FabSwingers.com forum: Are we wrong for wanting to share our partners?

By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

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By *adbod2godbodMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Different strokes for different folks

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By *orny PTMan
1 week ago

Peterborough

and they are fans of East-who-shagging-ma-missuss-enders, who do fantasise about having affairs, but won't admit it.

Stay awaaaay from ma fellla, y'hear me?

The hypocrisy of it all

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"and they are fans of East-who-shagging-ma-missuss-enders, who do fantasise about having affairs, but won't admit it.

Stay awaaaay from ma fellla, y'hear me?

The hypocrisy of it all

Your probably right there . Alot cheat but swinging isn't cheating and something you enjoy as a couple nobodies business

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By *runette n JayCouple
1 week ago

bilston

Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay

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By *allnHandsome12Man
1 week ago

Teesside

There’s a lot about the scene I’m not interested in and can’t understand, and similar to my circle of mates. It’s likely the minority who are into it but probably more than most people think, it’s just not spoken about openly.

That said, I have no personal judgement on it, each to their own

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By *onnie 90Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

Live your lives not theirs

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

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By *orny PTMan
1 week ago

Peterborough

"and they are fans of East-who-shagging-ma-missuss-enders, who do fantasise about having affairs, but won't admit it.

Stay awaaaay from ma fellla, y'hear me?

The hypocrisy of it all

Your probably right there . Alot cheat but swinging isn't cheating and something you enjoy as a couple nobodies business "

I've seen it twice and the turned out to be the jealous types.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

Live your lives not theirs

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By *orny PTMan
1 week ago

Peterborough

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

Live your lives not theirs

FB: who needs it? Bin it.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

Live your lives not theirs

FB: who needs it? Bin it."

Best place for it

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

As a society we have been told we must be monogamous but in reality is we are not meant to be.

It's why so many relationships fall apart.

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By *allnHandsome12Man
1 week ago

Teesside

"As a society we have been told we must be monogamous but in reality is we are not meant to be.

It's why so many relationships fall apart. "

I think that’s too broad. Monogamy is for some people and not others, the society part is why it’s not spoken about

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By *andb13Couple
1 week ago

Bradford

It's not wrong if it's what you like and want to do.

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By *otguy555Man
1 week ago

Bristol

We have some friends who know what me and my wife have done with other people and they think that we are strange for doing it but once we explained everything to them and we had a soft play with them they soon changed their minds

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By *ampire69Man
1 week ago

Birmingham West Midlands

i would not give a dam what anyone thinks about me or what i do, thats there problem not mine

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By *mateur100Man
1 week ago

nr faversham

Other guys look at my wife and I love it

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By *adeiteWoman
1 week ago

Stafford

I don't care what others do or think.

They aren't part of my marriage so can do one

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"I don't care what others do or think.

They aren't part of my marriage so can do one

Good answer

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By *oxy jWoman
1 week ago

taunton somerset

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay"

perfectly said....

the scene has alway been small infact id say (ie my opinion) its smaller now than 20/30 years ago that measured on how many swinging couples there are now (unless all hiding)... last thing we need is the scene to get popular as it will just get even more watered down ..

its not hard to see that vanilla women thats 99% of them want the standard fall in love have babies and live happy ever after security hence why women dont join the scene often married or single

bearing in mind 95% of just this site is men also add in the amount of fake couples and womens accounts that are just guys just proves we are a smaller group than we think...

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By *orny PTMan
1 week ago

Peterborough

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay"

There are some employers and HR bods that won't like this, despite rainbow flagging their own corporate presence.

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By *unseekers24Couple
1 week ago

stockport

Swinging is a way of keeping a sex live interesting especially if your in a long loving relationship.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay

perfectly said....

its not hard to see that vanilla women thats 99% of them want the standard fall in love have babies and live happy ever after security hence why women dont join the scene often married or single

bearing in mind 95% of just this site is men also add in the amount of fake couples and womens accounts that are just guys just proves we are a smaller group than we think...

