FabSwingers.com forum: Family member viewed me

By *uriousandkinky OP Couple
5 weeks ago

north

Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰

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By *d4funtimesMan
5 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Did they actually recognise you, or was it the other way around after they messaged you?

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By *lamdaddyMan
5 weeks ago

London

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Did you watch them on your profile as you say eating Christmas leftovers together? 😂

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
5 weeks ago

Behind the bike shed!

Block and move on!

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By *uriousandkinky OP Couple
5 weeks ago

north

I worried itd make it more obvious lol x

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By *illmattMan
5 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Oh wow.

Someone who works for me is on here and I found them accidentally. A quick block lol

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I find the block isn't that effective. It might stop them viewing your profile but can still see you in the forums.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
5 weeks ago

Next Door

"I find the block isn't that effective. It might stop them viewing your profile but can still see you in the forums."

They can see your profile picture but nothing else on your profile.

And read what you've added in the forums.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
5 weeks ago

Next Door

I would block the profile.

Hopefully you've used fake names?

I would be careful on having nothing obvious(tattoos) in profile picture

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By *ornishboy88Man
5 weeks ago

Penryn

If they recognise you from your pics I’d say the line has already been crossed

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By *uriousandkinky OP Couple
5 weeks ago

north

Luckily ive nothing too obvious to identify me i recognised his tatoo xx

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By *neforutoMan
5 weeks ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Ive been recognised by non family members and blocked them and hid my profile for a while. Ive also hidden my vids but just cant seem to let Fab go

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By *andyman4uanddiscreetMan
5 weeks ago

oxford

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Dont delete your account they are after same thing

just block if you dont want them viewing you...i wish i knew like minded adults on here...say hi if you know me

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By *rime meatMan
5 weeks ago

funky town

I'd potentially change naming in profile to him aswell

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
5 weeks ago

Worcestershire

My nephew and his other half messaged us

We just blocked them

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Definitely block them op.

Saves them looking again at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I find the block isn't that effective. It might stop them viewing your profile but can still see you in the forums.

They can see your profile picture but nothing else on your profile.

And read what you've added in the forums.

This is true, but it also means you have to put up with their inane drivel in the forums too... Ho hum!

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By *itmeup946Man
5 weeks ago

Travelling

I think posting this might make it more obvious than blocking them

I've had a family member message me, we exchanged a few messages back and forth but don't think he knew who I was, he's not on here now as far as I know.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I always wonder if someone I know has recognised me. I know at least one friend has

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By *jlookingforfunMan
5 weeks ago

falkirk

"Luckily ive nothing too obvious to identify me i recognised his tatoo xx"

I’d delete this post ASAP

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By *elshman1890Man
5 weeks ago

close by

I wouldn’t mind this

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By *lowercandyWoman
5 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Block them

Delete your post from the forum

It is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

No don't delete the forum post.

I need to know how this pans out!

I think it depends how close a family member. I think you're also right. If I thought I knew you and messaged and you blocked me. That's more obvious.

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By *Xtriple7Couple
5 weeks ago

N Peterborough.

Got this with an ex neighbour of ours.

Nowhere near as bad as family though

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
5 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We have had this same issue

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By *oonbath89Man
5 weeks ago

radstock

Nowt wrong with that , bet they had quick wank aswell

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By *ML49Man
5 weeks ago

Burnley

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Change your profile name, block em and remove your profile pic for a length of time.

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By *lamdaddyMan
5 weeks ago

London

I don't get how people ever know it's a family member looking?

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By *ampire69Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham West Midlands

your pictures are too vague just ignore bluff it out dont panic bluff it your profile could be anyone i see no specific markers to identify

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By *23RouteCouple
5 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Not bothered really

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By *orthern_nudieMan
4 weeks ago

leeds

Wouldn’t bother me. Would happily say hey

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By *ungfunfellaMan
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

Got family members on here doesn’t bother me at all

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By *obBones63Man
4 weeks ago

Darlington

I once recognised someone from work in my earlier days on fab, I just wrote my username on a piece of paper, and gave it to her at work once I could catch her by herself, explained I'd seen their profile, and just said you might want to block me, she was a bit shocked, but apparently her husband just laughed about it. Lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I'd block people I didn't want to engage with or know I was here

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By *andb13Couple
4 weeks ago

Bradford

Surely we are all here for the same thing??

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
4 weeks ago

stafs

Your profile says you going dogging surely in an open public place where you have no control over who goes there’s a chance you’ll bump into someone you know??

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By *illfife2Woman
4 weeks ago

fife

Oh jeez no that's my worst nightmare lol

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
4 weeks ago

Portstewart

We're curious was it a member or Mrs family or misters family and how close in family circle are they? Like brothers,sisters,aunts,uncles,cousins? And you don't have to meet or chat with them but there on the site for the same reason you are op

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By *olds CoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Louth

Why worry, your all here for the same thing.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
4 weeks ago

leeds

"Why worry, your all here for the same thing. "

Exactly, embrace it

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By *dc1Man
4 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

My son and his wife are on here. Was a massive shock to find them. And see a picture of them in my fucking hot tub. Lol. Its why i keep my profile basic and only one picture in public.

