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By *h well OP   Man
1 week ago

croydon

I’ve had a meet in the past where I got invited around and when I got there the whole family were there. Also one when I got there the house stank. Please someone put my faith back into meeting on fab. Has anyone else had any disasters

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
1 week ago

Suffolk

The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣

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By *orthern BeardMan
1 week ago

Preston


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

What the actual fuck?

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By *orthern BeardMan
1 week ago

Preston

Worst one I had I turned to to the house if someone who was well verified and who id been chatting to for a while.

Walked in and the house was like a landfill, like of of those hoarder shows you see on TV. Stank like cat piss, half eaten pizza and empty drinks everywhere.

Made my excuses and left. Years later I can still smell it

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By *h well OP   Man
1 week ago

croydon

Holy crap

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By *iganlad80Man
1 week ago

wigan

Mine was from the first time I joined fab, met a local woman got to her house went into the living room two big Alisation dogs stood growling. She got them put them.in the kitchen we was getting down to business on the sofa then boom doors went one was attacking me while other one was trying to grab my balls ffs (apparently they was only playing) FUCK THAT I was off

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By *rivatelurkerMan
1 week ago

Chelmsford


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

That's crazy

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By *he Lollipop ManMan
1 week ago

Truro

Had to drive 50 miles to meet them - then they disappeared offline for ages, then kept postponing for a couple of hours.

Turned up in a work van with a mattress in the back.

Grumpy and completely unfriendly.

Told me I couldn't kiss her, despite my profile saying kissing is a must.

Afterwards refused to verify me because I'd kissed her on the cheek when I said goodbye!

Shudder.

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By *urreyandSussexMan
1 week ago

Horsham

Omg some of these are nuts!

I've had the hoarder type situation myself too which wasn't great. An early days meet was an outdoor car meet which let's be honest are never good but when she pulled down her leggings the smell just was like 🤢🤮 I just had to say oh fuck I forgot condoms and ended that shit right there.

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

Trying to forget mine….:

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By *uminsiderMKMan
1 week ago

St Austell

Via a phone chatline, pre-internet, I went from Milton Keynes to North London for a late-night/early hours meet...

....on walking into the upstairs flat, not only were there clothes and stuff strewn all over the lounge, but also dirty plates and cups on the coffee table - after the woman who I'd gone to play with cleared space on the sofa and sat down next to me, I saw her flimsy summer dress was threadbare and moth-eaten, and she also obviously hadn't showered, because she stank...

....fortunately, as I hastily began to think of an excuse to leave, her phone rang, and when she answered and went into the kitchen talking to what sounded like another potential visitor, I quickly but quietly made my escape...

....it completely baffled me as to why - with an hour-and-a-half between putting the phone down and my arrival - she'd apparently made no attempt to make either the flat, or herself, presentable...

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By *hirleyMan
1 week ago

somewhere

Never had a meet that wasn't memorable. I've never and wouldn't set up a meet with anyone without at minimum a 20 minute phone call and/or going to a public place first before private 🤷‍♂️

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By *hirleyMan
1 week ago

somewhere


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

People are disgusting. I hope you reported that as harassment.

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By *hirleyMan
1 week ago

somewhere


"Mine was from the first time I joined fab, met a local woman got to her house went into the living room two big Alisation dogs stood growling. She got them put them.in the kitchen we was getting down to business on the sofa then boom doors went one was attacking me while other one was trying to grab my balls ffs (apparently they was only playing) FUCK THAT I was off "

That's so crazy it's funny. Least you got out, balls intact I hope

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire


"Via a phone chatline, pre-internet, I went from Milton Keynes to North London for a late-night/early hours meet...

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Hopefully you've learned that it's probably lonely vulnerable women who are open to this kinda scenario

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
1 week ago

Swindon

Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories

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By *oupleExeter30Couple
1 week ago

Exeter

We've had a well verified guy turn and we chilled with a few drinks. Decided we wanted to go further but as soon has he undressed this stench filled the room! Asked him to leave and he got funny about it. Put status updates about us for days which actually helped us get some good meets

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By *iganlad80Man
1 week ago

wigan


"Mine was from the first time I joined fab, met a local woman got to her house went into the living room two big Alisation dogs stood growling. She got them put them.in the kitchen we was getting down to business on the sofa then boom doors went one was attacking me while other one was trying to grab my balls ffs (apparently they was only playing) FUCK THAT I was off

That's so crazy it's funny. Least you got out, balls intact I hope"

I laugh at it now but looking back it could have been very nasty lol

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By *otcplmidsCouple
1 week ago

Warwick

When I went on a date pre meeting my husband, my date turned up with no teeth.

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By *airybobMan
1 week ago

Telford

Was invited to a ladies house once ,not to far from me was able to walk there in ten minutes,Went through the front door and the smell was awful and the place was a shithole,through into the front room where there were cages up to the ceiling on one side of the room ,Breeding Guinea pigs

She saw me looking at the salt trail around the edges of the room and said “Don’t worry about the salt ,it’s to kill the fleas”

Made my excuses and left

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By *hromosexualsCouple
1 week ago

Near Abercynon


"

She saw me looking at the salt trail around the edges of the room and said “Don’t worry about the salt ,it’s to kill the fleas”

Made my excuses and left "

See, my first thought was she was guarding against demonic possession

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland

My one and only one and they didn't bother showing up. Not a word either. I wouldn't have have minded if they had just messaged me and said "I've changed my mind. Fuck off and never contact me again". But just wasting my time, that's just wrong.

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire


"When I went on a date pre meeting my husband, my date turned up with no teeth. "
... im sorry but this made me laugh

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By *elaxing2Couple
1 week ago

Manchester

Worst meet we had was our first meet with guy at our place. Before we had family and much younger

Lots of chatting and pics looked good so met him in bar nearby and we decided to take it back to ours and Lucy got naked and he was like Cheshire cat and then he undressed and it was not what expected and had to be honest and say no as could not see his cock and body pics he sent not what we saw when he was naked

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
1 week ago

coleraine

Met up with a couple for a pre meeting to get to know each other. All went well and so we booked a hotel room for the night where we lived and planned out a nice night. Plan was to begin with some shared fun in the room.

His wife was very nervous so we all played a game to try and warm her up which went on for an eternity. It didn’t work much but the husband was desperate to get started. We paired off separately in the same room. I started off well with her husband but I could tell hubby was struggling with her. I carried in because her man was horny. I remember sitting in his cock riding him and liking over to see his wife’s face filled with jealousy and angst watching us fuck and my poor hubby had given up trying to get her interested and focused on the two of them.

