FabSwingers.com forum: Red Flag / Green Flag

By *sca OP Man
9 weeks ago

St Albans

Interested to hear what you number one ‘red flags’ and ‘green flags’ might be, when browsing profiles on Fab?

For me it’s pretty much:

Green Flag - does the profile gave more than a couple of (coherent, informative) sentences describing what you’re seeking.

Red Flag - badly taken photo’s with a really untidy room in the background (I know, I know!).

What are yours?

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By *WANDTGCouple
9 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Green flag : a couples photo.

Red flags : Dated pics/Veris , especially on a so called couples profile. Straight but can be bi for the afternoon men !

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By *andR2playCouple
9 weeks ago

Wakefield

Green flag: recent photos of the male member of the party, in the couple, full body.

Red Flag: no photos at all with very little description

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

Too many to mention specifically but in general

Green flag = respect, understanding, lack of entitlement

Red flag = demonstrable lack of above.

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By *tickler2000Man
9 weeks ago

St Agnes

Green flag. Well written profile that has had some thought put into it.

Red flag. Demands for photo to be sent with the first message when they, themselves have none at all on their profile

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By *aprica2Couple
9 weeks ago

Chertsey

Green flags:- a polite message addressing us both and reading the profile, start a conversation on possible mutual interests, have a profile that might spark some intrest.

Red flags:- this one is an instant delete, hey how are you, dick pics in the message, blank profile, just telling us what they want to do to the Mrs not thought that the male is involved like she's just some fuck toy.

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By *s-two-75Couple
9 weeks ago

visiting .

Red flag - messages starting hey babe, or you look hot. Clealrly shows not read our profile and only in the lady.

Green flag- good pics, not just full dick pics, manners, addressing both and profile says bi not fab straight

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By *eeshellsCouple
9 weeks ago

Reading

Green Flag: variety of pictures, mostly of body. Interesting bio setting out what they are looking for.

Red flag: Just close ups of genitalia, toilets, clutter.

Short bio.

Bad grammar.

No profile pic.

Silly privacy text in bio.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

Green - respectful unpressured

Red - pressure, push to off-site, lack of respect

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
9 weeks ago

Durham

Red flag: A couples profile, verified by 1 male, and not pic verified.

Green flag: Pic and meet verified, with pics of both the M and F

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Green Flag - Humour/wit in their profile text

Red Flag - Pictures of others on a single person's profile

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
9 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Green flag - sense of humour

Respectful

Verifications

Nice photos

Red flag - Demanding

No photo/verification

Disrespectful

Loads of reasons.

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By *eyeYCouple
9 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

All the above comments! Sometimes tiresome but makes for easy filtration though. 😄

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
9 weeks ago

Norwichish

Red Flag - all pictures taken in bathroom mirror or above toilet

Green flag - actually reading our profile

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By *TWboyMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

No Verifications

Poor text content

Poor spelling

Poor grammar

No Pictures (at all)

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By *ibLeiMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester

*Red flags*

(Couples) Mr: "I organise everything for the Mrs, no need for you to talk to her" aka scr*w consent.

Poor grammar and punctuation.

Zoomed-in pictures, i.e. body can't be seen.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Red flag couples-they're looking for other couples with only pics of the lady.

Green flag couples - pics of both parties and pics of them together.

Red flag single profiles - More pics of other people or objects (sex toys/cars) than them.

Green flag single profile-Some nice tasteful pics with a bio that tells me what they offer and what they're into & looking for.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also a red flag, no pics at all and one line of text. Says they're hiding something or lazy.

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By * and BCouple
9 weeks ago

Durham

This whole thread shows just how difficult fab really is, it's so tiresome. If we were to list red and green flags it would read like an essay

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By *rmrsApriliaCouple
9 weeks ago

sheffield

Green flag - funny, can hold a conversation, well groomed

Red flag - no kissing,

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Red Flag - Lists of demands or do's & Don't's

Green Flag - Well written description that sounds human and gives an indication of the personality of the person

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Green Flag...Fit, nice tits!

Red Flag ....Fat and Ugly!

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By *TWboyMan
9 weeks ago

Norwich

"Green flag - funny, can hold a conversation, well groomed

Red flag - no kissing, "

Yeah - how weird is that……. I just don’t get it !

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