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By *unatwork OP   Man
1 week ago

barnsley

Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?

Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site?

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By *asterfulsoulMan
1 week ago

Manchester

Many pictures are probably with long-term partners, not meets.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.

No one seems to care about the risks anymore.

Everyone lives bareback, that's a hard fact, but not with every single person on a first meet.

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By *alsaman15Man
1 week ago

Market Drayton

Same I've had at least 10 meet's I've turned down as I only play safe

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By *ice guy 77Man
1 week ago

ashford

Mine are with a couple I've known for a long time, trusted people

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By *orks funMan
1 week ago

Sheffield

frightening, when you look at the veris and posts of those who bareback, and just how far and wide they travel to play with people.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"frightening, when you look at the veris and posts of those who bareback, and just how far and wide they travel to play with people."

it can be off putting for sure

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By *utdoorfun7474Couple
1 week ago

armagh

Life is for living

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By *randmrscheater69Couple
1 week ago

Peterborough

We enjoy bareback we both mature and of course understand the risks but to have another guy actually cum in your wife is very very exciting

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire


"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.

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Are you sure it's women requesting this?

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
1 week ago

Hyde

With each other were bare (tho sometimes in group situations we use condoms as some women wouldn't want to give him a BJ after he's fucked me bare... their choice which we respect)

So.... anything of us would be bare...

Oral also tends to be bare...

Anyone else..... ABSOLUTELY a condom is used. Too much risk thanks!

K

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By *otmyrealname99Man
1 week ago

Manchester

Most pics and vids I see seem to be safe sex where they looked like one offs. With a few exceptions of course but adults make their own choices I guess

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

I always think showing the genitalia of a one off meet on your profile pictures is distasteful. I like to think the majority of ones I see are at least regular partners who continue to consent to their images being used 💜

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.

Are you sure it's women requesting this?"

Yes they often are verified with numerous pics.

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 week ago

Ayrshire


"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.

Are you sure it's women requesting this?

Yes they often are verified with numerous pics."

Given the number of guys that complain that they never get any first contact messages from women, this just seems highly unusual

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.

Are you sure it's women requesting this?

Yes they often are verified with numerous pics.

Given the number of guys that complain that they never get any first contact messages from women, this just seems highly unusual "

I never said they message me first, but when we chat they state clearly I want bareback only.

I have had a couple of messages from women, but they don't come at me like, "Hi cum inside me", it's always after some talking.

Literally last night I was talking with a super hot adventurous woman and I had to say I couldn't meet for that reason.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
1 week ago

Derby


"frightening, when you look at the veris and posts of those who bareback, and just how far and wide they travel to play with people."

Exactly this

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By *heSilverFox1701Man
1 week ago

Near Sleaford

I generally always play bareback unless asked not to but they are usually with the same people I mean 50odd verifications in a year - does that make me a tart???

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By *ertcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Hatfield

My hubby can't use condoms, gets a reaction. We've tried everything but nothing helps, so it's BB for us, we love it that way.

Dick in a condom? Looks like a poor,crappy, unappealing sausage 😁😁😁

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West

Safe here. There are things you can’t test for

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By *iddle ManMan
1 week ago

Walsall


"Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?

Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site?"

You will probably find most bareback pics on here are with partners or long term friends.

Yes it doesn't paint a great picture of the scene, but most I have encountered are safe.

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By *iss KinkWoman
1 week ago

North West


"Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?

Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site?

You will probably find most bareback pics on here are with partners or long term friends.

Yes it doesn't paint a great picture of the scene, but most I have encountered are safe."

How do you know they are safe?

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland

As much as I would like to try BB just once, I've always worn a condom and insisted on it regardless of if she says it's okay. It's just not worth it.

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By *eally_RosieWoman
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

Unless planning on fucking them I don’t see why anyone would be concerned about what’s on other people’s profiles, or who they sleep with or how they do it.

I prefer bareback. I test and I’m transparent about it. People I’m interested in can make their own mind up… and as far as I’m concerned that’s my obligation met.

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By *ondonbifunMan
1 week ago

Enfield

It’s so easy and quick to get a test and results nowadays.

