FabSwingers.com forum: Alarmist messages

By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

I got an email from a couple the other day saying "you need to contact us!" and that was it.

Initially, I was worried, cos it sounded like someone i know in everyday life had discovered I was on here, then I thought it could be long lost friends or family, but they were white.

It turns out it was just their way of saying hi. Very confident, which is good.

Has anyone had this or messages in a similar vein?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I might adopt it as my new messaging tactic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I might adopt it as my new messaging tactic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had the odd one of single men

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got an email from a couple the other day saying "you need to contact us!" and that was it.

Initially, I was worried, cos it sounded like someone i know in everyday life had discovered I was on here, then I thought it could be long lost friends or family, but they were white.

It turns out it was just their way of saying hi. Very confident, which is good.

Has anyone had this or messages in a similar vein?"

We can't be bothered with emails that are obviously created in mind with the teachings of David deangelo

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Oh no! Not another one.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Oh no! Not another one."

Didn't work though

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

"I got an email from a couple the other day saying "you need to contact us!" and that was it.

Initially, I was worried, cos it sounded like someone i know in everyday life had discovered I was on here, then I thought it could be long lost friends or family, but they were white.

It turns out it was just their way of saying hi. Very confident, which is good.

Has anyone had this or messages in a similar vein?

We can't be bothered with emails that are obviously created in mind with the teachings of David deangelo

You reckon that's what it was, some NLP stuff? Well I guess you can't fault them for not doing their research before getting on here

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Oh no! Not another one.

Didn't work though

Well there was no message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if I message someone saying that I'm in Sierra Leone and I need their help in securing some funds from a Swiss bank account left to me by my wealthy step-father General Anongu who has recently passed away, all I need is their bank account number, sort code and name of their first pet?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"What if I message someone saying that I'm in Sierra Leone and I need their help in securing some funds from a Swiss bank account left to me by my wealthy step-father General Anongu who has recently passed away, all I need is their bank account number, sort code and name of their first pet?"

No problem. You want the details on here or should I pm them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem. You want the details on here or should I pm them?"

Best do it in PM, there's a lot of dodgy people out there who will try and acquire your personal banking details for their own dastardly ends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sort of thing happens a fair bit.

Messages that seem to be part of a previous (non-existant!) conversation, those saying "Thanks for the wink/friends invite/message" when there hasn't been one, or just a message saying "Hi - it's (insert name here) - this is my new profile, can you verify me from when we met before".

All with the aim of illiciting a response. Some get away with it - but I suspect the majority of others are confined to the trash can without a seconds thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Another emergency here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get things like this

' Oh wow you looked good the other day when I saw you'

Similar to that too

Interesting way to get people to respond but also v creepy so they get blocked straight after

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

I would say the name of my pet is not my security question and proceed to give them the correct security question and answer!

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Another emergency here!!!

Hahha, what could this emergency possibly be?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah there is fine line between confidence and arrogance and mostly it's the latter

Block list is full of them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get a lot from men along the lines of 'you will reply to this message' with very little else. No, I won't.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Another emergency here!!!

Hahha, what could this emergency possibly be?!"

Well I could do with some mouth to mouth and chest massage, don't know about the others.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

That's the sort of message you get from people who have had bad news at the clap clinic lol. Oops sorry sexual health clinic!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I get things like this

' Oh wow you looked good the other day when I saw you'

Similar to that too

Interesting way to get people to respond but also v creepy so they get blocked straight after "

I'd find it creepy and block too. Some people are truly clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get things like this

' Oh wow you looked good the other day when I saw you'

Similar to that too

Interesting way to get people to respond but also v creepy so they get blocked straight after

I'd find it creepy and block too. Some people are truly clueless! "

I havent, but id delete and block

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By *lackMetal OP Man
over a year ago

Centre

"Wow OP

You do need to contact me though

It's an emergency

Another emergency here!!!

Hahha, what could this emergency possibly be?!

Well I could do with some mouth to mouth and chest massage, don't know about the others.

I am sure we can make up the others as we go along..

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