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"my hubs is my cuck we live it as a real lifestyle hes cuck for real reasons you;; find alot on the scene are just into roleplay fantasy rather than the real lifestyle" Please could you explain. Do not understand cuck for real reasons. Cuck, hotwife Stag & vixen Here it seems to be used interchangeably at times. | |||
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"I prefer watching him with other women although I have had some great play with other men. Never happier than watching him flirt with another women. Just a personal thing I have never analysed or wanted to change… " Interesting 🤔 | |||
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"I think it went wrong for me when we went to a event at a club and guys just used her for fun and then just walked away " What were you expecting them to do, if I may ask? | |||
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"Do any other couples focus the full relationship around cuckolding and swinging? We find it empowering it controls us " We’ve been a cuckold couple pretty much all our marriage, Dee has always enjoyed the attention from other guys and always had a higher sex drive so the dynamic suits our relationship. | |||
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"I prefer watching him with other women although I have had some great play with other men. Never happier than watching him flirt with another women. Just a personal thing I have never analysed or wanted to change… " Same for me and him! So hot watching Mr with another another woman Mrs | |||
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"Hoping next year we can have a regular or two " I can’t see why not your amazing | |||
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"Do any other couples focus the full relationship around cuckolding and swinging? We find it empowering it controls us " It does play a significant part in our relationship which can veer towards FLR at times. Mr locked pretty much 24/7. | |||
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"Had 1 long term relationship years ago was amazing times But can't find reliable guys again as we defo want it again We are cuckold cpl 24/7" I'm in relarionship with cuckold cpl, but honstely never meet them in person, idk should i stay in this relationship or not. They are a good people so husband so subby and the wife is pretty as well but we talk over whatsapp only 🤷♂️ | |||
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"As a switch my desire for 2025 is to be both a Bull and a cuck. As a Bull over the years finding the right kind of couple was more often frustrating than not. However in recent times expressing the cuckold/stag side of my sexuality I'm finding it a lot easier to find women as opposed to couples who take the dynamic seriously. It's for this reason that I now prioritize single potential cuckoldresses over potential cuckold couples......and boy I never saw that coming lolol" you mean you finding easier to meet single women who want to join you in relationship where they can be shared? | |||
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"Us, we’re not interested him playing only her getting the big cock she craves " Happy to help | |||
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"As a switch my desire for 2025 is to be both a Bull and a cuck. As a Bull over the years finding the right kind of couple was more often frustrating than not. However in recent times expressing the cuckold/stag side of my sexuality I'm finding it a lot easier to find women as opposed to couples who take the dynamic seriously. It's for this reason that I now prioritize single potential cuckoldresses over potential cuckold couples......and boy I never saw that coming lolol you mean you finding easier to meet single women who want to join you in relationship where they can be shared?" Oh 100% I'm not saying it's easy but it's multiple times easier than it was back when I focused on meeting couples. | |||
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"The lines between cuckold and stag/vixen relationships are, like most things, quite blurred on fab. Having had the pleasure of being invited into a few stag/vixen relationships over the years, the key difference is that it doesn’t feature the humiliation aspect of the cuckold relationship, whether that is verbal or physical." I'm very much at the stag end of the cuckold spectrum but recently I started using the term cuckold too because more people are familiar with it and I want to ensure that my net is wide enough to attract the kind of woman who needs that kind of sexual freedom when partnered. | |||
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"Think we may be more of a stag vixen dynamic as Mr loves to watch and then get involved in the playing. However it’s during the build up that perhaps we may veer into cuckolding as Mr likes the Bull to take more control over the flirting and sexual build up. Likes to leave the ‘couple’ to develop and build an erotic relationship before heading to the bedroom. We love doing this when our on a date with the Bull. Big humiliation is not for us at all. What do others think we are? Stag with a cuckold twist..?!" This is almost exactly like us the only difference is hubby only watches he doesn’t get involved with play at all | |||
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"Think we may be more of a stag vixen dynamic as Mr loves to watch and then get involved in the playing. However it’s during the build up that perhaps we may veer into cuckolding as Mr likes the Bull to take more control over the flirting and sexual build up. Likes to leave the ‘couple’ to develop and build an erotic relationship before heading to the bedroom. We love doing this when our on a date with the Bull. Big humiliation is not for us at all. What do others think we are? Stag with a cuckold twist..?!" I absolutely love the build up and get really turned on when I see a partner warming up to a guy that may end up fucking her. | |||
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"I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. " | |||
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"I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. " Laura playing isn’t part of our day to day life, if we get a meet a month we are doing well but other aspects of cuckolding are incorporated in our day to day life, mr locked almost 24/7, some regular humiliation and aspects of a flr coming more to the fore. | |||