Get results within 12/24hrs sent as a text to phone

If both/all consenting adults agree and provide results there’s no need for condoms

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By *entlemanrogueMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"Unless planning on fucking them I don’t see why anyone would be concerned about what’s on other people’s profiles, or who they sleep with or how they do it.

I prefer bareback. I test and I’m transparent about it. People I’m interested in can make their own mind up… and as far as I’m concerned that’s my obligation met."

I agree, but not everyone will have a recent test, that's what's off putting

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By *urious249Man
1 week ago

Newry

I have a creampie video on my profile but that is with my wife. I'm clear on my profile that I'm very STI conscious with meeting on here and I'm also not desperate for any meets. I'm not into meeting the whole website and I've turned down plenty of meets because I've got some red flags with regards to sexual health.

I think if it's someone you're interested in meeting and you see some raw/bareback content on their profile why not ask them about it? Could be a long term partner etc.

I've asked others about some content I've seen on their profile and was either put at ease or red flagged and moved on.

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By *uninlondon69Man
1 week ago

Tower Bridge South


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Dick in a condom? Looks like a poor,crappy, unappealing sausage 😁😁😁"

It's like cooking a roast. If you insist on a proper stuffing then you need to get some sausage meat out of it's wrapping

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By *av-RickMan
1 week ago

Nearby

As a few have said we are all adults who make calculated decisions on a daily basis, with some being more risk adverse than others, and no doubt some taking steps where there is any element of risk, but they may not be the same steps that everyone would take.

Stigma and stereotypes I think also play a part in people's perception.

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By *irtyThirtyAWoman
1 week ago

Cambridge

On both this and our couples account the only pics are of me and hub so no condoms but we only do bareback together, I might play along in fantasies about bareback but even when we only play with each other in clubs hubs uses a condom as a lead by example! He's had a V so im not on BC anymore and refuse to run any risk at all, even with condoms the guy needs to supply their own (in case of size difference) and i check it before they open it or put it on, even if we've played before, we like to be safe x

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By *uggiedMan
1 week ago

Birmingham

Some say safe sex on there profile but not safe on there photos or videos

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By *urvybeautyandthebeastCouple
1 week ago

narborough

We are only bare with each other. We play safe with anyone else

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By *andystick72Man
1 week ago

kinky Street

Always play safe

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By *ean directMan
1 week ago

havant

Is it not ones personal choice. We all try to be safe but lust and excitement might make one make individual risks

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

Used to only BB with long term partners only...now it's with a protection. If guys don't like it then they can simply move on to the hundreds of other women who are quite happy to take risks.

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By *enuine MikeMan
1 week ago

Guildford

I'm done raising my eyebrows with disbelief, it's more common now than ever before .

I always steer clear no matter how enticing their profile looks.

Each to their own 🤷‍♂️

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By *llFunPlayMan
1 week ago

Woking

always play safe unless in long term here

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By *lanetmeshMan
1 week ago

sittingbourne

Nothing better than stirring the porridge!

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By *enuine MikeMan
1 week ago

Guildford


"Nothing better than stirring the porridge!"

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮

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By *endalshaggersCouple
1 week ago

Kendal

It is what it is. If it's not affecting you directly, what does it matter?

As most have said, bareback generally happens between yourselves as a couple and *maybe* with close associates/people you've swung with a few times before.

Every picture/video I've seen of what appear on the surface to be one off meets shows usage of a condom.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
1 week ago

Cannock

We are a cuckold couple so some of Dee’s encounters over the years have been bareback.

Depends on the guy (or couple), the scenario and a multitude of other things.

We don’t get too hung up about how others play, it’s pretty much up to them. No one forded anyone to do anything they don’t want to do, or shouldn’t do anyway !

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By *eckard2019Man
1 week ago

North West Durham

Think it's mainly where the pics are of long term partners. I've seen lots of pics with condoms on here.

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By *lippy02Man
1 week ago

edinburgh


"We enjoy bareback we both mature and of course understand the risks but to have another guy actually cum in your wife is very very exciting "

Yes agree extremely exciting but also be careful and LTR really more realistic in this situation

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