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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away ![]() Exactly this, it’s very frustrating indeed | |||
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away ![]() From the other side of the fence (so to speak!), I totally get the frustration. For me it's the ideal scenario, and from the two times I've had this previously, you certainly, IMHO, get a ton more out of it, when you know, like and really trust those involved. I too find that seemingly compatible people are often miles away or, certainly for me, are also often seeking someone younger. ![]() | |||
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"Hey, So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense! Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. " It is possible just finding said right person, the Mrs has done this twice. One lad for about 2 years,then another for nearly 5 | |||
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"Hey, So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense! Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. " Whoever gets the job is one hell of a lucky guy. Mrs Hotwife is gorgeous | |||
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away ![]() There’s plenty of us good guys on here but it’s like the January sales, you have to rummage through the crap to get to the treasure ![]() | |||
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"Many potential bulls either seem like they are in such a rush and/or lose interest very quickly. Hardly the right basis for a longer term dynamic." For me its the opposite cpls are in rush and i like to take things slow.. They seems to not like it after all | |||
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"What about the guy's having regular ladies that they can meet up with away from the mrs?? " Yes, but only for kissing and fucking ![]() | |||
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"Well, I have to say beware , I was a cuck to my ex-wife for 8yrs unfortunately for me, she fell in love with an older dom bull we met on fab she now lives with him and I'm alone, pitfalls of swinging I suppose , but it was amazing while it lasted " I think that is always a possibility. Perhaps some cucks fantasise about that. | |||
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"Over the years I have been a regular for two couples and definitely much more fun. But very hard to find especially on here. " Totally agree ive been involved with 2 hotwives,1 I still see,love it | |||
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"We found ourselves evolving into this exact same situation over the last 3 years." A story of trust and respect, with all parties getting their desires met! 👊 | |||
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"We have very high hopes that an imminent meeting with a Hot wife may pan out to be a semi regular thing.. 😈🤞😘" Has it?? | |||
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"Had a year n a half regular arrangement with a married couple had to sign ✍️ a gag agreement (she didn’t lol loved gagging ) as he was in the public eye he was a cuck he paid for weekends away weeks away etc nights out etc etc amazing times " That’s hot | |||
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ ... guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy .. i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends .. then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle. its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually .. guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex" Fully agree and every dynamic is and should be different. | |||
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ ... guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy .. i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends .. then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle. its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually .. guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex" This was pretty much our situation also. We always knew we would prefer regular and spent years trying to find it. Wasn’t till we gave up looking that we ended up finding the natural progression and it’s evolved into exactly what we had been looking for all the time. We’ve learned just to go with the flow and see what happens | |||
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"I wish you lived in Essex, she's stunning " We do | |||
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"Would love a regular guy or couple! So much better then constantly hunting fab lol " Wow, amazing figure ![]() | |||
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold….. ….guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex" This is spot on! | |||
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"We have very high hopes that an imminent meeting with a Hot wife may pan out to be a semi regular thing.. 😈🤞😘 Has it??" Oh yes!! We picked her up from the hotel they'd booked near us, took her to a local bar where we sat either side of her, both helping ourselves to the increasing dampness between her legs as we discussed all her husband wanted us to do to and with her.. Then back to ours, D watching as she enjoyed her first lady experience, before we both undressed him.. 3 hours later she called hubby to collect and reclaim her. She's 'cuming' back next month 😈🔥👍 | |||
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away ![]() This^^^^ | |||
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"We understand how meeting a regular is good from a familiarity perspective and getting to know likes / dislikes. What else do couples like from this dynamic? For us, the potential for the Mrs to regularly really enjoy another cock and start to want it more, even the possibility of over night stays etc is really driving the intensity." I would consider this too, I think her having a regular fuck buddy would make things easier than a load of random meets, less pressure and he can find out exactly what she likes in bed. Plus it’s also a bit safer if they eventually had solo meets. Hopefully start with some MFM meets this year and progress from there! | |||
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"Devon / SW area anyone?? DMs are open" Here to chat | |||
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"Unsure why so hard to find genuine and local" Tell me about it | |||
