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By *herapeuticCriminals OP   Couple
29 weeks ago

newton abbot

We keep on having men posing as couples absolutely wasting our time and effort and it’s putting us of even replying to genuine people. Is there a verification process that can be done every 3 months that certified couples can do even if it’s a paid process because these picture collecting gremlins and actually ruining genuine couples chances of having fun ?

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
29 weeks ago

your head

They could photo verify but it'll never be mandatory. If they came up with some paid thing, it still wouldn't be mandatory because the site is free to use.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
29 weeks ago

Nuneaton/Leamington

You could always politely request they send you a pic together holding so many fingers up or a particular object. Might not go down well with some but might work 🤔

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
29 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"We keep on having men posing as couples absolutely wasting our time and effort and it’s putting us of even replying to genuine people. Is there a verification process that can be done every 3 months that certified couples can do even if it’s a paid process because these picture collecting gremlins and actually ruining genuine couples chances of having fun ? "

Is it happening with couples profiles that have verifications ?

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By *ellhungvweMan
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham

What are you doing that is finding these people? Whatever you are doing is clearly not working for you so I would suggest that you look at a different way of validating them.

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By *sianTravellerMan
29 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

It is not even for couple’s! Also for single men where there are men hiding behind F / MF accounts just to collect pictures and have a good rub whilst they chat

Something should be done about it to get rid of the fake profiles if they do not get verified within a certain time period. When i mean verified, it has to be through photo verification and not another account verifying them

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By *xoticFrolicMan
29 weeks ago

Gosport

Ask for a video call before hand. With the amount of online tools available there should be a way you can verify without wasting your time. Plenty that don't require passing personal details along

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By *essaMayWoman
29 weeks ago

Fairytale Wood

It Happens on every site, from my experiences tends to be the guy dragging their partner into it to full-fill one or two fantasies, doesn't work for partner and they don't want to participate or even leave and the guys sadly try to continue the charade of being a couple as they think will be easier to get meets or just want you to talk dirty to them, want pictures or to meet on their own.

Many of these solo male couples may have been verified once, just learn to avoid them

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By *nlyessexCouple
29 weeks ago

Hornchurch


"We keep on having men posing as couples absolutely wasting our time and effort and it’s putting us of even replying to genuine people. Is there a verification process that can be done every 3 months that certified couples can do even if it’s a paid process because these picture collecting gremlins and actually ruining genuine couples chances of having fun ? "

We have had lots like that what we do is read the verifications if it’s says mr is a top guy or similar then we know it’s a couple

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By *nlyessexCouple
29 weeks ago

Hornchurch


"You could always politely request they send you a pic together holding so many fingers up or a particular object. Might not go down well with some but might work 🤔"

Omg that’s clever great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I have a couples profile and have never in all my years spoke to a guy pretending to be a couple, I've spotted the odd profile but it's extremely easy to spot.

Fab has a verification system that's easy to read up on veris as a couple.

Due diligence is needed on fab.

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

How about only speaking to verified couples or couples who only have pics of both on the profile?

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

Or failing that try your local clubs, lots of couples prefer meeting there as there's no non sense about back and forth with pictures x

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
29 weeks ago

Not Far From Doncaster

I was under the impression that all couples have to photo verify?

Every time we’ve set up a couples account to get Hubby involved, the sign-up process won’t complete and allow us to use the site until we’ve photo verified.

How on earth is it therefore possible for people to pose as a couple?

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I was under the impression that all couples have to photo verify?

Every time we’ve set up a couples account to get Hubby involved, the sign-up process won’t complete and allow us to use the site until we’ve photo verified.

How on earth is it therefore possible for people to pose as a couple? "

Maybe something to do with your IP address?

Not all account have to photo verify x

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By *ORBCouple
29 weeks ago

Dundalk


"I was under the impression that all couples have to photo verify?

Every time we’ve set up a couples account to get Hubby involved, the sign-up process won’t complete and allow us to use the site until we’ve photo verified.

How on earth is it therefore possible for people to pose as a couple? "

We had to photo verify before we were allowed to use the forum. I can't remember if we were able to message before that though.

Like others above we've never encountered a fake profile here or engaged with anyone pretending to be something they weren't.

The same is true for our single profiles. They are ridiculously easy to spot and the fact I've been here almost 9 years and have yet to be catfished or caught out by one isn't down to luck.

Due diligence just requires a little effort and some common sense.

It's an adult site and it's not up to the site to hold everyone's hand.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you want to make sure a couple are genuinely a couple either insist on a phone call where you speak to both or meet in Costa for ten minutes.

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By *umagain58Man
29 weeks ago

London

Speak to them on mobile before meet. A lot drop out at that stage but if genuine may do that. No obligation from me

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
29 weeks ago

Middle England

OP you've been on here a while and had lots of meets in person. Can you imagine the administrative overhead of verifying thousands of profiles every few months?

Why can't you set up something that works for you. There are chat rooms on here; get people to send a photo to you as mentioned above or use the anonymous chat apps. Or just go to clubs/socials and meet real people.

In short do your due diligence; that's the only fool proof way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex

We won't send photos of us balancing a teaspoon on our nose or speak on the phone but we will happily meet for a cup of coffee or a drink.

That way you don't only verify that the couple actually exist but you get a feel for it they're both equally keen on the idea.

In my opinion there's no substitute for a face to face meeting

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By *umagain58Man
29 weeks ago

London


"If you want to make sure a couple are genuinely a couple either insist on a phone call where you speak to both or meet in Costa for ten minutes.

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Exactly. Cuts out vast majority of them. Coffee good to make sure all comfortable doing this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you want to make sure a couple are genuinely a couple either insist on a phone call where you speak to both or meet in Costa for ten minutes.

Exactly. Cuts out vast majority of them. Coffee good to make sure all comfortable doing this "

Yep. You simply can't expect the site to do all the work for you.

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By *lascple24Man
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

We are a genuine couple but don’t do video or phone calls to prove we are genuine. We have verifications but will also just turn up for a quick drink in the flesh so it’s clear we are a couple.

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