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First time at a club?

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By *iniskirt OP   Couple
6 days ago

Paisley

Not sure if this is the right place to ask or not.

For those who have been to clubs what was your first visit like? Was it what you thought or different and if different what was it?

We are hoping to be brave enough to visit one next year and just keen to hear others thoughts x

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By *ravel CompanionsCouple
6 days ago

London


"Not sure if this is the right place to ask or not.

For those who have been to clubs what was your first visit like? Was it what you thought or different and if different what was it?

We are hoping to be brave enough to visit one next year and just keen to hear others thoughts x"

We would suggest to go to the club with welcoming staff and porn cinema (like The Old Hellfire, for example), that did it for us. We played in the cinema together, saw what other people are up to, which gave us an idea what we want to try, where is our red line etc.

Before that we went to the club without porn cinema and it's wasn't comfortable at all. But it's us, you obviously might be different.

Also, a trips to Hedo in Jamaica and Desire in Mexico prepared us to the club scene )))

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By *heshireChappyMan
6 days ago

Prestbury

As a couple it was everything I (and we) hoped, and more... Great people, sexy fun at our own pace. No pushiness. Just naughty and fun. We went with an open mind but specific rules we agreed between us which I'm sure most would echo - Both have to be happy, we only go as far as both want, we as a couple are the most important thing, no recriminations if we didn't like it upon reflection...

As a singleton more recently it was different but good. Not everyone was as chatty or welcoming but enough were to make it a nice experience. I didn't get to play but that was more my mindset I think than anything else. I'm not Alpha so it takes a bit of time for me to relax into new things.

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By *erigold300Couple
6 days ago

Doncaster

Our first trip was amazing.

I worried so much that I was too fat, too old, too ugly..too whatever.

I have never felt sexier in my life. I felt desired, lusted after. I felt like a woman in her own right, not a mum, not a wife, not a worker, not a carer…just a sexy woman. Fuck it felt good. The way my husband looked at me that night…rewound the clock 20 years.

We didn’t hook up that first trip, we just took in the atmosphere, played with each other..and watched.

IVe never been hornier than the weeks after that visit.

2nd visit was similar, but this time we were open to hooking up. And we did, twice in one night!

Can’t wait for our upcoming 3rd trip.

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 days ago

Midlands

We were bricking it (most are for their first visit). During our club tour by a member of staff we walked into a room with people having sex which was very surreal. We just played with each other but it was exciting knowing someone could walk in the room. Our second visit was a different story.

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By *ravel CompanionsCouple
6 days ago

London


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I worried so much that I was too fat, too old, too ugly..too whatever.

I have never felt sexier in my life. I felt desired, lusted after. I felt like a woman in her own right, not a mum, not a wife, not a worker, not a carer…just a sexy woman. Fuck it felt good. The way my husband looked at me that night…rewound the clock 20 years.

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It's exactly what my wife asked me to add here ))

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 days ago

Staffordshire

We were really nervous, but we chose the right club that had a lovely welcoming atmosphere.

We were still very nervous, but very pleased we went.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 days ago

Uttoxeter


"Our first trip was amazing.

I worried so much that I was too fat, too old, too ugly..too whatever.

I have never felt sexier in my life. I felt desired, lusted after. I felt like a woman in her own right, not a mum, not a wife, not a worker, not a carer…just a sexy woman. Fuck it felt good. The way my husband looked at me that night…rewound the clock 20 years.

We didn’t hook up that first trip, we just took in the atmosphere, played with each other..and watched.

IVe never been hornier than the weeks after that visit.

2nd visit was similar, but this time we were open to hooking up. And we did, twice in one night!

Can’t wait for our upcoming 3rd trip.

"

I love this reply 🥰

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
6 days ago

Norwichish

I guess there is always a little apprehension when you got to a club that’s not a regular, still is.

Will it be like the pictures what the clientele are like etc.

We probably chose the best first one for us (the Attic original) staff were very welcoming, tour was great and atmosphere was good fun. Probably because it was our first it will always be our favourite even moreso since the venue move.

We got to play in the dungeon which is why we went, and had some fun in other rooms and just soaked up the atmosphere.

As other have said most important thing is communicating before you go, make sure you know what you both want, even agree on signals (positive/negative) to give each other if approached or if you want to approach others.

But just go to experience atmosphere on first visit and anything else that happens is a bonus.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 days ago

Uttoxeter

First club experience was as a single guy.

Wasn’t meeting anyone there and nobody was there that I knew.

Stomach doing flips in the carpark. Right then, slap hands on thighs, inner voice pep talk, out of car and manage to get to the club front door with wobbly legs…

Got in the door, signing up membership, very nervous, friendly staff, can hear music and laughter though… sounds fun.

Got in, lots of people. Sexy people.

Okaaay… a few looks and smiles, remember to smile back.

Get to the bar, get drink and then pivot and immediately fall into conversation with a couple, admit it’s my first time, laughs, stories, introductions…

Wow. Those ladies have no clothes on.. neither has that guy… where did they come from? where are they going?

Okay - locker. Out of clothes, towel round. Walk out of single men locker room, towel falls off. Smile awkwardly, realise I’ve just bent over and mooned a group behind me. For fucks sake… into a big playroom. Naked people everywhere, oral, fucking, watching… a couple from the bar see me and wave me over… we watch… her hand caresses my thigh briefly before closing around my cock, I’m pushed back onto bed…

Suddenly it’s 4 hours later… I’m in a hot tub with a naked woman legs locked around me, laughing, she’s hanging onto my cock and whispering filthy things in my ear..

I’m in my car. Fuck. Wow. Awesome. Did that stuff actually happen?

McDonald’s on way home, I’m starving.

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
6 days ago

doncaster

It’s always nervy at first you ll be fine your our longest serving hotlist member so I can imagine you both being very popular in the club environment

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By *amesnplanesMan
6 days ago

Banbridge

I was asked to take a hotwife to a well known club as the hubby just had too many butterflies.

It's quite funny really, because my hotwife friend decided to take on the world at the club!

First visits should usually be about finding your inner confidence and networking a little.

Subsequent visits should be where you aim to connect in the club environment and have fun!

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