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy .. i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends .. then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle. its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually .. guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We understand how meeting a regular is good from a familiarity perspective and getting to know likes / dislikes. What else do couples like from this dynamic? For us, the potential for the Mrs to regularly really enjoy another cock and start to want it more, even the possibility of over night stays etc is really driving the intensity. I would consider this too, I think her having a regular fuck buddy would make things easier than a load of random meets, less pressure and he can find out exactly what she likes in bed. Plus it’s also a bit safer if they eventually had solo meets. Hopefully start with some MFM meets this year and progress from there!" It can be very difficult but very rewarding for the ‘hotwife’ if you can find a regular guy for weekends away, holidays, etc but then those tend to be single and they are pretty much always looking for a regular ‘life partner’ rather than a cuckold relationship one. Met a few married guys over the years that have give her good regular servicings as she’s need them but that ‘boyfriend’ experience is less because of their commitments elsewhere. People think as a cuckold couple your lifestyle is easy when in reality it’s far from it ! | |||
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"Well, I have to say beware , I was a cuck to my ex-wife for 8yrs unfortunately for me, she fell in love with an older dom bull we met on fab she now lives with him and I'm alone, pitfalls of swinging I suppose , but it was amazing while it lasted I think that is always a possibility. Perhaps some cucks fantasise about that. " Yes agree, it's all a fineline so to speak... I don't think many cucks fantasise about thair wife's leaving them but definitely about them getting strong/emotional feelings to the said guy... We've meet a few guys semi regular but never found the right one for mrs to really connect with and become more than just a fuck, hopefully we will!... and yes I'd love it if she kinda fell for him alittle... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We understand how meeting a regular is good from a familiarity perspective and getting to know likes / dislikes. What else do couples like from this dynamic? For us, the potential for the Mrs to regularly really enjoy another cock and start to want it more, even the possibility of over night stays etc is really driving the intensity. I would consider this too, I think her having a regular fuck buddy would make things easier than a load of random meets, less pressure and he can find out exactly what she likes in bed. Plus it’s also a bit safer if they eventually had solo meets. Hopefully start with some MFM meets this year and progress from there! It can be very difficult but very rewarding for the ‘hotwife’ if you can find a regular guy for weekends away, holidays, etc but then those tend to be single and they are pretty much always looking for a regular ‘life partner’ rather than a cuckold relationship one. Met a few married guys over the years that have give her good regular servicings as she’s need them but that ‘boyfriend’ experience is less because of their commitments elsewhere. People think as a cuckold couple your lifestyle is easy when in reality it’s far from it ! " Yes this is exactly the reason x | |||
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"This is our long term goal! For him to have a regular FWB Hotwife whilst I (mrs) and her hubby (the cuck) chat ordinarily whilst our partners are off having hot fun together!!!! " That sounds a very exciting dynamic for you all! | |||
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"This is our long term goal! For him to have a regular FWB Hotwife whilst I (mrs) and her hubby (the cuck) chat ordinarily whilst our partners are off having hot fun together!!!! That sounds a very exciting dynamic for you all!" Yes but far harder to find than you’d expect !!!! | |||
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"This is our long term goal! For him to have a regular FWB Hotwife whilst I (mrs) and her hubby (the cuck) chat ordinarily whilst our partners are off having hot fun together!!!! That sounds a very exciting dynamic for you all! Yes but far harder to find than you’d expect !!!! " Oh no I can imagine, stay patient all the fun will be worth it! | |||
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"Hey, So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense! Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. " If you told me when I got married this would even be an option I'd have laughed, or probably ran away from you! Now the idea of having a long term bf/bull sounds absolutely amazing to me! | |||
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away ![]() We agree with you and if you've read and go through the forum you see lots of men answering some saying they'd like their wife to do it but are on single profiles.. Others tell you they can meet without their wives... And some just do not appeal for various reasons... Very difficult to actually find a real couple that meets your requirements as a couple.. I'm very difficult to meet any kind of single lady... A man just think that if you have a wife they can try to take over... I'm trying to get a couple to verify together is almost impossible... | |||
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"We understand how meeting a regular is good from a familiarity perspective and getting to know likes / dislikes. What else do couples like from this dynamic? For us, the potential for the Mrs to regularly really enjoy another cock and start to want it more, even the possibility of over night stays etc is really driving the intensity." yes it gets insanely hot was in a cuck relationship for a year now a half the hubby used to send us off on paid holidays weekends away etc it was amazing but it’s clicking with them both I found x | |||
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"We've recently got married and I am keen to have it properly consummated by our regular Bull. I have discussed it with mrs N and think it will happen soon. A proper cuckold marriage. mmmmmmmm. " All sorted. Our Bull is arranged for tonight which is sooner than I dared hoped for. | |||
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