It all came to an abrupt end and neither him or I finished and my hubby was pissed off.

We tried to make a night of it all and keep things ok but going for the meal and drinks we had planned. After she got pissed she suddenly decided she wanted my hubby after all.

We made our excuses and left. Nothing worse than a pressed jealous partner who has to be wasted to go with the flow.

That was the last meeting we had with a couple.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
1 week ago

Near Abercynon

We've never had a bad meet, each have been different but all have been with friendly fun people.

However, I worry that we might have been a worst meet with another couple. It was all great but I (the male) started to get in to my own head and worrying if I was what she wanted, it was just a case of self doubt but I struggled to get past it and it probably became a self fulfilling prophecy.

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland


"Worst meet we had was our first meet with guy at our place. Before we had family and much younger

Lots of chatting and pics looked good so met him in bar nearby and we decided to take it back to ours and Lucy got naked and he was like Cheshire cat and then he undressed and it was not what expected and had to be honest and say no as could not see his cock and body pics he sent not what we saw when he was naked"

Yeah, lying is a pet peeve of mine.

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By *oastal_GentlemanMan
1 week ago

Great Yarmouth

Not so long ago.. I swapped messages with a lady and that same night she gave me an invite to come round with the address etc. I went round and she opened the door and invited me in. Within a minute I worked out that she was absolutely blind d*unk. I quickly headed the hell out of there!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
1 week ago

St Austell


"Hopefully you've learned that it's probably lonely vulnerable women who are open to this kinda scenario "

I had 20+ meets through chatlines, and though the vast majority of them were "lonely" ladies looking for some male company, I'd only have classed one as "vunerable" - that being the time I turned up, let myself in through the door left on the latch, and went upstairs to find the woman I was visiting sprawled naked across the bed, sound asleep, with an empty wine bottle on the floor...

....I turned straight around, let myself back out, and ensured that the door was locked behind me...

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By *andPextraCouple
1 week ago

North West

All in clubs.

Man followed me from arrival to the changing room. Stated wanking before I'd even taken my coat off, whilst winking at me repeatedly. Looked like he had a tick.

Man who poured out his life story. Our first club visit, do I naively just let him ramble on and on. He eventually plucked up the courage to turn the convo sexual and I politely turned him down. He burst into floods of tears and begged for a hand job. I just didn't know what to do, so I petted him in the head like a kid who'd been told they couldnt have skittles for breakfast

Another changing room. Was changing out of my "day" clothes and had left them on a bench. Was adjusting myself in the mirror and caught a fella sat on the bench trying to sneakily slide my knickers off the bench and under a towel. When challenged he sort of apologised but then asked to buy them

Club I won't name. Couple who we think was there first time. Er had heard them chat in the bar. Long story short. She got uber dru*k and went wild with another couple. You could see male half getting angrier and angrier. They had a row to the point someone else called the police. When the officers actually walked in I initially thought "that's convincing fancy dress" until I twigged they were real.

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By *he Dadbod ParadoxMan
1 week ago

Norwich

I can definitely sympathise with some of the guys here. Although I have managed to avoid many a bad meet especially if you have had several conversations over a period of time by using the note section to refer to. It helps me build up my own profile of the person. Especially if you have deleted previous conversations. An absolute life saver. 🙏

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
1 week ago

South Wales

Ours was our first ever meet from here. 15 years ago on our old profile.

Turned up and they were a clear decade older than their ages and the guy hadn't told his wife we were coming.

They argued, we left, and it led to us leaving Fab for years.

From the above not much has changed in some people

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By *ibLeiMan
1 week ago

Manchester

The classic combo of "face looking entirely different from the pictures due to heavy plastic surgery" + "looking three stone heavier than in the photos". I nope'd out very quickly! Not understanding that honesty is crucial to any human interaction is problematic, to say the least.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
1 week ago

St Austell

Mention of arguments reminded me of an early Internet-arranged meet, through another site...

....turned up to find the husband fully "dressed" - lingerie, stockings, heels - and was hastily reassured by the wife, who, in contrast, was wearing just a robe, that it was OK, he simply liked to dress that way, nothing else...

....'Round One' went OK, culminating in her riding and gushing all over me as I shot my first load up into her - 'Round Two' shortly afterwards became a different matter, however...

....as she and I were getting warmed up, he began 'directing', constantly issuing instructions to "do this", and "she likes that" - until she shouted at him to "shut up, or fuck off and leave us to it"...

....which immediately resulting in them having a blazing row before he stormed out of the bedroom, only to return moments later and start again - I quickly dressed, left them to it, and could still hear them shouting at each other as I made my way out of their front gate...

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
1 week ago

easington were the sun dont shine

met a guy in a club who told us he was 1 parent family to a kid with autism his wife had died. wwhn only attend club every 2 weeks.

mrs felt sorry which led to a few weeks of play.

any didnt see him for months.then his wife came looking for him in the club.

bumped into him in a club walked over he wanted to explain we just told to fuck off and keep away from us.

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By *ant...stay...awayCouple
1 week ago

South Wales


"All in clubs.

Man who poured out his life story. Our first club visit, do I naively just let him ramble on and on. He eventually plucked up the courage to turn the convo sexual and I politely turned him down. He burst into floods of tears and begged for a hand job. I just didn't know what to do, so I petted him in the head like a kid who'd been told they couldnt have skittles for breakfast

"

Best 'worst' story ever - laughing out heads off at the horror! X

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By *ell I WonderMan
1 week ago

Staines


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

Blimey! That would put me off for good!

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By *elaxing2Couple
1 week ago

Manchester

Remembered another one as in club and leaving viewing room with hubby and couple of guys another man wanted to make conversation with us and for next 30 mins told us his life story as we back in bar area and saying he lives alone after being dumped and more it continued we invited him for threesome

Got into room and soon I started sucking his cock the smell was so bad and told him to get hands off as can't suck as he not clean

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By *ell I WonderMan
1 week ago

Staines


"When I went on a date pre meeting my husband, my date turned up with no teeth. "
🤣😂

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By *lltheboostCouple
1 week ago

Shefford

A couple friend of mine went to a “party” (I use this term very loosely) they were in there mid forties and attractive.

They arrived to a house filled with people that were considerable older. Nothing wrong in that, but not what they were expecting. Everyone then sat in silence in the lounge with their sandwiches in Tupperware boxes… yes sandwiches and Tupperware!! lol

People then sort of quietly paired off, went up stairs and came back down. One couple had a kiss in the lounge and were told off.

