FabSwingers.com forum: In each other's shoes

By *rganicVanilla OP Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

I sometimes think this site would be improved if we all had to spend a month in each other's shoes, understanding what it's like for the opposite sex on here.

The single guys would have to have a woman's profile (and yeah, I know lots probably do, lol), so they could understand what it's like to be bombarded with hundreds messages every day, and gain a bit of perspective on why singles and couples can't possibly reply to all, or often get fed up with the (low effort or offensive) single men on here.

The women or couples could also spend a month as a single guy, and feel the frustration of having that one in a thousand, needle in a haystack chance of even getting a response, let alone anything more.

Maybe there would be a bit more understanding and empathy on both sides, which could actually make this site a nicer place to be for all concerned.

In practice, yeah I know, I'm delusional! But hey, it's Christmas. Peace and love all.

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
4 weeks ago

harrogate

I think this would be a great idea on one level. However (I'm being serious here) I would not wish my shoes on anyone. Ever.

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By *rganicVanilla OP Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I think this would be a great idea on one level. However (I'm being serious here) I would not wish my shoes on anyone. Ever. "

Sounds like some pretty uncomfortable shoes you're wearing.

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
4 weeks ago

harrogate

"I think this would be a great idea on one level. However (I'm being serious here) I would not wish my shoes on anyone. Ever.

Sounds like some pretty uncomfortable shoes you're wearing. "

I think I need a chiropractor 🤣🤣🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I wish people would use mail filters and be more proactive.

People get loads of messages they can't answer or feel are low quality would find those problems solved because they'd be approaching only those they felt attracted to.

People who complained their messages were ignored would find they couldn't send very many and that stress would disappear.

🤷‍♀️

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By *rganicVanilla OP Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I wish people would use mail filters and be more proactive.

People get loads of messages they can't answer or feel are low quality would find those problems solved because they'd be approaching only those they felt attracted to.

People who complained their messages were ignored would find they couldn't send very many and that stress would disappear.

🤷‍♀️"

Well there’s some common sense!

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
4 weeks ago

harrogate

"People who complained their messages were ignored would find they couldn't send very many and that stress would disappear.

🤷‍♀️"

Mine wasn't any kind of complaint about messages etc. More life in general. Wasn't even really a moan, just I wouldn't want anyone to walk that mile 🤣🤣

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

People don't lack understanding, they just lack acceptance. Acceptance that not everyone wants them, not everyone on a sex site wants to have sex 24/7 and not acknowledging that looking for validation from strangers on the Internet ends up in nothing but tears.

If people are always standing in entitlement shoes, it doesn't matter what sex they are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

"People who complained their messages were ignored would find they couldn't send very many and that stress would disappear.

🤷‍♀️

Mine wasn't any kind of complaint about messages etc. More life in general. Wasn't even really a moan, just I wouldn't want anyone to walk that mile 🤣🤣"

I don't want anyone walking a mile in mine either. What would I wear while they were walking this mile and would I have to chase after them in bare feet to get my shoes back? These are the important questions

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
4 weeks ago

doncaster

"I wish people would use mail filters and be more proactive.

People get loads of messages they can't answer or feel are low quality would find those problems solved because they'd be approaching only those they felt attracted to.

People who complained their messages were ignored would find they couldn't send very many and that stress would disappear.

🤷‍♀️"

Fair but the majority of the unbearable ones we come across are within the parameters of what we look for we like playing with single men between a certain age it just so happens to be that the bad ones lurk in that category so just have to put up with it

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By *oxy jWoman
4 weeks ago

somerset

first off im only here for men i love men but i can only speak from my point of view ...

i dont need to walk in mens shoes when it comes to swinging and why well 99% of men on fab are only here for sex they are not here for the lifestyle so why would i want to walk in their shoes when its a totally different path they are walking..

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By *ig1gaz1Man
4 weeks ago

bradford

ok for a laugh

it would be kinda interesting to see all the men wear skirts in this weather

as well as walk in those heals of the ladies

as goes for the wind well i presume thats interesting for the ladies but most men wouldnt even know what to do if there skirt was blown up by the breeze

never mind that sudden gush that turned that dress fully inside out

though you ladies would get one hell of a view

as goes for the men that stand often outside they wouldnt last long with a skirt on and a breezy day

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