Your absolutely right ! When something comes overpopulated it's not fun anymore! I thought swinging was bigger than it ever jas been ! Do think if more women and men spoke abojt the idea of it in their relationship they would definitely both be curious to try

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By *allnHandsome12Man
1 week ago

Teesside

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

Simply put, yes you’re in the minority, does it matter, no.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"Swinging is a way of keeping a sex live interesting especially if your in a long loving relationship."

Absolutely

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By *erry2020888Man
1 week ago

stockport

we only started swinging this year so new to it all

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

I’m sure most people on here have had the same view at some point in their life - I know I have.

It’s only now being in the lifestyle that I appreciate so many more viewpoints and that life isn’t black and white. I couldn’t imagine it being any other way now.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

"I’m sure most people on here have had the same view at some point in their life - I know I have.

It’s only now being in the lifestyle that I appreciate so many more viewpoints and that life isn’t black and white. I couldn’t imagine it being any other way now.

What's the point of being normal and vanilla anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

No we're not odd at all I love sharing my partner if fact I couldn't think of another way of existing.

I know she also loves to be shared it makes us feel alive

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire

"I’m sure most people on here have had the same view at some point in their life - I know I have.

It’s only now being in the lifestyle that I appreciate so many more viewpoints and that life isn’t black and white. I couldn’t imagine it being any other way now.

What's the point of being normal and vanilla anyway

A sizeable number of people live perfectly normal lives

They can't all be wrong

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By *ohn n jodieCouple (MM)
1 week ago

warrington

Nothing weird about it , we are experiencing together something we both get pleasure from , some watch footy for pleasure , others fine dining , do we label them as weird ? ( possibly Man U fans )

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

For me it makes me prouder because I get PERFECTION anytime I want it and they get to borrow a fraction... With that said I ONLY swing and share if the guy I'm with is capable in all areas of pleasure..that's sexually,physically, mentally, and emotionally.. those guys and types are rare but 20 years of only playing and sharing with that golden buzzer type of MAN and I won't change the standards.. otherwise I'd be disappointing 2 women..

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By *orny PTMan
1 week ago

Peterborough

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay"

If you go to an islamic country for a holiday and swing, that could cause problems.

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By *vonne5exMan
1 week ago

Doncaster

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

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I've never ever seen a Facebook post related to swinging, I must live in the wrong area lol

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

"Are we the minority? Saw a Facebook post earlier and so many people think swinging is weird and how could you let your wife sleep with another man etc !

I've never ever seen a Facebook post related to swinging, I must live in the wrong area lol"

Just wrong country

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By *umagain58Man
1 week ago

London

Nothing wrong with this in anyway. If you both comfortable with what you are doing and your relationship go for it. It’s not for others to tell you otherwise. Good for you

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By *lltheboostCouple
1 week ago

Shefford

Doesn’t matter what others think. Live and let live.

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By *orny salesmanMan
1 week ago

Preston

I absolutely love the idea of my missus fucking other guys it's my number one fantasy but she's far too vanilla and Menopausal now too so it won't happen but l love chatting to guys about what they would do to her

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By *obbiKentMan
1 week ago

maidstone

Beautiful sexy lady set me free to enjoy all I desired, now there no bigger turn on for me than enjoying the journey with others

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
1 week ago

leicester

We all have different opinions if you enjoy swinging h like us do it life’s too short x

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By *ngelLordCouple
1 week ago

Newport

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay"

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By *amon.dMan
1 week ago

antrim

Life's too short. If everyone is having fun and no one gets their feelings hurt go for it. Fulfil those fantasies. 😈

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By *helroyCouple
1 week ago

Skegness

if they not try it they wont no what the life stay is like

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By *eckard2019Man
1 week ago

North West Durham

"Different strokes for different folks"

What might be right for you may not be right for some

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By *lik and PaulCouple
1 week ago

cahoots

"Who cares what people think, not enough time in this life to be worrying about what others think.

Enjoy yourself, be you.

Jay

If you go to an islamic country for a holiday and swing, that could cause problems."