My friends faked an emergency phone call and legend it 🤣

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By *ryingNew55Woman
1 week ago

Newhey

I had a meet with a very keen man. Shouldn’t have done it but he caught me in a rare free morning. Turned up at his and he was so nervous. We kissed and it was like he’d never kissed anyone before. I thought aw well I’m here now and took my vest off. He came immediately. I left lol

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By *lltheboostCouple
1 week ago

Shefford


"I had a meet with a very keen man. Shouldn’t have done it but he caught me in a rare free morning. Turned up at his and he was so nervous. We kissed and it was like he’d never kissed anyone before. I thought aw well I’m here now and took my vest off. He came immediately. I left lol"

Awww that’s kinda sweet! Big compliment for you!

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
1 week ago

goffs oak

We met a couple from another swingers site, the guy was very keen but it was obvious he had pressured her into it, we made our excuses and went to leave. He was shouting at her and told her it was her fault we were leaving, Andy told him to calm down as we were just not into playing and that he needed to sort himself out. We left but were so concerned we messaged them to check everything was ok, he messaged back to say can we meet again but just him.

Unbelievable, to this day I still worry about her poor thing.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
1 week ago

Nuneaton

Can’t say we’ve ever had a bad meet that we have regretted but one where the guy kept texting for weeks afterwards asking if we were horny at inappropriate times like 3am really put a downer on the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I met a larger woman who wanted me to go down on her.

That’s fine, I love going down on women.

However, this was not ok, she was stinking and I didn’t last long before I had to come back up, get dressed and leave.

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By *arry monk40Man
1 week ago

Telford

Arrange to meet at local pub car park and the walk back to hers as I arrived she was there in a rain coat slippers and three children luckily it had 2 entrances I was off into the sunset

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By *orthern BeardMan
1 week ago

Preston

Been a couple over the years where I’ve just not been able to go down there and I’ve made my excuses. I adore eating pussy but fuck me I won’t stoop that low.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

My very first fab meet almost 9 years ago.

Met the woman for 2 coffee socials over a few weeks before agreeing to meet in an hotel.

When we were both undressed she suddenly and without warning, punched me full in the face.

I asked wtf and started to get dressed. She apologised and begged me to stay saying that it was her kink to have me retaliate. I refused and told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit.

I told her she had never mentioned it before in the weeks we had been chatting or on the two previous occasions we had met socially.

She agreed and said she had just assumed I wouldn't have turned up if she had said anything which was very true but a shitty thing to do.

I agreed to stay but she had to promise no more surprises.

An hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.

I got dressed at that point and left despite having paid for the room.

I left the site a couple of days later thinking everyone here was as much of a loon as she was and nobody respected boundaries.

In the years since I've looked back and wondered what could have happened if the roles were reversed or even if I had played along.

She was half my size so I wasn't physically in any danger but it would always be her word against mine and there was only one way that was going.

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By *scarpatMan
1 week ago

sexy town

I once met a woman off fab that clearly never washed her vagina for some time before meeting me. The smell didn't hit me until i started playing with her and then it almost knocked me sideways! I looked down at her underwear and it was yellow with piss stains.

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By *andPextraCouple
1 week ago

North West


"My very first fab meet almost 9 years ago.

Met the woman for 2 coffee socials over a few weeks before agreeing to meet in an hotel.

When we were both undressed she suddenly and without warning, punched me full in the face.

I asked wtf and started to get dressed. She apologised and begged me to stay saying that it was her kink to have me retaliate. I refused and told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit.

I told her she had never mentioned it before in the weeks we had been chatting or on the two previous occasions we had met socially.

She agreed and said she had just assumed I wouldn't have turned up if she had said anything which was very true but a shitty thing to do.

I agreed to stay but she had to promise no more surprises.

An hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.

I got dressed at that point and left despite having paid for the room.

I left the site a couple of days later thinking everyone here was as much of a loon as she was and nobody respected boundaries.

In the years since I've looked back and wondered what could have happened if the roles were reversed or even if I had played along.

She was half my size so I wasn't physically in any danger but it would always be her word against mine and there was only one way that was going. "

You win. That's going to take some beating

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By *hropscple50sCouple
1 week ago

Newport-ish

Only time we have left a meet was when invited back to home of a couple we had met for a social.

When followed them home parked up and went in with them.

Went into the lounge where our hosts began to strip off… then the sofa was moved to block the door…

We thought it was to increase the play area.

In fact it was to stop their 14 and 16 year old kids coming in who were upstairs in their bedrooms.

We stopped right there gathered our things and vacated.

Only to have a volley of abuse via email.

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

Too many to name...mainly because I rather meet outside of keyboard lies so I guess most think I'm some imagination fairy.

When they realize I'm a real human they either ghost or think I'm going to fuck them in the booths at Costa... It's a shit show on here

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By *ickingdelightMan
1 week ago

Cotswolds

Was chatting to a girl for ages from another site a long time ago, arranged to meet at hers, arrived knocked on the door.

An old man opened the door. (Heart sank thinking it was a windup) then he asked who I was seeking.

Then I realised I didn’t know her name… like a fumbling teenager I said something along the lines of a girl I’ve been messaging online. Another female in the house saved me and I was taken upstairs.

It was a uni house share, and he was a father of one of the girls.

Meet was great, she was very kinky but a screamer which was quite off putting with people downstairs that we could hear…

Didn’t meet again

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By *heswingerMan
1 week ago

the steel city sheffield

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By *heswingerMan
1 week ago

the steel city sheffield


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

can sort of relate to this, someone I know trolled me an posted links to everything all over social media, police did nothing about it even tho I had all the proof

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By *rscotsdudeMan
1 week ago

angus


"My very first fab meet almost 9 years ago.

Met the woman for 2 coffee socials over a few weeks before agreeing to meet in an hotel.

When we were both undressed she suddenly and without warning, punched me full in the face.

I asked wtf and started to get dressed. She apologised and begged me to stay saying that it was her kink to have me retaliate. I refused and told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit.

I told her she had never mentioned it before in the weeks we had been chatting or on the two previous occasions we had met socially.

She agreed and said she had just assumed I wouldn't have turned up if she had said anything which was very true but a shitty thing to do.

I agreed to stay but she had to promise no more surprises.

An hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she was standing to one side of the door and drove her knee into my balls.

I got dressed at that point and left despite having paid for the room.

I left the site a couple of days later thinking everyone here was as much of a loon as she was and nobody respected boundaries.

