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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wish I had more confidence. Especially sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't we all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minnie here took me a long time after being in an abusive marriage

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Confidence can be rebuilt, bit by bit. Small steps is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have always been a shy person, but i have still had sex with lots of men since i was 17. i have read lots of books about sex, magazine articles and looked at lots of porn.

thats how you learn more and lose your inhibitions.

you learn to not take sex so seriously,

not to have quite so many hang ups.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wish I had more confidence. Especially sexually."

what do you feel would help you to increase in confidence?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Wish I had more confidence. Especially sexually."

in most situations where i don't feel confident - i pretend i am! you'll be amazed how effective this is - the more you do it the more confident you actually become - Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just haven't had much so get hung up about getting any, performance anxiety also. Not sure how I'll gain more confidence in answer to the question.

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London

"Wish I had more confidence. Especially sexually.

in most situations where i don't feel confident - i pretend i am! you'll be amazed how effective this is - the more you do it the more confident you actually become - Z"

Totally agree!

Mrsw

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I just haven't had much so get hung up about getting any, performance anxiety also. Not sure how I'll gain more confidence in answer to the question."

it's easier said than done - but relax - Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks I'll try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I had more confidence. Especially sexually.

in most situations where i don't feel confident - i pretend i am! you'll be amazed how effective this is - the more you do it the more confident you actually become - Z"

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

in my experience confidence is built by people you trust .. you cant gain it over night

we have a good friend who we meet regular and he is a friend .. no pressure for sex but that said it does inevitably happen .. its the no pressure thing that puts me at ease and the familiarity

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