete

You taylor the message delete.

Thank god some nice ladies are still making it worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed on a few profile "no cut & paste messages"

Am I being really thick or is it actually what I think? Blokes write one message and paste it into a message to someone else?

I personally don't understand the reason why?

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I hate these never read them just delete them.a lot of party ones are like this.can understand why in that context .but other wise think it shows lack of manners and originality .hate those messages just delete delete delete usually some bogus time waster I find as profile often disappears within 24 hours so probably a researcher doing a thesis or some thing as usually attach hot pics too,poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't blame them....they hardly get replies so why waste their time writing a mail out everytime.

We use cut and paste to send no thanks out.....shoot us "

Agreed, I copy and paste all the time, I don't see the problem tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never sent one..however i do have a basic 'hi' routine asking if theres any interest and that a nothanks is fine

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks"

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??"

If it starts with the wrong name, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??"

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Yes, all the time in fact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??

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Yes, all the time in fact!

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Each to their own, but you could end up with sycophants who just tell you what you want to hear

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks"

So, out of the thousands of profiles on here a guy can't find 20 people interesting or attractive?

If you had to send one message at a time and wait several days for either a reply of for it just to be deleted it would take a lifetime to arrange a meet!

Of course people send out multiple messages, it doesn't mean they are desperate or indescriminate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??

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Yes, all the time in fact!

Each to their own, but you could end up with sycophants who just tell you what you want to hear"

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I'll take that chance.

Usually they give up after reading the paragraph!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks

So, out of the thousands of profiles on here a guy can't find 20 people interesting or attractive?

If you had to send one message at a time and wait several days for either a reply of for it just to be deleted it would take a lifetime to arrange a meet!

Of course people send out multiple messages, it doesn't mean they are desperate or indescriminate. "

I agree, the 'fancy a shag message' type are obviously chancers but I think some people are deluded and think they are 'above' a generic message,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought "cut & paste" was from Art Attack or what a decorator does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??

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Yes, all the time in fact!

Each to their own, but you could end up with sycophants who just tell you what you want to hear

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I'll take that chance.

Usually they give up after reading the paragraph! "

Haha, it is a bit of a long profile

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"Get them all the time. I will often mesage them back and say that I am not interested in blanket copy and paste mesages that arent written for me as its one for all.

That tells me they are just looking for a shag and not bothered which of the 20 females they sent it to replies.

If a man wants to meet me and specifically me he will write a message that is purely for me. Otherwise....no thanks

Fair enough, but a first message is just to say hi and to see if there is any interest, do you honesty dismiss someone purely on an initial message??"

...in answer yes. If the message isnt written for me then it gets deleted.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I want soneone to want to meet me and message me. It be individual to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a belter the other week...

Bla bla bla 'I bend you over while your husband watches'

Husband? I'm single and on a single fem profile Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent back

Thank you for the message. Again. You've sent me this message 2/3/4 times already this week/month. My reply is still thanks but no thanks. Good luck and happy swinging "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this, put my name in th subject box but the actual message itself has someone elses name in it lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I have had this, put my name in th subject box but the actual message itself has someone elses name in it lol"

Had that many times too

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

to who it may concern i think we/ you /she/ he /they delete as appropriate could have a great time together... please send you bank details as i got 70000000000,000000 pounds to get out of this country hope yo dont think i send this to everyone xxx olov

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one a few days ago.... Read it and ignored (yep i'm an ignorant Bitch) then 15 mins later same guy sent me the same message.... Classy

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

For the guys that think its the way to go...o well x

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