In the years since I've looked back and wondered what could have happened if the roles were reversed or even if I had played along.

She was half my size so I wasn't physically in any danger but it would always be her word against mine and there was only one way that was going.

You win. That's going to take some beating "

I think he did take some beating....I will get my coat

In all seriousness, sounds awful and can feel your pain just reading that!

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By *ig_belly_grrrlWoman
1 week ago

Finchley

Turned up to a large house, but on the inside it looked more like a halfway house. The guy immediately opened the door before I could ring the bell 'so I didn't wake up his housemates' (he was in his 50's) Three flights up (I have an old spinal injury) and he opens the door to what looks like a Broom cupboard with a mattress on the floor, but surrounded by dirty plates/mugs. Immediately turned around and left...

...and for any 'I have loads of conversations and socials first' - people lie, and probably won't be forthcoming with details like 'I live in a shithole'.

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
1 week ago

Darkest South East Surrey

Wow, some of these stories really put me off ever meeting someone from here!

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By *erry2020888Man
1 week ago

stockport

Went round to hers, place was a dirty tip,

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By *andyh78Man
1 week ago

manchester


"Worst one I had I turned to to the house if someone who was well verified and who id been chatting to for a while.

Walked in and the house was like a landfill, like of of those hoarder shows you see on TV. Stank like cat piss, half eaten pizza and empty drinks everywhere.

Made my excuses and left. Years later I can still smell it "

I’ve had one of these. Left like a shot.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

I met a woman from my couples profile with my husband, turned out she had a baby in the next room which we didn't know until afterwards, then her brother stormed in and went crazy, apparently she was in some protective accomodation and wasn't allowed visitors, put me off meeting forever.

Then there's the catfish's, why say your 10 years+ younger than you are the social is never going to go further, it's just a waste of time.

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire

i honestly wished i hadnt read some of these stories but fuck are they funny

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By *enuine MikeMan
1 week ago

Guildford

Other than No shows, the Worst meet I had lasted literally a minute.

The couple arrived to my house and I let them. Showed them to the living room.

I asked them if i could get them a drink. They didnt even sat down.

They got offended because I had the Television on, so they left.

I laughed

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By *hewestswingMan
1 week ago

Ballydeknob


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

Wow. What were they really after

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By *onnie 90Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

I met a couple from here. I invited them round to my place after a few days of messaging. They seemed very friendly, polite and genuine.

They arrived, quick chat then into the bedroom. He was very keen but she was far from it. She only took her top off and said she was on her monthly (absolutely no mention of this over the previous days messaging). Naturally I wasn't happy about this. More so after he started giving her orders to do things. "Kiss her", "lick her". It was as if she didn't want to be there or do anything. I was completely cold by this point and he'd obviously noticed and gone soft (quiet sigh of relief). They got dressed and left. I felt so relieved that they had gone as I'd started to feel genuinely uncomfortable.

Next morning a got a nasty message off her (yeah right) saying it was my fault that the meet was crap and she lied about being on her monthly because I didn't do what he wanted. When I pointed out the facts to them and that I had been lied to the abuse started so they were blocked and reported.

Obviously he was in the driving seat and she seemed to be his unwilling vehicle to getting his end away. Sorry, not my cup of tea.

More recently I arranged a meet with a guy. Chatted, gave him my address then explained that my flat was a bit untidy as I was in the process of decorating. As soon as he heard this he said he wasn't coming round as he only visits tidy flats 🤣

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories"

Same, people usually tell on themselves when you're ftf.

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By *ravelling ChappieMan
1 week ago

Stroud

After a period of chatting, pic swapping and checking out arranged a meet. Arrived at given address on time. I should have taken the rubbish in the front garden as a clue. She was shorter and older than she claimed. She wore a cheap wig, and garish makeup. After a few minutes chat I heard a noise in the next room. She told me it was her bedbound mother. I took that as my signal to make my excuses..... now always meet on neutral ground....

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By *nlyliveonce500Man
1 week ago

Lanivet

Years ago I had arranged to go to this couples house in Exeter, she was a lot younger than him. I was left chatting with her in the lounge for us to get comfortable with each other, he would keep sticking his head around the corner asking if we were ready. I could tell that he was getting increasingly impatient, but I could also see that she feared him and was clearly being pressurised to have sex with other men. I decided that I wasn't going to be part of his plan and this poor girls suffering, on making my exit he got very verbally aggressive with me.

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West


"Other than No shows, the Worst meet I had lasted literally a minute.

The couple arrived to my house and I let them. Showed them to the living room.

I asked them if i could get them a drink. They didnt even sat down.

They got offended because I had the Television on, so they left.

I laughed "

🤣

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories"

Locations don't deter the scum horrors.

Had a guy whip out his dick in a Starbucks and jacked off under the table I left. He sent a pic of his jizz hitting the seat saying wish I'd stayed..

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
1 week ago

Birmingham

He turned up d*unk. Potentially on something as he became increasingly paranoid the police where everywhere outside, there was no police.

He pissed in my garden whilst wearing a condom so it burst all over himself and splashed everywhere. I don't know why he was wearing a condom tbh.

It took me 6/7 hours to eventually get him to leave.

And that was all finished off by alot of abuse after we said we didn't wish to meet again. He stalked me for quite some time on fab and other platforms.

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By *ild-One710Man
1 week ago

Northampton

Never had a bad meet my 1st meet I'm still actively fucking her, filthy ginger slut loves everything and up for anything just how i like it

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
1 week ago

Cardiff


"Never had a bad meet my 1st meet I'm still actively fucking her, filthy ginger slut loves everything and up for anything just how i like it "
what a way to explain her

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By *egoMan
1 week ago

Preston

Good greif, I've had bad liaisons, but never from Fab.

How they talk and the background in pics is usually a good indicated, plus if its too good to be true, it is.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

A man that cum twice and then told me he was repulsed by his own cum and wouldn't touch me even if I washed.

It was the most horrendous feeling in the world.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories

Locations don't deter the scum horrors.

Had a guy whip out his dick in a Starbucks and jacked off under the table I left. He sent a pic of his jizz hitting the seat saying wish I'd stayed.."

That's true, but at least you're not alone with them in their home and you just can up and leave.

Plus if it's a social and they've lied about age /pics you can just go and they don't know where you live etc.

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By *ild-One710Man
1 week ago

Northampton


"Never had a bad meet my 1st meet I'm still actively fucking her, filthy ginger slut loves everything and up for anything just how i like it what a way to explain her "

She insists i call her that haha

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland


"Wow, some of these stories really put me off ever meeting someone from here!"

