FabSwingers.com forum: Sex vs Self pleasure

By *crumdiddlyumptious OP Man
3 weeks ago

What was your 2024 sex life compared to your own self pleasure

At a guess I'd say it was 50-50 and both under 20 times, It was a slow year

By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

For self-pleasure I assume that means wanking?

If so, massively more wanking. I was in a relationship for the 1st 4 months or so and didn't really wank during that as always saved myself for the dwindling possibility of sex during the death throes of the relationship.

After that I had a couple of rebound fucks then lost all interest in the dating dance bollocks so it's been all self love since about August.

The biggest thing I miss though is the physical connection and intimacy rather then fucking. I'll take a fuck over a wank but not if it means playing silly little dating games to get it.

By *as_no_ideaWoman
3 weeks ago

......

The earlier part of 2024 was 100% self service... the last part was 95% shared a 5% self service.