FabSwingers.com forum: When did you first realize you were kinky?

By *ruceyy OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

I mean, we are all kinky here right? 😘😂

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By *utlongjohnMan
4 weeks ago

Define kinky

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
4 weeks ago

Suffolk

Very young

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By *ryagain2Man
4 weeks ago

Morecambe

Same

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham/midlands

When I was a young lad I watched a couple fucking in a swimming baths changing room, looking under their cubicle. At that point I thought… yeah I’m kinky. It was glorious.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
4 weeks ago

Addlestone

Everyone one has some degree of kink, but looking back I have always been (bdsm) kinky but just did not know it. A partner at the time pointed it out to me many years.

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By *ndrew999Man
4 weeks ago

Cumbria area

Not until I was in my mid 40’s after attending a club where I met a bi couple

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By *attyduk76Man
4 weeks ago

nearby

When I caught my gf being fingered in a pub garden and got hard … I was 17

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Dudley

Playground games a girl tied me to some chain link fencing I quite enjoyed it but was to young to understand why …. 50yrs later I now know why

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
4 weeks ago

Ipswich

Definitely we both realised we were not your usual attitudes to sex when we were younger. But only began acting out on our kinks later in life as we realised we were missing out and normal attitudes suck.

Mr was swinging before we got together and Mrs joined in the lifestyle as soon as we got together. Not looked back since, although we are not prolific

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Don't think there was a 'lightbulb' moment.

I'd always felt that sex should be a little more exciting than I'd experienced and then I met D!! Christ I was right!! 🤣😈

However he says he felt similar, but he'd never been with someone who both enjoyed and encouraged his deviant side or at least he felt secure in sharing it with.. x

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By *haggie MayWoman
4 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

In my younger years although back then I was more or less having same old run of the mill boring sex always knew I wanted more excitement but being younger and lacked the confidence to say to what I wanted , split with the boyfriend back then and had a MMF after a night out and loved it ,I loved the power I had in it and the way the guys responded to it. To this day it's been the only time I have participated in it, had a few FFM though but only one MMF . I realised pretty quickly vanilla wasn't for me but never got into "swinging" until I was 30 , was a guy I had a mutual arrangement with who suggested it would be a good fit for me and I've never looked back .

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By *TWboyMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

It’s only Kinky the first time !! 😀

But seriously I’m still not sure if I am or not. What is one person’s kinky is another’s normal…..

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple
4 weeks ago

Leicester

Me here and I think it was when I met my wife and told her about my love for nylons she then gave me some to put and we fucked like rabbits, we have also joined Fet now.

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By *oonbath89Man
4 weeks ago

radstock

Hearing members of my household fucking growing up and my little solider stood to attention

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By *xcalibur77Man
4 weeks ago

Adlington chorley

Getting an erection in the showers after rugby practice because one guy had the biggest suckable cock I’ve ever seen in my life !

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By *llFunPlayMan
4 weeks ago

Woking

I feel less out there after being on here for a while, turns out i am somewhere in the middle of the scale

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By *aughtyloversCouple
4 weeks ago

Hull

Some things we definitely wouldn’t share here but have with each other looking back

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By *iredhandMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I don’t see it as kinky. More that everyone else has some catching up to do…😂

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By *ndisMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

When I was tied to the bed and was getting ducked from behind with a leather hood on.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

When I was late teenager early 20s girl in village that had slept half lads in village . How much liked her saying what she been upto then fucking her.

Same as once working away from home got told stay away from a girl as known as local bike !!! I was straight there

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By *apio51Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I don’t know. I thought I had some kinks but when I tried them I found I didn’t really enjoy them.

I have some that I’ve tried and do like, but o can’t put my finger on when.

I think they originate from watching porn, which I no longer do to the same extent, so I guess my late twenties.

I like the connection of minds (hence the profile name). Is that a kink? I have a couple of others but I’m not really that wild tbh.

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By *othwaysnudeMan
4 weeks ago

chesterfield

17 started with anal with gf then her fingering mine

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By *aple syrupWoman
4 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I must have been in my twenties and was with an older man and he use to tie me up and just loved it. After that we had a few FFM and then just went from there

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By *i ExplorersCouple
4 weeks ago

London

When a beautiful submissive playmate showed me the absolute joy of hard dom sub play. The most intimate and horny sexual awakeningEVER!

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By *igkissMan
4 weeks ago

Swadlincote

When I was about 13 sniffing my mother's knickers

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By *eally_RosieWoman
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

When I realised one day that every time I was masturbating it was about different guys forcing me to do all kinds of debauched things.

Some things will always stay fantasy… but it did prompt a convo with Hubby about letting other men into our sex life

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By *orester891Man
4 weeks ago

Early 20’s

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By *inkster seekingMan
4 weeks ago

Ponty

When I was in my teens, when I discovered wearing stockings and knickers a turn on while I walked.

Then I really knew the first time I discovered BDSM and served a Mistress in my twenties

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By *TWboyMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

"I don’t see it as kinky. More that everyone else has some catching up to do…😂"

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

Still waiting to see if I am

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By *TWboyMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

When my wife’s friend told us she often was wrapped in sellotape and clingfilm by her ex during sex and I thought ‘we’ve got to try that’ - aged about 25 I think……

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By *inky PaulMan
4 weeks ago

Riddings

In my mid 20s. I'd been with my girlfriend a few years and the sex was good and frequent. I gave her feet a good lick on regular occasions and never thought it kinky or a fetish. It was my growing desire to ask her to knee or squeeze my balls that made me think.

Didn't ask her as thought she would find it odd.

Eventually sought the services of a pro domme and never looked back.

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By *arks hammerMan
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

When I had my first ever orgasm using a Dyson hoover to suck me off...

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By *ampire69Man
4 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

borrowing knickers to lick taste sniff asa teen 😋

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By *ohnwest20Man
4 weeks ago

consett

When was turned on hearing sister being pounded and feeling cock stiffen

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Probably finding and watchingsome BDSM porn when I was younger and also rummaging through underwear drawers.

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By *inkyPair2018Couple
4 weeks ago

Wolves and Northants

Mrs here

Probably about age 19

I’ve always engaged in super uber fun sex but didn’t play around with kink until about age 30.

Then met mr and it’s rocked right off the charts since then so the last 6.5 years had been raucous! And v liberating

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

When I was about 14 I watched a documentary about BDSM on channel 4 one evening and was shocked but it also kinda intrigued. That curiosity never left me over the years, it just took me a good while to try exploring any of it.

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By *nniebellaWoman
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

I was about 17 and my boyfriend tied my hands to the chair and teased me ... I've never looked back

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By *ruceyy OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

"I was about 17 and my boyfriend tied my hands to the chair and teased me ... I've never looked back

You should look forward! To me 😘

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By *antricSeeker60Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

After dressing in heels and stockings for the first time being pegged.

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By *ddfellowMan
4 weeks ago

Newferry, wirral

age 16 or 17 when I found my dads contact mags and came across a photo of a ts with a big cock and got an instant hard on, and thought I have to try that

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