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By *ids2000Couple
4 weeks ago

Worcester

Omg I couldn’t think of much worse

It would be instant block

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By *eird_With_a_BeardMan
4 weeks ago

Falkirk

Surely deleting the account would be a little excessive? A block and perhaps hide your account for a while just in case would suffice.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
4 weeks ago

leeds

Wouldn’t bother me in the slightest if it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

We have had this. My cousin messaged us and send us all kinds of pics, he’s married with kids. We just blocked him.

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By *im4play4uMan
4 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

It's easy to say why care or we are all here for a reason, but the majority of people don't want their fun revealed to their friends and neighbours let alone family members.

Keep in mind when you post a picture that if someone might manage to take his eyes off the main subject and notice the picture on the wall, the wallpaper, the car you are in, it will be alot more obvious to them than you think if they have seen it many times before

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By *moothshaftMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

Think I'd find it quite sexually exciting to discover a family member on here!

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By *orthern_nudieMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

Wish som elf mine would view me

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰

Dont delete your account they are after same thing

just block if you dont want them viewing you...i wish i knew like minded adults on here...say hi if you know me

I agree with that sentiment

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"No don't delete the forum post.

I need to know how this pans out!

I think it depends how close a family member. I think you're also right. If I thought I knew you and messaged and you blocked me. That's more obvious. "

Agreed

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"Wouldn’t bother me. Would happily say hey "

Me too

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"Why worry, your all here for the same thing. "

Correct

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"Think I'd find it quite sexually exciting to discover a family member on here!"

Me too

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By *elboy1978Man
3 weeks ago

Jarrow

It wouldn’t bother me

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By *rive 101Man
3 weeks ago

uxbridge

Would not bother me

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By *hank you sirMan
3 weeks ago

colchester

Keeping g a close eye on this thread to see how it all pans out

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I wouldn't let it bother you. I've seen a family members profile on another site. It's not like I called a family meeting so we could all discuss her!

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By *ancs29Man
3 weeks ago

oldham

Well was a family member male or female did you like them or do you not like them they're on this site so they're after one thing that's sex so if you was interested why don't you just let them have sex with you depending how close a family member it was

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By *eo BillsMan
3 weeks ago

Westcliff On Sea

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Well that’s an awkward situation at Christmas weddings, funerals birthdays and bar mitzvah

Good luck with that one

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By *uffhandymanMan
3 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

My sister was on here at the same time as me. We went to the same club a couple of times. My eldest step sister is still on here, we keep each others secrets very well

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By *hyrichMan
3 weeks ago

lincolnshire

"Well was a family member male or female did you like them or do you not like them they're on this site so they're after one thing that's sex so if you was interested why don't you just let them have sex with you depending how close a family member it was"

👍👍

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By *ichtea284Man
3 weeks ago

Beccles

"Think I'd find it quite sexually exciting to discover a family member on here!

Me too "

Yes i would too

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By *uzzieboyMan
3 weeks ago

taunton

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Oh shit just block um

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By *orthern_nudieMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

"Think I'd find it quite sexually exciting to discover a family member on here!"

Same! Would love it. Would happily chat back to them

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By *lamdaddyMan
3 weeks ago

London

"Think I'd find it quite sexually exciting to discover a family member on here!

Me too

Yes i would too"

Especially if it's Uncle Tony right?!

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By *ympho6969Woman
3 weeks ago

glasgow

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

Could be worse. I had a full blown convo with a cousin before face pics were shared. Instant block then existential crisis

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By *ionycusMan
3 weeks ago

Babylon

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰"

They have seen your bunghole .... 🥵🤪😂 Delete, block , ninja mode

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By *lamdaddyMan
3 weeks ago

London

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰

Could be worse. I had a full blown convo with a cousin before face pics were shared. Instant block then existential crisis"

Ooh you find them sexy!

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By *ympho6969Woman
3 weeks ago

glasgow

"Just had a family member like and message me and ive never come closer to deleting my account 😅😨😰

Could be worse. I had a full blown convo with a cousin before face pics were shared. Instant block then existential crisis

Ooh you find them sexy!"

Not even remotely. Existential crisis for what he could see on my profile and vice versa. Scarred for life and can barely look at him now

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By *uffhandymanMan
2 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

My step sister is back on here now, I only know because she viewed me this morning!

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

I know a good friend on here, see her nearly every day,in person, in fact it was her who introduced me to fab. We get on so well and nothing awkward. But don't think we'd ever actually meet up .

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By *opman1122Man
2 weeks ago

Churchdown

Sis in law

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I've seen one of my colleagues on here as a couple profile. She doesn't work directly with me but see her when in the office.

We do a chat a lil but that's all

I did message when a saw their profile but didn't include my name. Messages weren't deleted or blocked so taking it as a no but happy to peek

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By *uffsandkinkCouple
2 weeks ago

leeds

We've felt your pain it's also worth noting they can see anything new you upload in the hot lists and recently added pics

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By *aughtySubMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

I found my sister on here a while back. I fabbed her pics. Can’t find her now, she either left or blocked me lol. It’s not been mentioned between us

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