Easily avoided

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By *irty-pairCouple
1 week ago

South Essex

We find it more strange that people would be happier to remain in sexless relationships (we know plenty), or close themselves off from enjoying some amazing new experiences with other people.

Non-monogamy all the way! X

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By *B11Man
1 week ago

Burnley

We looking to try it

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By *ickedwillyCouple
1 week ago

Bangor

It takes 2 to play

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By *ostguy321Man
1 week ago

Bucks

Live the l8life you want and let those live theirs. I tend to find those who sit in pious judgement wish they had the courage to try something different, and they envy those who do

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

No, as long as everyone is aware and happy to be involved.

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By *orny salesmanMan
1 week ago

Preston

Would love to share mine

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By *hong80321967Man
1 week ago

Wakefield

Do what works for you, life's too short

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By *ony 529Man
1 week ago

coventry

"Do what works for you, life's too short"
. Yes if only

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By *ill.willMan
1 week ago

I don't think so, shows faith and security in the relationship I think

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By *mateur100Man
1 week ago

nr faversham

It's been 18 months since she last tasted another cock, I'm sure she wants to try again

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By *ihimbiherCouple
1 week ago

lightwater

Most swingers have the best relationship and this is why we CAN play with others because we understand that it is just sex! No emotions attached. Just great fun

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
1 week ago

leicester

"Most swingers have the best relationship and this is why we CAN play with others because we understand that it is just sex! No emotions attached. Just great fun"

100% agree x

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
1 week ago

Sutton Coldfield

Do you, not everyone else. That’s all that matters.

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By *hippy57Man
1 week ago

Chelmsford

If you really love someone ,why wouldn’t you want them to experience the joys of sex ,if they wanted too ,selfish to keep them to yourselves like a caged bird

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By *ustforfun8824Man
1 week ago

Limerick

Pm for wife (31) chat

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
1 week ago

somewhere

Each to their own..

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
1 week ago

falkirk

Not at all as long as she is part of the decision making

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By *allnHandsome12Man
6 days ago

Teesside

This turned form asking for perspectives to people being overly smug about their swinging relationships. To be expected on a swinging site I guess but shows there’s little room for discourse.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
6 days ago

Leicester/Ipswich

We can be alive for a long old time and if no one is getting hurt, there's multiple ways to play the game called life. There's no right or wrong doing. We love our life and our lifestyle and we accept that it doesn't work for everyone.

We've seen people come into this lifestyle as singles and leave to become fully monogamous in a relationship. What works for some may not work for others!

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By *andyguyhereMan
6 days ago

Huntly

This is something I've thought about many times, I'm single and have great difficulty getting responses to messages let alone meets. The few meets that I have managed to arrange have turned out to be no shows.

Personally I couldn't share a partner, that may sound selfish or controlling to some or maybe insecurity.

I met up with a swinger on another site before I found fab and I found that I had a deep admiration for this couple. The fact that they were so secure in their relationship and wanted the other to experience everything that they desired without any sense of jealousy was inspiring.

As I say I couldn't share but that's probably more to do with me than anything else, if it's what you both want then go for it, it doesn't matter what others think.

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By *rivatelurker OP Man
6 days ago

Chelmsford

TY everyone

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By *ony MannMan
6 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

We are turned on by this, nothing wrong with it.

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By *tag4VixenMan
6 days ago

Durham

I think it’s actually natural to want to share your partner but insecurities and lack of confidence to admit to wanting this gets in the way.

I have wanted to find a loving partner who would allow me to share her for many years.

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By *ein-guyMan
6 days ago

Cowes

I guess we are all different. I really understand why someone is happy to share if they have performance issues and want to see their partner happy and fulfilled. That is the ultimate show of trust and/or love. Other than that I'd worry about any partner of mine straying for better as it does happen afterall. Just an opinion....

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By *orny salesmanMan
5 days ago

Preston

I really hope l can get mine to play with another guy for my 50th birthday

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By *elboy1978Man
5 days ago

Jarrow

I would share someone’s wife and fuck them

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