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"I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. Laura playing isn’t part of our day to day life, if we get a meet a month we are doing well but other aspects of cuckolding are incorporated in our day to day life, mr locked almost 24/7, some regular humiliation and aspects of a flr coming more to the fore. " Once a month is pretty good going i would think. And as you say, there's still plenty of cuckold type fun to be had between the two of you. | |||
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"It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. " What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? | |||
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"Miss the cuckold dynamic after the loss of my partner to covid in the first wave " I'm very sorry to hear that. | |||
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"It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? " | |||
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"It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? " I very much get off on humiliation and Mrs d reminds me every so often of the times that she has had fun and how she needs what I can’t provide, foot rubs, household chores, etc along with the caging keep the fact that I’m a cuck at the front of my mind. | |||
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"Teetering humiliation vontant telling me she needs real man Not bring allowed orgasm only vim 4 times this year we don't have sex That's just some It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? " Thanks for sharing. I really enjoy hearing from cucks who really enjoy the humiliation side of it. | |||
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"It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? I very much get off on humiliation and Mrs d reminds me every so often of the times that she has had fun and how she needs what I can’t provide, foot rubs, household chores, etc along with the caging keep the fact that I’m a cuck at the front of my mind. " great to hear and see how it works so well for you both. | |||
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"This is my last fantasy ideal situation. To be naturally dom and cherish my cuck but iv found theres a huge amount of wanabee part timers. It has put me off so much with the disapointment that iv not bothered to search for it anymore. Mainly men want to do it the once, just for the experience. Snore" Based on the amount of wannabe cucks I've seen on here, I'm surprised to hear that. It's a shame. | |||
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"This is my last fantasy ideal situation. To be naturally dom and cherish my cuck but iv found theres a huge amount of wanabee part timers. It has put me off so much with the disapointment that iv not bothered to search for it anymore. Mainly men want to do it the once, just for the experience. Snore" such a shame never give up , one day the right cuck will appear/or you'll find him . You just need to wade through the sea of flakes and wannabes | |||
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"It's part of.our everyday life now I have yet to meet a fl time cuckold couple, where it is part of their everyday life. I suspect it's very difficult to incorporate it into everyday life but I certainly would love to be involved with a full time couple. The last regular couple I had would get into cuckold modena few week before and a few weeks after we would play. What ways have you incorporated it into your everyday life? I very much get off on humiliation and Mrs d reminds me every so often of the times that she has had fun and how she needs what I can’t provide, foot rubs, household chores, etc along with the caging keep the fact that I’m a cuck at the front of my mind. " The humiliation side sounds amazing. Oh for is to find a genuine local bull | |||
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"Do any other couples focus the full relationship around cuckolding and swinging? We find it empowering it controls us " No, for us it is just a side event that we visit occasionally to satisfy Rachs (and my) needs as well as to add a little bit of excitement every once in a while. 95% of the time we are you normally everyday married couple. | |||
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"Mrs started regular meets with a guy from work. Its made us stronger as she is very satisfied and know its just a sexual arrangement. Mr watches or sleeps in room next door when in full flow" Sounds a perfect arrangement | |||
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"Finding any kinda guy that actually knows and understands cuckolding is hard work Finding the right regular guy is hard work. " This right here, we have had guys struggle to perform with cuck present but if I meet alone then cuck misses out especially if there isnt a second meet. We dont get many opportunities to play so when we do we would like them to be memorable for the right reasons | |||
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"If anyone can help, can someone explain the clear differences between Cuck couple Hotwifing Stag Vixen Never done it so the lines between the three are a little grey." The cuck couples dynamic is based on the cucks masochism Stags and vixens have a more straightforward admiration or pride in watching each other though a psychologist might say anyone who watches their partner has a level of masochism. Hotwives can be the women of either couple. | |||
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"Finding any kinda guy that actually knows and understands cuckolding is hard work Finding the right regular guy is hard work. This right here, we have had guys struggle to perform with cuck present but if I meet alone then cuck misses out especially if there isnt a second meet. We dont get many opportunities to play so when we do we would like them to be memorable for the right reasons" You need to find a guy that it makes harder | |||
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"We’re a cuck where Mrs is the Cuck so not the traditional male cucked " A Cuckqueen couple. You searching for Cuckcake too? | |||
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"Think we may be more of a stag vixen dynamic as Mr loves to watch and then get involved in the playing. However it’s during the build up that perhaps we may veer into cuckolding as Mr likes the Bull to take more control over the flirting and sexual build up. Likes to leave the ‘couple’ to develop and build an erotic relationship before heading to the bedroom. We love doing this when our on a date with the Bull. Big humiliation is not for us at all. What do others think we are? Stag with a cuckold twist..?!" I like that dynamic too tbh, the mind game's in the build-up are fantastic too. | |||
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