Yeah I'm feeling you on that one dude.

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories

Locations don't deter the scum horrors.

Had a guy whip out his dick in a Starbucks and jacked off under the table I left. He sent a pic of his jizz hitting the seat saying wish I'd stayed.."

Sweet lord. Why the hell do such weirdo exist and where do they come from? That's just wrong.

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By *end1Man
1 week ago

southend on sea

Holly fuck reading these horror stories makes me feel lucky I've never had a bad or smelly meet! Must admit I'm shocked about the women not washing eeewwwwww🤢🤢

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By *andkCouple
1 week ago

Wisbech

Had a lady from another site come over after a few weeks of messaging, she was 5 stone heavier and 15 years older than her photos implied. However times were hard and one doesn't like to make people feel bad, we had a fairly energetic session. I went to make drinks and nibbles and she had left along with my Gucci watch and jewelry. Messaged to say she had to dash, the weeks later started bombarding me with messages claiming I was cheating one her

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By *lltheboostCouple
1 week ago

Shefford


"Years ago I had arranged to go to this couples house in Exeter, she was a lot younger than him. I was left chatting with her in the lounge for us to get comfortable with each other, he would keep sticking his head around the corner asking if we were ready. I could tell that he was getting increasingly impatient, but I could also see that she feared him and was clearly being pressurised to have sex with other men. I decided that I wasn't going to be part of his plan and this poor girls suffering, on making my exit he got very verbally aggressive with me. "

Well done for having some integrity

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
1 week ago

doncaster

We met up with a couple in a hotel bar been chatting for a few weeks and they were only really interested in non swap same room so we was up for this as attraction didn’t really matter as we would be playing only with our own partners…got to the bar and the female half was much older than the picture that was sent again not really an issue as we wouldn’t be playing however they were both absolutely smashed she went out for a cig (non smokers) 5 mins later hotel staff came in and said an ambulance has been called as she was that d*unk she had fallen down the stairs and broke her ankle the male half then tried to carry on the meet saying he would carry her to the room whilst having a go at her for ruining the night we decided to drive home and we laughed the whole ten mile journey back about how surreal the whole thing was….this isn’t the worst meet though we have had worse but won’t post as the person is a forum poster so don’t want them to see

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By *ugehandsMan
1 week ago

Fife/ Newcastle


"I once met a woman off fab that clearly never washed her vagina for some time before meeting me. The smell didn't hit me until i started playing with her and then it almost knocked me sideways! I looked down at her underwear and it was yellow with piss stains. "

There goes any thought of dinner tonight.. Yuk

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By *ugehandsMan
1 week ago

Fife/ Newcastle


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories

Locations don't deter the scum horrors.

Had a guy whip out his dick in a Starbucks and jacked off under the table I left. He sent a pic of his jizz hitting the seat saying wish I'd stayed.."

A good reason to get drive through,at least I know my car seats are clean.

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By *aked plumberMan
1 week ago

lincoln

Met with a couple where after about an hour of talking in their living room they had a domestic and she buggered off upstairs. I tried to make my exit but the guy kept me talking and I ended up being agony aunt…. well uncle for another hour or so. Tad awkward.

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By *iss DevilWoman
1 week ago

Bedford


"Never had a meet that wasn't memorable. I've never and wouldn't set up a meet with anyone without at minimum a 20 minute phone call and/or going to a public place first before private 🤷‍♂️"

That's a very specific amount of time for a phonecall? How is it supposed to prove someone is genuine? I will never give my number to any random person on here.

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By *rX2024123Man
1 week ago

Rotherfield

Not been on here long & haven't had any meets yet, not sure I want to risk having any now!

🤣🤣

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By *ee642024Woman
1 week ago

Crook

worse meet was with a man last year who crashed hes car into a ditch with me in, near the woods,this was at half ten at night along a quiet road.he told me to 'get out and walk'so i walked 25 mins before a kind man and woman saw me and picked me up.they were shocked when i told them what had happened.they took me home and then went back to try and find the guy i was with.

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By *ardiner8Couple
1 week ago

Ramsgate

Out dated photos and photoshop on what they think is a prize possession on profile. Then when you meet you find out yours is bigger on the slack than theirs with a rubber thing to keep it hard. Partner most disappointed but hey ho.

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By *idnightMischiefMan
1 week ago

London

Being locked in a house by a completely d*unk woman, who refused to let me go unless I had sex with her!

I didn't want to have sex with her, because she was so d*unk - but she kept trying to drag me upstairs, insisting that she couldn't find her keys.

In the end I had to threaten to kick her windows through before she retrieved the keys and let me out!

I drove away so fast I could see the exhaust trail behind my car!

Next day I had a text message from her, "You cunt you stole my laptop!"

Followed by another one "It's OK, I found it, you're a nice guy xx"

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire


"Crazy stories, that's why I always want a public social 1st, so many horror stories

Locations don't deter the scum horrors.

Had a guy whip out his dick in a Starbucks and jacked off under the table I left. He sent a pic of his jizz hitting the seat saying wish I'd stayed.."

And there had been no prior hints that he was clearly a bit of a wrong 'un?

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By *idnightMischiefMan
1 week ago

London


"Via a phone chatline, pre-internet"

I used to call those lines back in the day too - some of them could be quite cheap if you knew where to look.

But when I look back I'm like WTF? Going directly to women's homes in the middle of the night, on impulse, without a photo - well, I have stories that could make most people's toes curl!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex

After the worst meet we've had we almost stopped altogether.

It did make us very aware of what not to do though.

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By *heblackkatWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

I have had some amazing meets!

But one of the very first made me doubt my future here lol.

Chatted for a while I invited him round.

He was late.

He was about 15 years older than his photos.

We'd arranged for him to give me a massage to help me relax and see what progressed.

I invited him in because it was just a massage.

He was very weird.

I was laid on my front hating every second.

He kept talking about random shit when I was trying to switch off.

He wasn't anything like his photos or online persona.

I thought just let him finish the awful massage.

After he was quite forceful about getting "something in return".

He wasn't physically doing anything but he was in front of the door and very pushy about how I owe him.

It was awful.

I just put my head on his shoulder and strokes his dick til he came.

He just got himself a tissue, got dressed and left.

I jumped up and locked the door. It was an awful experience.

I was pretty naive in the meet scenario.

I had a "partner" helping arrange meets and checking people out. He knew where I was and things so I felt it was okay.

