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By *atcher-or-more OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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I’ve been on this site for years and love the banter. My partner of 22years passed away last year and now I’m betwixed and between enjoying my sex life but I’m still grieving that in turn creates guilt. I miss the affection and yearn to kiss hug snuggle with. Anyone else going through the same thing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Firstly I'm very sorry that your wife has passed away.

I'm lucky in that I have no experience of your situation but have watched my father go through it. I think the need for human physical contact never goes away and grief doesn't diminish it. Guilt is another thing altogether and I can't tell you not to feel it, but you shouldn't

Best wishes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Sorry, your partner

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By *atcher-or-more OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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Thank you I know everyone is different in how they grieve but human touch and affection I miss. She was my life x

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By *ee69Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Hooe you can find something for yourself between the need for affection and validation and any guilt too , a have a situation myself and hence why I’m on here a hope you find something and peece for yourself too m8

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By *atcher-or-more OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"Hooe you can find something for yourself between the need for affection and validation and any guilt too , a have a situation myself and hence why I’m on here a hope you find something and peece for yourself too m8"

Thank you

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By *lex CoxMan
2 weeks ago

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"I’ve been on this site for years and love the banter. My partner of 22years passed away last year and now I’m betwixed and between enjoying my sex life but I’m still grieving that in turn creates guilt. I miss the affection and yearn to kiss hug snuggle with. Anyone else going through the same thing?"

Sorry so sorry to hear that I had a soulmate for 21 years also I really know how that feels.

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By *uckcouple17Couple
2 weeks ago

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not sure if this helps, my nan died years ago, and my grandad pretty much just gave up and passed away a few months after, i always thought of course hes always going to miss her but surely she'd have wanted him to carry on and be happy

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By *atcher-or-more OP   Man
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"not sure if this helps, my nan died years ago, and my grandad pretty much just gave up and passed away a few months after, i always thought of course hes always going to miss her but surely she'd have wanted him to carry on and be happy "

Yes I believe so too

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By *atcher-or-more OP   Man
2 weeks ago

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"I’ve been on this site for years and love the banter. My partner of 22years passed away last year and now I’m betwixed and between enjoying my sex life but I’m still grieving that in turn creates guilt. I miss the affection and yearn to kiss hug snuggle with. Anyone else going through the same thing?

Sorry so sorry to hear that I had a soulmate for 21 years also I really know how that feels. "

Thank you

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