FabSwingers.com forum: messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When it comes to reading a profile and checking out the pictures like all on here we start getting turned on but when it comes to contacting by message I freeze and go blank and just end up winking that doesn't get attention.

So help here is needed. What are the best things to write for first message what is the best way to get attention? I now everyone is different but the more ideas the better for my self and others like my self.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find winks work best when your friends on here and already had some sort of interaction albeit at a message stage or had a meet. They are sort of a cheeky reminder that gets the messages flying again.

We like humour not arrogance when we get messages and someone who fits in with what we want. Look at a profile and try and tailor it to what they need and you want. I don't think there is such thing as the perfect message to be honest.

Few pictures can't hurt either. Happy hunting.