The guy blocked me on here the se and he got to his car. Probably so I couldn't say anything about what happened.

He still makes me skin crawl to this day.

HOWEVER!

As I say lots of great meets and club meets since. It's not all doom an gloom

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By *end1Man
1 week ago

southend on sea

Anymore horror stories?

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By *randmrsfuntobehadCouple
1 week ago

manchester

Ones where we have booked a hotel and paid, paid for food and drinks, paid for new outfits and they just don’t turn up. Hence now we always message over WhatsApp and get the banter going for a few weeks first. Better to make sure they aren’t secretly married also as we have a good flow of messages, pics and flirting.

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By *ike_looking_forMan
1 week ago

Cumbria

a long while back, her pics were quite out of date, we met for a drink but no real chemistry - still ended up back at my hotel, went to suck on her tits and they were really sweaty and not in a good way, then ended up cumming way too fast - awkward departures and never seen again!!

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
1 week ago

stafs

Not had many, 3 as a couple but they’ve all been amazing! May stop here so it’s not a let down lol

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By *ikingpairCouple
1 week ago

Cambridge

Reading these makes our worst experience look tame. But here goes anyway.

We agreed to meet a couple for a social in a local pub, no expectations either way. They turned up, pleasant enough, got some drinks in and started with the usual small talk. After half an hour of this I thought it time to move the conversation onto swinging. So I said something like 'so, how you finding things on Fab? You have some nice photos on your profile '. At this point the husband looked very shifty, went quiet, staring into his beer. His wife said 'What's Fab?' It turned out she had no idea he'd set up a couples profile including plenty of pics of her! Nor why they were meeting us!

To be fair, she was brilliant, took it all very calmly, while we were bracing ourselves for a major domestic! Unbelievably he had put a couple of bottles of wine in the car, and was keen to come back to ours! Suffice to say we suggested they return home to discuss their swinging future. They're no longer on Fab

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By *ilthydan69Man
1 week ago

abingdon


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

Well that’s a couple who need a lovely STD

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex


"Reading these makes our worst experience look tame. But here goes anyway.

We agreed to meet a couple for a social in a local pub, no expectations either way. They turned up, pleasant enough, got some drinks in and started with the usual small talk. After half an hour of this I thought it time to move the conversation onto swinging. So I said something like 'so, how you finding things on Fab? You have some nice photos on your profile '. At this point the husband looked very shifty, went quiet, staring into his beer. His wife said 'What's Fab?' It turned out she had no idea he'd set up a couples profile including plenty of pics of her! Nor why they were meeting us!

To be fair, she was brilliant, took it all very calmly, while we were bracing ourselves for a major domestic! Unbelievably he had put a couple of bottles of wine in the car, and was keen to come back to ours! Suffice to say we suggested they return home to discuss their swinging future. They're no longer on Fab "

Dear god! 😱

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣

Well that’s a couple who need a lovely STD "

What!?

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire


"Reading these makes our worst experience look tame. But here goes anyway.

We agreed to meet a couple for a social in a local pub, no expectations either way. They turned up, pleasant enough, got some drinks in and started with the usual small talk. After half an hour of this I thought it time to move the conversation onto swinging. So I said something like 'so, how you finding things on Fab? You have some nice photos on your profile '. At this point the husband looked very shifty, went quiet, staring into his beer. His wife said 'What's Fab?' It turned out she had no idea he'd set up a couples profile including plenty of pics of her! Nor why they were meeting us!

To be fair, she was brilliant, took it all very calmly, while we were bracing ourselves for a major domestic! Unbelievably he had put a couple of bottles of wine in the car, and was keen to come back to ours! Suffice to say we suggested they return home to discuss their swinging future. They're no longer on Fab "

I think this is more common than people could believe

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By *pslad99Man
1 week ago

colchester

Must say I have not had a bad meet I have met and we decided not to take it further.

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By *hil most chillMan
1 week ago

South East & Europe

Mine is quite tame compared to most of these nightmare scenarios. All I'll say I'd she had a lot of cats. Oh and she was unable to kiss without ramming her teeth into mine I've never experienced that before or since, it still seems weird that it happened

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By *abba44Man
1 week ago

Broadstairs

My worst was a Dr and partner they had moved into a new house a year previous and it was still partially unpacked boxes everywhere.

They then told me they had 2 bull terriers locked in kitchen.

We retired to bedroom unmade bed and clothes strewn about l stripped ready the guy got on the bed than one of the dogs jumped onto me.

l managed to get out whilst they were securing the dogs outside.

And another one l turned up and the photo sent to me was at least 30 years out of date,turned around and legged it.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
1 week ago

Cheshire

This was quite a few years ago when I was a lot younger and a bit naive.

A guy came around claiming he was bisexual and was very experienced with Tgirls. I however wasn’t and apart from a few fumbles in the dark with a couple of guys I hadn’t really ‘done’ anything with a man.

I started with a BJ but he was trying to get me to deep throat, I was hating it and just wanted it to end. I carried on as best as I could and even though he wanted to mount me I told him no, not on a first time with a guy plus he didn’t have a condom.

Eventually he came and all through the experience he never once tried to pleasure me or consider my needs. So it just felt like I was used and to a certain extent abused for his pleasure alone. However as he was getting dressed I heard him muttering (I was in the bathroom cleaning myself up) then he told me he wasn’t gay in a quite nasty manner, I didn’t say anything just wanted him out. It eventually got to where he was almost shouting at me for ‘seducing him’ and making him ‘do things’ which was quite the opposite. I asked him to leave (actually told him to get out) and next thing I know he’s right up against me fists clenched. He didn’t hit me but just yelled in my face I had boxed in the Army so I knew how to protect myself but he was a lot bigger and I knew id probably lose, then god knows what would happen.

Luckily for me after venting he picked up his jacket and left, a couple of whiskeys later I calmed down.

It was the last time I ever have had someone around my place and although I’m over it now, I still don’t trust people that much and wherever possible now only meet in clubs or venues in which I know I’ll be safer.

I have had scary experiences out and about, bit of name calling, occasionally followed when dressed but apart from these random incidents that was the most intense and traumatic experience I’ve ever had.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

Guy invited me to his place for our second date after a really successful social meet. We played a ‘strip’ game.

2 hours later I was pretty naked feeling awkward and vulnerable and he sat there, ordered himself takeaway, and made no move whatsoever, and showed zero interest.

I said I was off, and he got mardy and refused to walk me back to my car, in a strange city, at like 1am.

