Interested to know how many other couples have figured out some things about sharing thier sex life, I realised early that Tara has her own limits, which mostly pivot around her watch and be watched rule, she's not into touching or being touched, sucking or fucking others, so 'best not to push too hard' on my part, I always give her a hall pass before we have any kind of fab meet, knowing this she's moved her own limits in the past when she's comfortable doing so, to include all those things, she's done some things I would never have expected, like agreeing to serve drinks dressed as a waitress at a mates lads night, knowing it would include them watching porn, her reward was being there to watch them wank, that was the deal, they were perfectly behaved and polite with her which resulted in her relaxing enough to lose the uniform, join them on the sofas to be passed around for finger fucking and licking to lots of orgasms, while she happily wanked them all off, only joining me in my armchair at the end to fuck me to a creampie finish for them to watch.
Another best not to push too hard example is the fact that I seem to be getting bigger as I get older, or she might be getting tighter, she often complains I'm about 25% too large for her, my reply is if you are going to have one it might as well be a big one, I used to be able to give her a pounding as often as I liked, we always had a free use agreement between ourselves, wanking was never a taboo, if either caught the other knocking one out, we would always help out, me dropping to my knees to fight her fingers with my tongue, or she would take my helmet in her mouth to make mine a posh wank, also to the point of losing her knicks and straddling my lap to ride my cock for me, these days it has a best not to push too hard rule.
My question to others is what have you had fun with that you never expected and were rewarded for, because of not pushing too hard.  |
