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By *rtistA OP   Man
10 weeks ago

camden

I recently started seeing someone who said she wanted to explore this as a dynamic. I actually have found myself really interested and think it could be a great dynamic.

Wanted to reach out to see if other couples had advice on how to enter this lifestyle? Or their experiences short and long term? Appreciate any help

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By *HappywifehappylifeCouple
10 weeks ago

essex

It’s a fun dynamic, and can evolve to what you both find enjoyable, do research on the right cage, measure properly and decide how long you want to be locked, best to start off for a few days before moving to months of chastity

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By *rtistA OP   Man
10 weeks ago

camden

Thank you. That’s great advice. Are there any you would or wouldn’t recommend? I think I prefer the look of the metal cage type?

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By *HappywifehappylifeCouple
10 weeks ago

essex

Depends how small you want to go, smaller cages are good for not being too visible under normal clothing etc, if you go plastic probably the “holy trainer” is good start, Steel cages look better and come in many shapes sizes and forms, try house of denial they have a great selection, but also Prime has a good selection with real life reviews

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By *rtistA OP   Man
10 weeks ago

camden

So helpful thank you. I’ll look at both of those sites.

Have you found it has improved your relationship? Are you wearing it constantly now?

How does he find not being able to get erect? Also not orgasming? Is that something it takes time to get used to?

Sorry so many questions

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
10 weeks ago

warrington

They’re not particularly comfortable in most cases. I find the metal ones much better than the plastic ones. However the weight of the metal ones can be a problem as they tend to slide down and hang off your balls, which can be painful. Retaining waist straps are available to help with this. You will need to consider how often you want to remove it for hygiene and for shaving if you stay smooth.

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By *HappywifehappylifeCouple
10 weeks ago

essex

We are in a cuckold relationship, so wearing one is part of the dynamic and fun, if you want to ask more you can pm us

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By *rtistA OP   Man
10 weeks ago

camden

Thank you. I’ll do that x

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By *winkleToesAndCoCouple
10 weeks ago

London

Definitely going to follow this thread with interest

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By *llabouttheladyMan
10 weeks ago

Wakefield

Have a look at steelworxx website, they are top quality

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By *rtistA OP   Man
10 weeks ago

camden

Great. I’ll have a look. Thank you for the help

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By *trongbobMan
9 weeks ago

rochester


"Thank you. That’s great advice. Are there any you would or wouldn’t recommend? I think I prefer the look of the metal cage type?"

I'd recommend a steel cage, some people say they are heavy but I've never found this with mine.

The hardest part is finding the right size, I've tried a few before finally finding the perfect fit, fortunately they can be had on ebay for very little money, mine came from China and I'm very happy with it for less than a tenner.

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