FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By *ockedLoaded OP Man
3 weeks ago

surrey

Can't seem to get a meet on here even a social meet. Is there something I'm doing wrong? I get I might not be some people's 'type' but even when I seem to match what they are looking for still get ignored

What else should I add to my profile? I know it won't be perfect so would appreciate some pointers. Please no hate just help and direction.

Thank you

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By *wingnswitchCouple
3 weeks ago

NEWARK

"Can't seem to get a meet on here even a social meet. Is there something I'm doing wrong? I get I might not be some people's 'type' but even when I seem to match what they are looking for still get ignored

What else should I add to my profile? I know it won't be perfect so would appreciate some pointers. Please no hate just help and direction.

Thank you

Op your profile is good well written but am guessing it's the 3 out of 4 pics that are dick pics and that puts off alot of women and couples use pics of your body clothed or unclothed. Hope that helps

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By *ockforplay66Man
3 weeks ago

Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere

Your profile seems fine, I’m afraid sometimes this site just doesn’t get you the meets you might want.

I have been on her for years, and sometimes I get lots of replies, sometimes I get none. It’s just the luck of the draw sometimes.

Don’t give up hope. Keep sending messages out, make sure they are properly thought out and well written and just be patient. Something will come along at some point.

Best of luck!!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
3 weeks ago

I'd remove a couple of the cock pics and add a few more of you, Keep a eye out for local social events near you either vanilla club/pub events or ones arranged at clubs, if they're on forum posts let people know going and you're new to them so they know who you're before attending

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
3 weeks ago

fabland

What else should I add to my profile? I know it won't be perfect so would appreciate some pointers. Please no hate just help and direction.

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also look at the other 99 threads about this

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By *umagain58Man
3 weeks ago

London

It’s down to chat and can happen. Just be nice and be yourself and you never know. Took me a long time to get first verified meet. Not stopped since. Good luck

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By *on_departCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Your profile is all about what you want and says nothing about what you can offer

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwichish

Go to socials go to clubs.

Have some less sexual pics on your profile.

And 4 weeks? This isn’t Tinder or PoF, to be fair you’d probably have more luck for a ONS or FWB date person on there.

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By *evonrobMan
3 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

All of the above but be positive at all times! If you’re relentlessly optimistic things will happen for you!

Good luck….

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By *andPextraCouple
3 weeks ago

North West

Just my opinion, others may not share. Unless you have a freakishly large (or small) cock that you need to showcase to attract a particular demographic most men with a “normal” cock would be better served not having endless pictures of it, with little or no variety. Your target audience is well aware what they look like

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Agree with other posters op

3 of your 4 pics are of your pecker, put a couple private or friends only.

Think about adding some pics that leave something to the imagination.

A bit of what you can offer meets, rather all about than what you're looking for.

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By *on_departCouple
3 weeks ago

West Midlands

Amazing how many people advise that men not fill their profile with dick pics, and men continue to ignore this advice.

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By *enatton2Couple
2 weeks ago

West Midlands

It’s a numbers game, you’re part of a large crowd and what you’re looking for is the minority.

You’ve been here five weeks, patience is the name of the game on here.

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
2 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I actually still like to be treated in an almost romantic way when a man introduces himself

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By *ockedLoaded OP Man
2 weeks ago

surrey

What else should I add to my profile? I know it won't be perfect so would appreciate some pointers. Please no hate just help and direction.

Thank you

Thank you will take some more pics of body and hide some cock pics.

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By *punk n gushCouple
2 weeks ago

deal

Your profile needs more photos and more information about what you enjoy doing in the fab world other than you like the bigger lady we have no idea how you like a meet to go ie wether you enjoy certain foreplay or you just like to get down and have straight sex our profile may appear to some as blunt and to honest but it saves us wasting time with people we would not be compatible with we find it works we have had a few meets and have had compliments at how honest we are

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