FabSwingers.com forum: Messages that just say "hi"; successful?

By *andPextra OP Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

I'm genuinely intrigued. Get loads of these (hi, hey, xxx etc) but has anyone successfully instigated a conversation from one?

Will anyone give an insight into the ratio of how many they send to reply????

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By *aprica2Couple
2 weeks ago

Addlestone

We get

Hey guys

How's you

Hi and my favourite

What you doing

All ignored ttfn

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By *tevenTellyCouple
2 weeks ago

Newmarket

Ah when we were brand new a few months ago we gave them a shot but pretty quickly we realized those who put thought into there message and read our profile were who we were looking for.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
2 weeks ago

cahoots

We normally answer a "hey" with "hello"....most just stop there but a few follow up with "wot u doin" or "nice tits".

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
2 weeks ago

Devon/Cornwall

We wonder how successful "wanna fuck?" is? Surely it can't be a numbers game, as who would say yes!

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

We completely ignore these and I can’t believe we’re alone in that!

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By *andPextra OP Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

"We get

Hey guys

How's you

Hi and my favourite

What you doing

All ignored ttfn"

Similar messages and a similar ignore/delete position. However, got me thinking. Those that send must have some success or they’d change tack surely??? Someone must be responding to them unless they have the skin of a rhino and just do the same thing over and over without a positive outcome.

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By *oxy jWoman
2 weeks ago

taunton somerset

one word message or any short messages just get deleted and if they keep sending then blocked ... job done

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By *oingMan
2 weeks ago

co. antrim

Yes

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By *nebworthMan
2 weeks ago

Knebworth

I often get messages from single blokes that are usually one word or state they are in my village or beg for some sexual favour or other in three or fewer words. The amount of men asking me to kik them amuses me too. Single men just do not read my profile, or think that I will make an exception in his case. That stated, I have had a great exchange of messages with one guy that simply messaged hello and if his female friend does decide to meet me, a three way threesome could be on the cards. So it might work on a fifty fails to one work ratio.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
2 weeks ago

kent

"We completely ignore these and I can’t believe we’re alone in that! "

You’re not alone. We completely ignore them too. Don’t even bother to open them or check out the profiles.

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By *andPextra OP Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

Im hoping a sender of these shares their percentages

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
2 weeks ago

kent

"Im hoping a sender of these shares their percentages

I wouldn’t cling to that hope if I were you. They don’t strike me as the type to collect the data 😁

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By *Silver-Man
2 weeks ago

Mold

I have sent many hi messages and have had good responses.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"We completely ignore these and I can’t believe we’re alone in that!

You’re not alone. We completely ignore them too. Don’t even bother to open them or check out the profiles. "

Same! It takes a bit more imagination to get us going.

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By *enatton2Couple
2 weeks ago

West Midlands

If there’s a face pic and we like then they’ll get a hi/hey back, otherwise we just delete. The ball is in their court to open up the conversation then

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
2 weeks ago

Southport

"We get

Hey guys

How's you

Hi and my favourite

What you doing

All ignored ttfn

They probably just copy n paste the same messages night after night.

I ignore them.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
2 weeks ago

St Leonards

Hi 👋

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

I suppose it just shows some interest from their part. If they have some good photos it can lead to more for sure xx

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By *eckard2019Man
2 weeks ago

North West Durham

I often get "nice cock mate". I reply with "thanks" then see if they come back with more

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By *ockney wopMan
2 weeks ago

Ealing

I never just say hi, it's normally a polite hello, say a little about myself, ask a question or two and finish by saying I'm happy to chat sometime then send a face pic and yet I seldom even get a no thanks, not interested, most don't even reply.

Maybe I should try the "hi, fancy a fuck" routine

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By *assy LassieWoman
2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Don't mind a hi

Let's me have a look at the profile and will respond if I like what I see... the 2nd message is more important once they have grabbed my attention.

