FabSwingers.com forum: play spanking , does it turn you on

By *avid 50 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kendal

Years ago I found out my partner enjoyed gentle smacking during sex, she said it sent an electric shock straight to her clit but only when it's done with a cupped hand, who else enjoys spanking or being spanked as part of their sex play

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By *tsJustKateWoman
29 weeks ago

London

Yes, as long as they don't get carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

This is something I'd really love to try. The thought of being spanked is a huge turn on

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
29 weeks ago

Not Far From Doncaster

Yes. Not painful but just sharply enough to make me tingle and take notice

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
29 weeks ago

Merseyside

Yes absolutely love it when I’m already horny, it increases the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Love it

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By *ellinever70Woman
29 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't care much for anything like that

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By *cotsguyyMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

Can be lots of fun when done right and the mood is right.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
29 weeks ago

Norwich

Not us

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't care for it during sex.

As a completely separate experience for sure though 💜

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
29 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Did someone mention the striking of the derrière for pleasure???

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple
29 weeks ago

london

Yes.

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By *avid 50 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kendal

so we're not on our own, but like many on here Tina enjoyed it best when she was bent over and slapped with a cup hand so either the fingers touched her pussy lips or the palm of my hand, squashed her lips, and during sex if I was going to smack her I had to move to one side to smack her buttocks rather than the side of her hip, to get the electric shock treatment to her clit.

Never hard enough to Mark her skin but definitely caused a red glow

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By *asha86Couple
29 weeks ago

walsall

Definitely enjoy it and adds to the build up and very arousing xT

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Love it

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By *ickylouCouple
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

Lou likes a little pain.

Vicky will knock your teeth out lol.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
28 weeks ago

Dudley

It’s nice when done properly

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I’m a big fan

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By *d4funtimesMan
28 weeks ago

Cambridge

It is intriguing to explore new possibilities. This could definitely find a spot on my to-do list for 2025

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By *atinaChica54Woman
28 weeks ago

Marlborough

"Yes. Not painful but just sharply enough to make me tingle and take notice

This 👆🏼. Love it! With a little hair pulling

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By *outhernexport83Couple
28 weeks ago

Cornwall

Mrs loves it, also flogging, hair pulling, clamps etc.

None to the extent of any real force or pain, but enough for a little shock of discomfort and playing into the dom/sub dynamic.

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Hinckley

Oh yes

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By *eautyabcCouple
28 weeks ago

bridgend

Oh yes we love it

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By *ickedtiesWoman
28 weeks ago

limerick

Love it 😀 😈

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Not for me at all but I've known a few women who like it. One in particular liked her pussy spanked and we bought a riding crop for that very purpose...

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By *ure_and_InnocentWoman
28 weeks ago

Knaresborough

Only recently got into it but yes enjoy it, love seeing a hand print 😊

Nothing too heavy to the point of bruising or cuts that doesn’t do it for me

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By *ot so needyMan
28 weeks ago

Galway

Didn't think it would but just needed the right person to do it with

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By *ickedtiesWoman
28 weeks ago

limerick

"Didn't think it would but just needed the right person to do it with

😘😈

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Love it, although I'm more on the side of 'the harder, the better' I like marks being left behind

Although, I can switch it up and still enjoy the more gentle approach, variety is great!

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By *punk n gushCouple
28 weeks ago

deal

Love being spanked either n play or during intercourse have loads whips paddles belts etc

Mrs

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By *Gem37Woman
28 weeks ago

Blackwood

"Years ago I found out my partner enjoyed gentle smacking during sex, she said it sent an electric shock straight to her clit but only when it's done with a cupped hand, who else enjoys spanking or being spanked as part of their sex play"

Yes I enjoy it done gently! When I least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I have spanking skirts and dresses for the very act. I enjoy giving and receiving. Especially enjoy an unexpected one when I'm near to orgasm. That little sharp it hurts x it's a suprise X it's a tingle does it for me

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By *WANDTGCouple
28 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Very much so , amongst other things

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By *avid 50 OP Man
28 weeks ago

kendal

Great response I'm glad my partner is not the only one who enjoys gentle spanking, totally agree with the lady who has dresses specially for the occasion, my wife used to have a flimsy summer dress that if she wore it meant she wanted excitement and she never wore knickers when she was looking for excitement. She enjoyed the gentle flogging but still preferred the cup hand as it sent that electric sensation to her clit

anyone in need of discipline send me a message

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By *hambamNIMan
28 weeks ago

city centre

Spanking is a main link of mine in my eyes needs to be done propely

Not playful

Each to their own

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By *agusMan
28 weeks ago

Near by

Love it

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By *artytymemeMan
28 weeks ago

Mansfield

I love being put over my fuck buddys lap and spanked.

