FabSwingers.com forum: Tips on messaging

By *ampervanFun OP Man
1 week ago

york

Is it just me or is it really difficult to get anyone to even respond to a message. I'm not talking about lame arse one liners but thoughtful constructive messages. I think the ladies on here can literally just pick and choose.

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By *aturist daveMan
1 week ago

chester

No chance mate there’s 100,s and 100,s off men on here iam lucky if mine even get read

And the ones that do our either males pretending their a couple or just complete time wasters

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire

let the ladies contact you

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By *endalshaggersCouple
1 week ago

Kendal

They can pick and choose, that's your issue. Your're one of thousands and thousands of men on here and the ratio to available women is huge.

Even if you send what you think is a thoughtful and constructive message, many women (and couples) get tens of messages a day if not more. Standing out is tricky unless you have public photos and are exactly what your intended recipient is after down to the T.

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By *andPextraCouple
1 week ago

North West

Can you honestly say you read the profiles you message?

The reason I ask is we get plenty of messages from people, or asking for things, we have no interest in.

So no matter how carefully worded or well constructed we have no compelling reason to reply.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
1 week ago

Cardiff

"Is it just me or is it really difficult to get anyone to even respond to a message. I'm not talking about lame arse one liners but thoughtful constructive messages. I think the ladies on here can literally just pick and choose."
most of us ladies look at the person profile first to if anything on it catches our interest before replying to any message & your profile comes across as if you are a Debbie downer so I know I wouldn’t reply to you

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By *night in armourMan
1 week ago

stafford

What’s a Debbie downer ??

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By *elly and daveCouple
1 week ago

gateshead

"What’s a Debbie downer ??"
no idea either

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By *umbrian78Man
1 week ago

Ulverston

"What’s a Debbie downer ??"

A negative person

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
1 week ago

Cardiff

"What’s a Debbie downer ??

A negative person"

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By *ampervanFun OP Man
1 week ago

york

Well this is the most responses I've ever had, thanks🤣🤣🤣🤣 Debbie Downer, I think it's in the name, we must all know someone like this, but like a killjoy.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

OP, with respect — I can only assume it's not your messaging technique that is the cause of your lack of success.

Your profile is raising more red flags than I could care to mention. 🩶

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By *ampervanFun OP Man
1 week ago

york

Thanks, looks like I need to work on it some more, last update I was trying to add a bit of humour and possibly a bit of sarcasm😂

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