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By *ay W. Beau OP   Woman
3 days ago

Wolvo

confused about this concept.

you dont really like a person, you dont fancy them much or find them attractive, but shag them anyway, or offer to shag them.

On the flip side doing sexual activity with someone your know isnt all that keen on you. How? Why?

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham

Transactional sex, something that makes you feel better in the moment and a distraction to wounds you need to heal.

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By *ay W. Beau OP   Woman
3 days ago

Wolvo


"Transactional sex, something that makes you feel better in the moment and a distraction to wounds you need to heal. "

How very sad!

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
3 days ago

Nowhere

Oh I've done this .

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By *ampire69Man
3 days ago

Birmingham West Midlands

sometimes in the heat of the moment its more about the need for cock than the prick who owns it

confess i have had sex with a female i did not fancy but she offered open legs and sex and that proves a horny cock has no morals

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
3 days ago

Aberdeen

I don't understand this either OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
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3 days ago

East Sussex

Sex is frequently about very much more than the physical act.

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
3 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

Sometimes you've just got to scratch an itch. And if you're invested (time, effort, paid for the date, etc) then why not... A few 1st dates have gone this way over the years. I knew there wasn't enough interest from me to have a 2nd date but it was on offer.

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 days ago

Cheltenham

Sex is just sex. It can be for love, for fun or for hate.

I know more than one person who once claimed it could only ever be for love but who then used it to get back at someone else - hence hate. People are complicated.

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By *ony MannMan
3 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I've probably been with more than most would consider my fair share, but I do need to feel something, I'm not saying love, but something.

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
2 days ago

york

Sounds like beer goggles situation

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By *ongAndThick123Man
2 days ago

Leeds


" confused about this concept.

you dont really like a person, you dont fancy them much or find them attractive, but shag them anyway, or offer to shag them.

On the flip side doing sexual activity with someone your know isnt all that keen on you. How? Why? "

The only one I’d do out of those scenarios is when I don’t like them as a person, but I find them physically attractive. I’d still sleep with them. I find it oddly hot actually.

But want other kind of mismatch is a big no go for me

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
2 days ago

Marlow

Some times concentrating on what you are actually physically feeling, makes it irrelevant who's delivering that pleasure.

That's how I cope with it.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
2 days ago

St Austell

Pre-internet, through phone chatlines I had a number of late-night/early hours meets with ladies looking for some male company...

....obviously, only talking on the phone for 20 mins to an hour or so meant that neither I nor the women who I went to visit for an hour or two's fun had any real idea of what the other looked like...

....there were a handful of instances when, once I'd arrived either they didn't fancy me, or I them - and it was a case of 'thanks, but no thanks', and I'd just drive home again...

....on one occasion, I made the hour's journey from Milton Keynes up the old A5 to Hinckley, and was quietly let in by the late-30's single mum who'd invited me to visit...

....she wasn't at all unattractive, with a pretty face and tousled blonde hair - but she was somewhat larger (24 top half, 20 bottom half, she later told me) than my 'usual' preference...

....likewise, at 6'0" tall but slim at only just over 10-stone, I wasn't, she openly admitted, her 'usual' preferred short, stocky, rugby-player type either...

....we got along well having a chat and a laugh though, until, after an hour or so, I suggested that as we were neither each other's 'types', it was probably time for me to leave - at which she asked me to stay, and one thing quickly led to another...

....and over the next six months or so, I made late-night trips up to Hinckley every 7-10 days, arriving after her two school-age kids had gone to bed, and quietly departing before they got up in the mornings (apart from once, when M had to 'hide' me!)...

....despite both us of acknowledging that, if we'd simply seen each other in a bar, or club, or the like, we probably wouldn't have given the other a second look, somehow, on a purely sexual level, we hit it off - though things eventually ran their course, with first her and then I each meeting someone else, we stayed in touch for a while...

....and soon after I told her I was getting re-married, she came down to MK to visit me for the one and only time - for, as she succinctly phrased it, "one last ride"!

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By *ein-guyMan
2 days ago

Cowes

Swinging is a transaction of sex between like-minded people. I don't personally see the issue in 'just having sex' if its seems right regardless of looks or intellect etc.

If you are intending on finding a soul mate then unless you are both continuing this lifestyle, you're probably looking on the wrong website! If its for a regular fwb/fwb's then mutual attraction is a must Not sure what else needs to be said....'be safe'

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