Even better when she then puts a finger in my ass hole.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

stockport

Love being paddled

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By *avid 50 OP Man
25 weeks ago

kendal

ladies seem to enjoy gentle spanking with a hand to enjoy sexual pleasure as did my wife sending shocks to her clit, but for pain they go for something different paddles whips and canes , but I am surprised how many guys enjoy being disciplined is this also reenacting something that has happened in the past or just enjoying the pleasure of pain as I don't think I've ever got sexual pleasure from being smacked

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
25 weeks ago

Stroud

The paradox is I enjoy administering a spanking, but not giving pain. The pleasure comes from the glowing cheeks, and the anticipation of the next hand......delicious.

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By *etwife8230Couple
25 weeks ago

Newport

Love it 😀

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
25 weeks ago

perth

I like to administer a spanking as part of punishment to a new sub to establish our roles and who she must obey.

All has of course been discussed in detail before meeting .x

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By *icentiousCouple
25 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Fractionation between a little pain and then pleasure, then a little more pain and pleasure, then, more…..

great way to induce sensual sexual space.

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By *inkycreamCouple
17 weeks ago

manchester

I’m naughty for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I spanked a very sexy ass A LOT on Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

God, I love having my bum spanked. And dishing it out, too. Red palms all round.

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
17 weeks ago

Darlington

Yep, love it. A good spanking session is very therapeutic and lead to an empty headed state of mind relieves worry and stress for a time.

Mrs says it's feel like "candy floss land" x

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By *omRachCouple
17 weeks ago

Wirral

We're both up for a little bit of handspanking - Rach doesn't mind a little use of a flogger also.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
17 weeks ago

Hull

Yes absolutely when in the right mood….. hand, flogger and a long long time again I have had a horse whip used on me….

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By *omRachCouple
17 weeks ago

Wirral

"Yes absolutely when in the right mood….. hand, flogger and a long long time again I have had a horse whip used on me….

Probably a bit too adventurous for us that lol.

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By *orphia2003Woman
17 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I enjoy spanking consenting play partners. Don't like being on the receiving end.

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By *enaiWoman
17 weeks ago

worcester

I once had a professional spanking.

Start to finish it probably took 10 to 15 minutes and it made me so trippy.

I've never forgotten and would love it again

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By *enaiWoman
17 weeks ago

worcester

A hand spanking is totally different to anything else.

The skin on skin makes all the difference

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By *avid 50 OP Man
17 weeks ago

kendal

A great response to this topic, I have actually had one couple contact me wanting me to discipline his wife, apparently she was smacked at school and the thrill she felt far out weighed the pain for the misdemeanour she had done, interesting meeting a lady just for discipline no kissing no intercourse just discipline, she went away with a smile and a glowing posterior

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
17 weeks ago

Darlington

"I once had a professional spanking.

Start to finish it probably took 10 to 15 minutes and it made me so trippy.

I've never forgotten and would love it again

That's the candy floss land I was talking about. It's so euphoric ❤️

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By *ugarbearCouple
17 weeks ago

Tredegar

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By *ugarbearCouple
17 weeks ago

Tredegar

Over the knee knickers down soft spanking i love it

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By *ennineTopMan
17 weeks ago

York

Spanking shouldn't hurt if done properly. It should be a little uncomfortable but not actually perceived as pain.

The key thing is balancing it with pleasure. Spanking (or any kind of SM play) should only be used when the receiver is highly aroused.

The cooking analogy is often used. Sugar can be a bit sickly if you have too much of it but by adding a little salt (which on its own would be horrible) one can end up being able to take more sugar. Think of salted caramel.

So by adding a little spanking you can push your pleasure to new heights and end up with the trippy, euphoric, candy floss feeling described earlier.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

stockport

I love my bum cheeks reddened

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Yes love giving them.

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