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Why add someone then delete thier hello message?

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By *rSinful OP   Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

Just had two people add me, I say hello and they delete my messages. I don't understand some people. How do they expect to get to know you I wonder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guess is that that they wanted to see your private pics before they took it any further...and they didn't want to. Bit irritating but undoubtedly not the last time that'll happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They not genuine, fakes

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By *hris N KateCouple
over a year ago

Gainesville

Often you can read enough to read it without opening it in preview. That might be all there is to that.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Pic collector. Or worse. BLOCK immediately. Don't add randomly ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't add people without exchanging messages, don't see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collector. Or worse. BLOCK immediately. Don't add randomly ever."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had two people add me, I say hello and they delete my messages. I don't understand some people. How do they expect to get to know you I wonder lol "

Fabswingers is just a segment of life - n in life we all come across twats, ignorant people, I'll mannered n rude people n people wiv their own agendas. Therefore on percentages some of them find there way on2 here n mingle amongst the polite,well mannered n decent players

It's par for the course - u can't fathom it n ya defo can't change it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They not genuine, fakes"

not true, could of read profile, looked at pics amd decided he wasnt for them so deleted blocked and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collector. Or worse. BLOCK immediately. Don't add randomly ever."

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By *rSinful OP   Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

I see. I've been on here a few years and not met many if any genuine people on here. In fact I've never met anyone yet as I've never encountered someone who you could trust and even some convincing profiles who always say they want to meet after months of chat never do. I guess there are many reasons but seeing as 90% of those on my friends never speak I guess I will delete them I've taken down all my dirty pics in the hope of getting convo started even on private gallery's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see. I've been on here a few years and not met many if any genuine people on here. In fact I've never met anyone yet as I've never encountered someone who you could trust and even some convincing profiles who always say they want to meet after months of chat never do. I guess there are many reasons but seeing as 90% of those on my friends never speak I guess I will delete them I've taken down all my dirty pics in the hope of getting convo started even on private gallery's."

Blimey that's NOT good! - NEVER MET ANYONE??? U need to get out there hun n spread the lurve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a random friend request then I wait till they're offline, accept, browse their pics and then un-friend them. I will then send them a message and if I get no response I just block them and move on...

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By *rSinful OP   Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

An not yet I would love to but its been a busy few years and guess I've not tried either that or in repulsive and those I've been with have bad taste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pic collector. Or worse. BLOCK immediately. Don't add randomly ever."

Pic collector my foot.

The internet is packed with porno pics - they can be downloaded by the 1000 if need be so why would anyone go to the bother of joining a site then adding friends just to get a couple of mucky photos ?

It's more likely that they looked at the private photos then for whatever reason decided they didn't want to take things any further - we've done it ourselves, seen some smashing profile pics then looked at the private ones then decided not for us ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They not genuine, fakes"

So anyone who looks at a private pic then decides to go no further is a fake ????

Give over for heavens sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they must have added you for something and then went ...beggers belief sometimes

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

When you set out on this journey as a single guy its best to understand that the site is 75% "single" men, this has created an odd situation where the females that meet men can have the most ridiculous standards ever simply because of supply and demand.

Its not the best feature of FAB but it is what it is, just keep trying and be a lot more strict with the obvious time wasters and it should help you

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"They not genuine, fakes

So anyone who looks at a private pic then decides to go no further is a fake ????

Give over for heavens sake! "

Instead of looking inward at why you might not be wanted its much easier to scream "fake" no one comes onto a site like this to have home truths exposed is the problem and why there is so much "fake" hysteria among those who struggle with meets.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Think some are having a competition to see how many "friends" they can get....

And some do add, look at pics, then think...No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they must have added you for something and then went ...beggers belief sometimes "

why does it? So now whenever we add someone because they might show promise but once we see their pictures of don't find them attractive we have some kind of obligation towards them? Maybe his hello message sucked...everyone has their own criteria and accepting a friend request from a total stranger on an internet sex site does not constitute any kind of agreement to take things any further even conversationally...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just had two people add me, I say hello and they delete my messages. I don't understand some people. How do they expect to get to know you I wonder lol "

Be more discerning with who you add!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they added you to see your private pics, saw them, didn't like so deleted

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"They not genuine, fakes

So anyone who looks at a private pic then decides to go no further is a fake ????

Give over for heavens sake! "

Doessent you know, accepting friend requests is abounding agreement they tick. Any deviation from this means you are a fake and a technology waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had two people add me, I say hello and they delete my messages. I don't understand some people. How do they expect to get to know you I wonder lol "

I NEVER message anyone - I let them find me n only after a few ping pong mails do I open box. Not that I'm really bothered who views my pix

Sometimes I get a random friends invite (usually men) so I assume they r having a qwerty wank n just decline!

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