FabSwingers.com forum: North west meets

By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
2 days ago

Blackrod

Anyone else find it hard to meet genuine people and actually meet new people?

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
2 days ago

manchester

Just putting it out there but one cock pic maybe isn’t as attractive as a more comprehensive profile

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By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
2 days ago

Blackrod

More pictures once friend maybe some people don't want face on show before speaking.

When I do message first always send pictures as well.

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
2 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

Sorry to turn this into a "Profile pic discussion" post rather than the original topic OP but I agree that some people don't want to go full public (as don't I) but I also don't think people want to have my cock on their screen every time I interact with them so until I have some tastefully discreet pics I'm just lurking.

And because of that I am not trying to arrange meets but don't envisage FAB to be the place for that as a single chap.

That being said, I've enjoyed the local club scene which is how I'm getting my social fix.

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By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
2 days ago

Blackrod

I feel you have a point but I also feel a picture is better than nothing and blank profile

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

"More pictures once friend maybe some people don't want face on show before speaking.

When I do message first always send pictures as well. "

You have other body parts than a face or cock op

Nobody expects face pics to be public, I appreciate you saw you send pics in a message. However many won't even read a message if they don't like the pic /bio.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

Also not to be picky, your name would put me off.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
2 days ago

Southport

Crass profile name, one picture of a cock and no verifications. There's the issue in respect of acquiring a meeting from here.

Get some full body pictures either naked or clothed (no need for a face to be displayed but if it was it can still be pixelated or blotted out).

You can attend a social or club meeting and engage with people who may verify you if you make a good impression.

There's thousands of guys out there with more attractive profiles so you'll continue to be overlooked unless you make more effort with your profile.

Harsh but true.

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By *otfunduoCouple
2 days ago

Greater Manchester

"Crass profile name, one picture of a cock and no verifications. There's the issue in respect of acquiring a meeting from here.

Get some full body pictures either naked or clothed (no need for a face to be displayed but if it was it can still be pixelated or blotted out).

You can attend a social or club meeting and engage with people who may verify you if you make a good impression.

There's thousands of guys out there with more attractive profiles so you'll continue to be overlooked unless you make more effort with your profile.

Harsh but true."

Couldn't agree more. There so many messages and if you are looking for someone reliable and respectful profiles like this don't cut it. Kudos to those that make the effort and find successful meets

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By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
2 days ago

Blackrod

I do agree maybe with the name choice but recently only just changed my name from badben.

I can't really put new pictures on just body as people will be able to notice me via my tattoos.

I also have 2 verifications on my profile for people to see.

Once I message someone I don't hide who I am etc as you can see with my friends only pictures it's just I don't want it put in the open for everyone on the site to see if that makes sense.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 day ago

Central

"I feel you have a point but I also feel a picture is better than nothing and blank profile "

People tend to view the profile of someone, before reading a message. If this profile puts them off, they don't bother with seeing the message. Consider that many women don't want to see cock. But they could attracted to a good body shot, for example.

It's possible to meet in the northwest, I do most weeks. Get to remove the barriers that may be holding you back and then invest your efforts into finding people

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By *B11Man
1 day ago

Burnley

North West here too.

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By *liviaGTV/TS
1 day ago

Preston

I'm here alsoo

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By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
14 hours ago

Blackrod

How is everyone ?

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By *oelDorianMan
14 hours ago

vanaheim

With the tattoos you can edit your pictures to cover them so they won’t be recognisable. As I agree with what’s been previously said maybe a bit more variation in your public pictures might help

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By *asyGoingGuy64 OP Man
14 hours ago

Blackrod

How do you edit tattoos ?

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By *oelDorianMan
14 hours ago

vanaheim

"How do you edit tattoos ? "

No pictures that you have that have tattoos in

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
14 hours ago

Northerner

Okay, opinion from how I deal with messages; had I received a message from you I would have deleted after seeing your profile. As many have said, you have just one cock pic up and this is not something that would entice me (nor is your profile picture). Added to that your video is of your fingers up someone’s foof - you don’t have a couples profile so that’s off putting too.

I love the visuals so enjoy the profiles with pictures that have put the effort and thought into them. Maybe a mixture with some black and white shots for instance - you don’t have to show your whole body (or face) but more teasing photos that leave something to the imagination. Just an erect penis (I mean granted that’s better than a flaccid one) but it does nothing for me personally and it’s just smacks of a lazy profile.

There are so many profiles where the photos are more interesting and that coupled with a great bio showing some personality will render yours the same as the masses rather than standing out from the crowd.

If that kind of effort is not what you want to put in then the option is to attend clubs or social events so you can make connections in person

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By *J swingCouple
13 hours ago

North

Download snapsead

Also anonymous facepicture

Going back to you're profile I personally would rather see a nice body shot that a dick shot it not going to make me want to meet

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By *ryagain2Man
12 hours ago

Morecambe

Almost impossible

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