It hit my confidence so hard that I took a break from here x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

Maybe the last hotel meet that I paid for as a present only for the other person to spend at least some of the evening thinking about someone else....

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
1 week ago

Cardiff

Some scary moments

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 week ago

East Sussex

We've certainly had socials where one partner was definitely aware but very reluctant. I don't know what the keen partner is hoping to achieve ...well I do but do they ever consider the impact on their relationship? Or are they of the fairly common mindset if some threads are to be believed, that they *know* their partner would enjoy it and they just want to see them get the 'pleasure they deserve'.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
1 week ago

Wherever

Just checking if I’ve been mentioned.

🧐

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By *ikingpairCouple
1 week ago

Cambridge


"We've certainly had socials where one partner was definitely aware but very reluctant. I don't know what the keen partner is hoping to achieve ...well I do but do they ever consider the impact on their relationship? Or are they of the fairly common mindset if some threads are to be believed, that they *know* their partner would enjoy it and they just want to see them get the 'pleasure they deserve'."

As well as the impact on their own relationship, it's blindingly obvious to the couple they are meeting that all is not well. And that is really off-putting, with almost no chance of the social progressing into something more. So yes, my guess is most of the time it's guys thinking with their cocks. I'm allowed to say that as I am one (a guy, not a cock)

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
1 week ago

The Side of the Mersey

I’ve had a few where the woman clearly wasn’t into it and only doing it cos the boyfriend/husband had nagged about it. I’ve walked out of them before it even got to the bedroom a few times.

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By *ranfrascoMan
1 week ago

Dublin

The worst thing always is when any of the parts doesn't shown up. It's really disappointing and disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Just recently, met a guy iv seen a few times before. Thought he was OK but turns out he wasn't.

Just to set the scene, I generally don't cum on a meet, if I do then it's pretty much over ( that's a me problem )

This guy made me cum which I told him I didn't want, then when I tried to leave he got all aggressive and tried to force the matter. Things went south pretty quickly resulting in him knocked out on the floor with blood all over his sofa.

I left and didn't look back.

That night I decided I'm done with being Rita.

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By *espacito56Man
1 week ago

Orkney


"I’ve had a meet in the past where I got invited around and when I got there the whole family were there. Also one when I got there the house stank. Please someone put my faith back into meeting on fab. Has anyone else had any disasters "

Disasters, no, but then I've had no meets either lol.

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By *ondonbifunMan
1 week ago

Enfield

Not ‘worst’ as such as she was a decent lady and I had fun(in a way) but certainly the biggest ‘WTF’!

20yrs ago…

Chatting to a woman for a bit and she invited me over. Nice house, conversation, drinks etc and the kissing and touching led us up to her bedroom

Getting down to it, naked, doing our thing then when I was moving her around and into position her prosthetic arm fell off!

I honestly never saw it the whole evening as she had dim lighting throughout and was wearing a shawl type thing

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By *rlandoMan
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

Poor meets are usually due to bad manners and poor communication, always best to chat or have a social first !

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By *lthomasMan
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

2 worst meets

1 as a couple in my early days of swinging, got to their house, it smelled, they looked very unwashed and nothing looked clean. Stayed about 2 minutes

As a single, had a couple come to my hotel room & the pics they sent me of them selves were from about 20 years ago.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
1 week ago

Cardiff


"Just recently, met a guy iv seen a few times before. Thought he was OK but turns out he wasn't.

Just to set the scene, I generally don't cum on a meet, if I do then it's pretty much over ( that's a me problem )

This guy made me cum which I told him I didn't want, then when I tried to leave he got all aggressive and tried to force the matter. Things went south pretty quickly resulting in him knocked out on the floor with blood all over his sofa.

I left and didn't look back.

That night I decided I'm done with being Rita.

"

that’s what scares me if I did (I don’t & wont) invite anyone to mine just in case they over power me & be rough

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By *elly_ukcdTV/TS
1 week ago

Hinckley


"Just checking if I’ve been mentioned.

🧐"

🤭🤭🤭 you made me giggle!

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By *omingo77Man
1 week ago

blackburn

Wow some scary stories no wonder it’s so hard to meet on here

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
1 week ago

Medway


"This was quite a few years ago when I was a lot younger and a bit naive.

A guy came around claiming he was bisexual and was very experienced with Tgirls. I however wasn’t and apart from a few fumbles in the dark with a couple of guys I hadn’t really ‘done’ anything with a man.

I started with a BJ but he was trying to get me to deep throat, I was hating it and just wanted it to end. I carried on as best as I could and even though he wanted to mount me I told him no, not on a first time with a guy plus he didn’t have a condom.

Eventually he came and all through the experience he never once tried to pleasure me or consider my needs. So it just felt like I was used and to a certain extent abused for his pleasure alone. However as he was getting dressed I heard him muttering (I was in the bathroom cleaning myself up) then he told me he wasn’t gay in a quite nasty manner, I didn’t say anything just wanted him out. It eventually got to where he was almost shouting at me for ‘seducing him’ and making him ‘do things’ which was quite the opposite. I asked him to leave (actually told him to get out) and next thing I know he’s right up against me fists clenched. He didn’t hit me but just yelled in my face I had boxed in the Army so I knew how to protect myself but he was a lot bigger and I knew id probably lose, then god knows what would happen.

Luckily for me after venting he picked up his jacket and left, a couple of whiskeys later I calmed down.

It was the last time I ever have had someone around my place and although I’m over it now, I still don’t trust people that much and wherever possible now only meet in clubs or venues in which I know I’ll be safer.

I have had scary experiences out and about, bit of name calling, occasionally followed when dressed but apart from these random incidents that was the most intense and traumatic experience I’ve ever had.

"

Such an awful experience. I really hope that you're ok .

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
1 week ago

Medway


"Just recently, met a guy iv seen a few times before. Thought he was OK but turns out he wasn't.

Just to set the scene, I generally don't cum on a meet, if I do then it's pretty much over ( that's a me problem )

This guy made me cum which I told him I didn't want, then when I tried to leave he got all aggressive and tried to force the matter. Things went south pretty quickly resulting in him knocked out on the floor with blood all over his sofa.

I left and didn't look back.

That night I decided I'm done with being Rita.

"

Omg!! So sorry xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central


"...

