FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting Etiquette

By *ittyKateUK OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm meeting a couple with my FWB tomorrow. He knows them already. We're meeting at his. What's the etiquette?!

We've all said no expectations, see what happens. But I'm awkward enough at the best of times. What do you all do when first meeting a couple?

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By *eo BillsMan
3 weeks ago

Westcliff On Sea

When meeting people for the first time I always go with the expectation of just have fun together! You are under no obligation to play together. If you just have a few drinks and a dance and have a good time doing that

and if you do end up playing together then bonus

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By *irDomMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Enjoy the nerves and weirdness at the beginning of the meet but only play if it feels right. You can leave anytime you want and anyone who says differently doesn’t respect you.

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By *evergiveupMan
3 weeks ago

derbyshire

Your FWB should know your apprehension and make sure he looks out for you and ensures you feel comfortable

As others have said - you shouldn't feel under any pressure to " perform" and if you don't feel the sexual chemistry - don't play.

Good luck and I am sure it will be fun

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By *ittyKateUK OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Was all OK ☺️ thank you for the advice

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By *inge84Woman
3 weeks ago

RCT

I like to get straight into it haha

But thats where all the pre meet comes into it and what everyone likes

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By *ympho6969Woman
3 weeks ago

glasgow

My advice will probably mimic the rest. Go in thinking it's a social and nothing more. Then if more happens, it's like a bonus.

On a more sour note, don't be offended if they bow out, and be ready to do the same if the vibe ain't there. Never do something you're not comfortable with just cos you don't want an awkward 'thanks but no thanks". Have a polite rejection planned to save the put on the spot feeling

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By *uri00620Woman
3 weeks ago

Croydon

I like sex then chat. I find the social stuff goes much better and any awkwardness is diffused by then

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By *inge84Woman
3 weeks ago

RCT

This is why I like to get straight into it especially if people are nervous.

Nerves just melt away into pleasure lol

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