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Am I Bi-Curious or Bi-Sexual?

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By *idnight-Mike OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Macclesfield

I don’t have any desire to play solo with other guys, but if there’s both a guy and girl and me, then I’d be up for sucking a guy off if I’m horny enough, and he has decent looking cock. I’d also be curious to suck a trans female I found attractive

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By *tsJustKateWoman
2 weeks ago

London

Bi- sexual

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By *eilandChazzCouple
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Bi-curious.

Chazz xx

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By *idnight-Mike OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Macclesfield

This is what I mean 😂

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
2 weeks ago

Next Door

Bi-curious, because you might try it.

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By *idnight-Mike OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Macclesfield


"Bi-curious, because you might try it.

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Thanks. So if I had tried it, and would do it again (but still not solo with a guy), would I then be bi-sexual? Or still bi-curious? Or even straight?

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By *ickyJJ2024Couple
2 weeks ago

rotherham

As a guy that gets 100% where your coming from and plays the same I'd say bi-curious.

I would never have the desire to kiss a guy in the moment or otherwise and I don't see guys and think oooof. So I'd say I'm bicurious.

But that's just my point of view.

J

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

As a rule of thumb you are bi- curious if as it suggests you're still at the curious stage. Bi-sexual if you have actually taken it further and actually done some form of sexual activity with another guy even if it was playing as a mmf threesome.

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By *idnight-Mike OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Macclesfield


"As a guy that gets 100% where your coming from and plays the same I'd say bi-curious.

I would never have the desire to kiss a guy in the moment or otherwise and I don't see guys and think oooof. So I'd say I'm bicurious.

But that's just my point of view.

J "

Thanks man. I guess it’s very nuanced and there’s no correct definition. It comes down to each individual.

It’s just if I set my profile to bi curious, then some guys might think I’d be tempted by them, and if I put bi sexual, then some guys would assume I enjoy being with guys (which they’re well within their right to think - but isn’t the case).

But then MF couples looking for a bi-sexual male might be put off by me being only ‘bi-curious’, but in that context (with a guy and girl) I’m more bi-sexual if that makes sense. So confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

You are what you are... it's nobody else's job to define you and what they think of you us none of your business.

Pick a label, or don't. If anyone disagrees then that's their opinion. And like all opinions, they're just like penises.

It's 9kay to have them

It's okay to be proud of them

But when you wave it around and try to stick it down my throat, that's when we're gonna have a problem

Just because some people are so weak and fragile they need you to fit in a box they define doesn't mean you have to massage their ego.

IMHO...

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By *urvybeautyandthebeastCouple
2 weeks ago

narborough

There can be boundaries to your sexuality… I would class myself as sexually bi but romantically hetero.

Mr is orally bi. But only in group situations if the mood takes him.

Labels are subjective! You can choose for yourself!

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By *heonlycunnilinguyMan
2 weeks ago

Yeovil

Does it need a label????? You like what you like, just enjoy when you do

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By *exy bbw playtimeWoman
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

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By *exy bbw playtimeWoman
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

At the end of the day if your messaging someone that's interested your likely to cover limits and likes beforehand so you can discuss that stuff further regardless of whether your profile says bicurious or bisexual. We all like different things and all have our own icks regardless of the label.

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
2 weeks ago

Stroud

I have no intention of meeting a guy 1-2-1 for play. But more than happy to play (top) with a guy as part of mmf. I really don't care what label anyone puts on that. I consider myself bi.

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By *urious130Man
2 weeks ago

Bolton

To be honest...does it matter ? If you like it do it.

If you're not sure then satisfy your curiosity one way or the other. It's your mind body and soul and your free to be whoever and what you want to be my friend.

Don't let a label be a controlling fac5orif that's your concern.

Go with your feelings and desires..... no-one here will judge you for it.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

I'm the same with women. Won't meet alone but in group play very happy to go with the flow and enjoy it. On other sites you can pick hetexible which I think describes me best!

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By *on_departCouple
2 weeks ago

West Midlands

Bisexuality spectrum

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Not tried it = curious

Tried it, liked it, went back for more = sexual

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By *ickingdelightMan
2 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Bi curious is definitely someone curious to explore…

Similar quandaries - not attracted by a male, or turned on by male anatomy. But kinky and curious to explore with a male. But wouldn’t be comfortable or horny enough to meet 121 but mmf seems intriguing…

Hetexible is what seems similar to those situations

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By *azjaMan
2 weeks ago

Swindon

If I suck cock and swallow am I bisexual

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By *damjamie00Man
2 weeks ago

Haslemere

Bi sexual

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By *umagain58Man
2 weeks ago

London

Does it matter

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By *ust want fun 888Man
2 weeks ago

nearby

You’re not a thief until you pinch something, so therefore unless you haven’t pinched anything yet, you’re just thinking about it

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By *estiswestMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Labels are pointless

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
2 weeks ago

Home


"Labels are pointless "
100% right

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By *othwaysnudeMan
2 weeks ago

chesterfield

18 years in a relationship with female but love fucking guys

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By *othwaysnudeMan
2 weeks ago

chesterfield

So I’m bi

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By *D07Man
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Bi but just oral. I like to suck dick. Nothing else.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
2 weeks ago

north of lincoln

For a bi couple point of view. We would say you’re bi sexual.

But you will put off your target audience by listing straight. We wouldn’t find you in a search when looking for a bi guy. And if you messaged aging in bi but don’t want to put women off or that putting bi means you get harassed then we wouldn’t see you as genuine. It’s very easy to put bi and block guys from messaging you.

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By *ealEnigmaEyesMan
2 weeks ago

South Wimbledon

It’s Bi curious!

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By *tevenwantstoMan
2 weeks ago

dorset

I dont put labels

If it feels right go for it in my view

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By *omRachCouple
2 weeks ago

Wirral

You're bi curious up to the the point you do it for the 1st time. If you try it a 2nd time you can (in my opinion) consider yourself bisexual.

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By *afe and shavenCouple
2 weeks ago

Ipswich


"You're bi curious up to the the point you do it for the 1st time. If you try it a 2nd time you can (in my opinion) consider yourself bisexual."

Agreed

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By *on_departCouple
2 weeks ago

West Midlands


"You're bi curious up to the the point you do it for the 1st time. If you try it a 2nd time you can (in my opinion) consider yourself bisexual."

This implies people who’ve never had sex do not have a sexual orientation, which is false. Orientation is who you are attracted to, not whether you have done the act.

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