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

"Don't mind a hi

Let's me have a look at the profile and will respond if I like what I see... the 2nd message is more important once they have grabbed my attention. "

Yes this is what I meant xx

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By *ormsterMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I get pics of guys Richard proving they don't even read profile

Fine upstanding Fab Women

I TO FEEL YOUT PAIN

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By *he ass man 666Man
2 weeks ago

paradise city

Met my fwb with a simple “hi there “ thinking I was wasting my time , nearly 3 months later we’re still meeting 2/3 times a week , so you never know

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By *oupleRougeCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"That stated, I have had a great exchange of messages with one guy that simply messaged hello and if his female friend does decide to meet me, a three way threesome could be on the cards. So it might work on a fifty fails to one work ratio."

I would wager my left testicle that you will never get to meet his female friend and you are more likely to get a threesome with Charles and Camilla

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By *artfordBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Dartford

I sent a couple when I first came on here, luckily a few very nice people gave me some advice and now I don't send them. I'm most grateful to them.

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By *atchbewatchedMan
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

No, just gets delete and blocked

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By *iss KinkWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

I ignore them. Does say in my profile so they obv haven’t read that either

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By *MCMan
2 weeks ago

London/EA

My favourite is when users moan on their status about the lack of effort in messages they receive… only then to still just put hi when they send the first message 😂

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By *Ci LutherMan
2 weeks ago

Cumalot

Art of conversation lost on some

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By *allnHandsome12Man
2 weeks ago

Teesside

Whilst ‘hi’ isn’t get anyone anywhere, it is hard to come up with interesting conversation starters if their profile has one line of something like ‘woman looking to meet single men/couples’, which happens a lot!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We ignore them, and to be fair.....they come from men, women and couples.

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By *ildTimes.Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester/London

I just send something back with little to no effort and let them reply, if they cant be arsed why should I?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
2 weeks ago

I don't send any messages looking to chat or meet but nearly every message I've had was very minimal like Hi, looking to meet, where you from etc and they was from couples

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By *ongAndThick123Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I delete almost all messages that only say Hi. But there is the rare occasion that the person messaging is so hot that I’ll reply

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By *lfa RomeoMan
2 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I think it depends on wether you like the look of them or not.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Leicester/Ipswich

Definitely not. Couldn't care less if they were absolutely stunning, clearly have very little to offer in terms of stimulating chat!

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By *punk n gushCouple
2 weeks ago

deal

One word or one line messages is an instant delete for us

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By *ecent56GentMan
2 weeks ago

Watford

Hi Everyone xx

lol

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By *ene FairfaxMan
2 weeks ago

Dover

Not a lot changes when you send a nice message in relation to a profile thats been read

lol but us eternal optimists never give up lol

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yep my last meeting, I just said hi and welcome, we met regularly for around a year.

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

To be honest I've been on here for a few years and sent hundreds maybe into a thousand messages over that time , had a few replies and a few meetings which were amazing. But for us guys especially more mature, it can be disheartening at times putting in the effort only to be deleted or not read.

I know lots of guys copy and paste. But I do type every message. But it is what it is and par for the course.

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By *omingo77Man
2 weeks ago

preston

I very rarely get any replies

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

My messages are split between: ‘hi” “You okay?” and “Nice cock.” - all deleted. WTF am I meant to do with those..? Lol

Or:

“Straight guys who don’t meet men…” asking me to fuck them, or suck me off. Again, deleted.

However, Messages from peeps who have read the profile & can, at least, produce a sentence - these are serious Fabbers who get a reply.

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By *AM2214Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester Area

"Ah when we were brand new a few months ago we gave them a shot but pretty quickly we realized those who put thought into there message and read our profile were who we were looking for. "

Your profile is pretty clear so I can only presume anyone not reading it before sending a 'Hi' type message is hardly likely to be of interest in physical terms either. Good luck to you both

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By *AM2214Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester Area

"We wonder how successful "wanna fuck?" is? Surely it can't be a numbers game, as who would say yes! "

So far one out of 1,234

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