FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swap

By *hotoman40 OP Man
12 weeks ago

eastbourne

My young lady and I are very new in our adventure and looking on here for soft swap. Any advice on finding interested parties?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"My young lady and I are very new in our adventure and looking on here for soft swap. Any advice on finding interested parties? "

Hi there we've played this way for years now and there are people out there happy to do the same.Dont be pursued otherwise if you're not looking for more

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

" Any advice on finding interested parties? "

Maybe set up a couples profile ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

Loads of people are soft swap. Just be very clear in your boundaries.

Some people might agree to meet a couple from a single person's profile but you'd be much better off with a couples one.

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By *stwo60Couple
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

There are lots of us about!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Any advice on finding interested parties? "

Maybe mention soft swing and your partner in your profile text ? At present all there is are the results of your BDSM test.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

That's how I started and it's a great way to test your boundaries without irrevocably shattering them altogether on the first experience. The reality is that all the talking and thinking before you get into a clinch with another party will not prepare you for your emotional response and how that affects you.

I would just be up front with whoever you choose to play with. Soft swap is very common and even experienced swingers will indulge you in a soft swap. Moreover, if they know you're nervous newbies they often help you take baby steps and check in with you.

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By *adamm7406Man
12 weeks ago

leeds

We are at the start of our journey and are wanting to start with soft swapping.

More than happy to chat!

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Before even trying set up a couples profile.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
12 weeks ago

Tamworth

Firstly, set up a couples profile. You will stand a better chance and come across better than on a single males profile.

List your interests clearly and in the write up put down what your boundaries are. Some couples see soft swap different to others. For us it’s anything but full penetration with other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It’s soft swaps we are looking for x

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
12 weeks ago

Camberley

Plenty of people enjoy that dynamic. We are a full swap couple but we’ve had some wonderful times with couples who just soft swap.

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By *reenleavesCouple
12 weeks ago

North Wales

We've only ever been soft play or parallel play and really enjoy it

We thought we'd run into more resistance to it in clubs but aside from one couple calling us 'fake swingers' it's all been pretty positive

Just be upfront about it to avoid having to turn someone down mid play and it's all good. Clubs have been the best places to find this.

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By *elightful 2Couple
12 weeks ago

Not living in the UK

Soft swap is the way we are playing at the moment.

Plenty of couples enjoy it.

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By *icemember7Man
12 weeks ago

Worcester

I was wondering, on a arranged soft meet I was asked to rub my cocks head against her clit, could it still bee called a soft meet?

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By *reenleavesCouple
12 weeks ago

North Wales

"I was wondering, on a arranged soft meet I was asked to rub my cocks head against her clit, could it still bee called a soft meet?"

Everyone has their own boundaries but generally, soft play is anything apart from penetration.

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By *ovelifecoupleCouple
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I was wondering, on a arranged soft meet I was asked to rub my cocks head against her clit, could it still bee called a soft meet

Everyone has their own boundaries but generally, soft play is anything apart from penetration. "

Yes it’s important that you discuss any limitations that you may have in advance, maybe arrange a social meet in advance. x

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By *race_cpl6665Couple
12 weeks ago

Solihull

We are soft swap, plenty of fun still to be had!

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