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By *sernametakenagain OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds / London

Is it just me or is it really difficult to get anyone to even respond to a message. I'm not talking about lame arse one liners but thoughtful constructive messages. I think the ladies on here can literally just pick and choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance mate there’s 100,s and 100,s off men on here iam lucky if mine even get read

And the ones that do our either males pretending their a couple or just complete time wasters

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

let the ladies contact you

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By *endalshaggersCouple
over a year ago

Lake District

They can pick and choose, that's your issue. Your're one of thousands and thousands of men on here and the ratio to available women is huge.

Even if you send what you think is a thoughtful and constructive message, many women (and couples) get tens of messages a day if not more. Standing out is tricky unless you have public photos and are exactly what your intended recipient is after down to the T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you honestly say you read the profiles you message?

The reason I ask is we get plenty of messages from people, or asking for things, we have no interest in.

So no matter how carefully worded or well constructed we have no compelling reason to reply.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
over a year ago

bluebell woods


"Is it just me or is it really difficult to get anyone to even respond to a message. I'm not talking about lame arse one liners but thoughtful constructive messages. I think the ladies on here can literally just pick and choose."
most of us ladies look at the person profile first to if anything on it catches our interest before replying to any message & your profile comes across as if you are a Debbie downer so I know I wouldn’t reply to you

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By *night in armourMan
over a year ago

guilford

What’s a Debbie downer ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a Debbie downer ??"
no idea either

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By *umbrian78Man
over a year ago

Ulverston


"What’s a Debbie downer ??"

A negative person

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By *he milf next doorWoman
over a year ago

bluebell woods


"What’s a Debbie downer ??

A negative person"

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By *sernametakenagain OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds / London

Well this is the most responses I've ever had, thanks🤣🤣🤣🤣 Debbie Downer, I think it's in the name, we must all know someone like this, but like a killjoy.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

OP, with respect — I can only assume it's not your messaging technique that is the cause of your lack of success.

Your profile is raising more red flags than I could care to mention. 🩶

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By *sernametakenagain OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds / London

Thanks, looks like I need to work on it some more, last update I was trying to add a bit of humour and possibly a bit of sarcasm😂

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