Please someone put my faith back into meeting on fab. "

I'm dubious that your post OP has replies that will restore your 'faith back into meeting on Fab'

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By *C44Man
1 week ago

Ipswich

She came round after about a week of messaging, we get close on the sofa, apparent almost immediately that opinions on personal hygiene standards were not on a level. I feigned a headache 😂

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By *nonladnwMan
1 week ago

Town

I met a woman years ago who told me she was single, she invited me to her house one evening and we chatted for a while, after a couple of hours she took me by the hand and we headed upstairs and got down to business, we were well into each other and after about 20 minutes I was feeling like I could let go at any minute, at that point a man started banging on the front door and shouting, this turned out to be her husband who had actually been doing a night shift, apparently one of the neighbours had tipped him off.

Thankfully I was able to escape from a rear window

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By *483Man
1 week ago

Rialto

I've a thing for older women and got chatting to one from Limerick. Finally got her to Dublin, had one of those staycation apts booked.

Girl stunk like an ashtray, smoking superkings. Got over that as she reappeared from the room in stockings and thigh high boots. Went to the bedroom and went to eat her out, honestly the worst thing I've ever tasted. Ended up getting violently sick from the taste. Got my stuff and left soon after.

Still love the older girls though

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By *ungfunfellaMan
1 week ago

Lincoln

Going to a meet with a couple n getting into it only for their housemate to come in and it was my work boss

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By *lackwoodGentMan
1 week ago

Pontllanfraith

I met a couple at their place, one hot summer. They were bi, and very much into him being bi with me, their first time. We had a drink in their lounge, chatting and generally breaking the ice.

The room was hotter than the sun, so it was very hard to perform, but they wanted to keep the windows closed because of neighbours and noise. She was seriously turned on by her fella being bi, and it was very obvious he was not into it, which is a massive turn off naturally. She was very much pressuring him, which made us both softer then Mr Whippy.

I called a break in proceedings, so we could sit and chat, and hopefully open the windows.

That's when the door flew open and in burst their son, no more than seven, wondering why no-one had their clothes on.

Never left a place so quickly.

Another time, at a gangbang, there was one guy running very late, so we all got started. She was gorgeous, I was fucking her from behind, knelt and thrusting, when the doorbell went and in walked the late guy, aka my boss from a company 10 years before. Our eyes met, he span on his heel and I've never seen him since.

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By *lackcanaryWoman
1 week ago

Ipswich

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By *lackcanaryWoman
1 week ago

Ipswich

🤣🤣

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By *ltraVixenWoman
1 week ago

South Essex


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

My god that is awful xx

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By *onynickiCouple
1 week ago

Bournemouth

Arranged a foursome with a lovely looking couple.

Hotel booked. All got on with the preliminary chitchat…… lady was gorgeous and we had some fun but when it was Willy time, Mr Twinky didn’t want to get hard for me even with my best endeavours.

I know it happens to some men but at that time when I was first starting my lifestyle journey I found it quite upsetting and initially took it very personally.

Needless to say I’m over it and know that it wasn’t me but it felt like a rejection of sorts

Ho hum.

Men eh?

N

Xxx

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
1 week ago

Birmingham

Wow, some of these are truly awful and far worse than mine. Mine was probably my 2nd or 3rd meet and wasn't from Fab. Got dressed and travelled quite a way to this guys house. Got there and we chatted for a while and everything seemed to be going OK. He suggested we move to the bedroom. At some point during play he says I don't want to top, but be bottom. Call it nativity, but I said OK. Literally had a finger tip in him when he said "I need to pee" and off he went. Came back in sat on the bed and burst into tears. At that point I said it was probably better if I left, which I did. Luckily I found Fab shortly after and have never had anything close to that happen.

XX

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By *ickedtiesCouple
1 week ago

limerick

Has to be a couples meet, months ago...Mrs got jealous and stopped everything 🙄

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West

Broke my ankle as I stepped through the door

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By *offee27Man
7 days ago

Wiltshire

Turned up, she looked 10 years older than photos and had rotting teeth.

Breath was horrible when she said hi and she went for a kiss straight away.

I turned around and legged it back to my car before she even attempted to come near me.

Had my phone flooded with text messages over the next few days from herself and friends.

Had to change my number.

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By *odhiMan
7 days ago

Truro

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By *orkshireknockersCouple
7 days ago

york

Easy our only 1. A social arranged by a couple on here with plenty attending blackpool. We arrived and it was just catchup all day every pub they said they were in turns out they had moved on this lasted the whole day. Blamed poor internet for not getting messages but all it took was to wait. So put us off meets tbh. Wasted trip.

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By *nnandElleCouple
7 days ago

Brackley

These stories are why we generally prefer to meet in a club first!

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
6 days ago

Redditch

Parked up. Got bad vibes. I always like to be reliable and non judgmental but thought this looks like a crack den. Met m half outside and alarm bells went off but said give it a go...inside was like a damp, lightless den of Mr Trebus. Oh my word the smell. Mrs was lovely but was umable to compete with my disgust. I tried to make the best of a bad situation and we had a giggle and some "fun" but i couldn't get/stay hard so left quite quickly. Kicked myself for even going in. Honestly made me question even doing this any more. Need a good one to get the taste of this one out of me!!!

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By *kguy4444Man
6 days ago

Wales


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

That’s a mind bender that. Puts a premature cumshot in my wife’s face and a few tears in the no problem category!

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By *end1Man
6 days ago

southend on sea

Anymore horror stories 😊

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By *ybermanMan
6 days ago

Comberton


"The first couple I ever met during my early (naive) days on fab a few years ago. I went round and things were good, we had a few drinks and got chatting, decided to take it to the bedroom. The woman went to the bathroom and the man immediately pounced on me, I told him to wait for her to come back, she then walked in, walked back out again and he was still continuing, so I told him to check on her.

Anyway, he does and all I can hear is her screaming at him, calling me every name under the sun, I swiftly pack my things and get ready to leave. He tries to convince me to stay, obviously I don't.

The next day, I wake up to nasty messages from her, she's sent screenshots of my profile to my old work place, wrote reviews about me on the company page and made numerous accounts just to send messages saying how disgusting I am, how they both laughed at my body when I wasn't in the room. Put me off couples for a very long time 🤣"

Jesus H Christ! Wtf!

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
6 days ago

Leicester/Ipswich

As a couple, just the one! We were invited over to a verified single female's place to which we instantly said we were more than happy to meet publicly for a social first etc but she insisted! Anyway, we messaged throughout the week, she sent a message in the morning asking if we were still planning on coming which we were. We got to said address and decided to check the profile to which we were blocked!!!

Weirdly, she was verified genuine and her past meets had started viewing our profile all of a sudden!

Caused for us to lose a bit of faith in Fab after that but it's since redeemed itself!

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