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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who is the most successful guy on here for women and couple meets ? I know its not me lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Guess it depends how you measure 'success'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe if you wasnt so negative you would...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

times the length of time on site, the number of days available, subtracted from the amount of meets requested, added to the number of people contacted, square rooted by the number of clubs visited, and divided by the number of repeat meets I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months on the site no recorded (verified) meets perhaps you should browse the single guys profiles, see who is successfull and think about how thier profile differs from yours

Perhaps they have pictures ?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"times the length of time on site, the number of days available, subtracted from the amount of meets requested, added to the number of people contacted, square rooted by the number of clubs visited, and divided by the number of repeat meets I guess "

plus one of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange thread! Everyone one defines success differently and how would you verify?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a competition ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"maybe if you wasnt so negative you would..."

they have a point...... I tell people it took me 6 months to get my first meet, and that was getting myself known to the point of getting trusted......

the problem is too many people think it is should be handed to them on a plate as such...

I would like to think that it is my personality and the way I come across in chat, on the forum and at socials that has gotten me meets....

If I have made one more friend than I had before I started that to me is success.... its not always about the meets and the sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one new friend = success

one good meet with good sex for all = great success

more is a bonus

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Any fool can get meets, it's making the meets successful which matters most not the number of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm negative? i ask a light hearted question and i get a fucking thread of abuse about me lol you chill out and for the record i have had 2 meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you have been succesful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties

Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties

Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male "
Im not asking for advice lol was just a question for a fun thread lol so i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take it to heart, if you post in a forum people read it in different ways and respond accordingly, enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh im sorry i thought you was asking for advice...

maybe i read it wrong along with the rest of the people in the forums...

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Dummy.....Pram?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties

Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male Im not asking for advice lol was just a question for a fun thread lol so i thought "

And was just answering your question?

as in the most successful males will be the ones who host parties, socials etc.

but hey sorry for replying

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Strange thread! Everyone one defines success differently and how would you verify?!!"

in which case this is the answer to the OP question.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dummy.....Pram? "
lol yeh i am throwing dummy out of pram cus it seems that everyone can't wait to whinge on a thread lol jesus

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets."
im not whinging about meets i think your reading something thats not there.

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london


"Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets."

here here

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Yeah! he's had two. So now he's up for a challenge, so who's the daddy!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets.im not whinging about meets i think your reading something thats not there."

I didnt say you where. Lots of single guys come into the forums whinging and whining. The successful ones are the ones with a positive attitude and soldier on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Yeah! he's had two. So now he's up for a challenge, so who's the daddy! "

But neither have verified him just a webcam verification

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cool pics diamondsmiles

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Don't you love it when they come asking stupid questions then get shirty because people in the forums won't take them seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if there was a competition..

I wouldn't enter ...

you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...

you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...

other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...

yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...

if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )

and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular

so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't you love it when they come asking stupid questions then get shirty because people in the forums won't take them seriously? "
well you obviously do love it lol enjoying yourself are you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there was a competition..

I wouldn't enter ...

you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...

you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...

other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...

yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...

if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )

and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular

so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book...... "

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used

As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"

First impresions count!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used

As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"

First impresions count!!!"
I've never put that i always ask if they would like to chat and send pic.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used

As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"

First impresions count!!!"

now that i am 35... can i apply??? I promise at least 10... maybe even 20 words and a paragraph!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

now that i am 35... can i apply??? I promise at least 10... maybe even 20 words and a paragraph!!! lol"

Apply anytime..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt think it was a whining thread, I knew what the OP was saying just thought it a bit odd as there's no definitive answer. So come on people, play nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm negative? i ask a light hearted question and i get a fucking thread of abuse about me lol you chill out and for the record i have had 2 meets. "

This why single men get a bad time!!! at least there's a healthy majority of ladies around that can suss the good un's from the knobheads.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm em dont think "sucess" is quite the right word , in fact being honest this is a silly thread , its not a competition its meant to be fun for like minded folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm negative? i ask a light hearted question and i get a fucking thread of abuse about me lol you chill out and for the record i have had 2 meets.

This why single men get a bad time!!! at least there's a healthy majority of ladies around that can suss the good un's from the knobheads....."
lol so a good guy starts calling someone a knobhead then does he lol what a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there was a competition..

I wouldn't enter ...

you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...

you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...

other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...

yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...

if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )

and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular

so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book......

Well put "

I second that and let the fun begin!!! Isn't that why we use this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are trying to point out that your "light hearted thread" is not descriptive enough, you need to tell people what you want from the thread, threads have a basic title then a chance to explain what it's all about.

F'instance

It's Christmas and to lighten the forums let's have a little thread to see how people percieve success on Fabswingers, namely single males.

What do you consider would make your visits here successfull ?

Is it the number of meets you get ?

The number of meets that end up with you getting sex ?

The number of meets that result in an invite to return ?

The number of meets that end up with new friendships with or without sex.

We all have different ideas on it, what do you think, what makes it successfull for you, who do you think is the most successfull male here.

How people start threads in here can bring out the negative in people, the threads that get the least abuse if you wanna call it that are those that start with a good question, a good background to the question and a definate objective of the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks jednsasha x

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By *ourgeMan
over a year ago

stourport nr kidderminster

its better to see if you can get a fuck buddy ,been on 12months, not much look,had some party meets been good ,so thats why have got a buddy now to see if it will get better

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