FabSwingers.com forum: Wife not like hubby wanking?

By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

The amount of posts we see about men having to have a quick wank before the wife gets home? Would it cause an argument if she walked in and you was wanking?? Are you both not comfortable letting the other half know you’ve had a wank that day or was having 1 when they walked in? Any answers to this?

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By *ungbibristolMan
12 weeks ago

bristol

Who’s asking

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By *j188Couple
12 weeks ago

aberdeenshire

There’s no secrets in this house

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By *8warrenMan
12 weeks ago

I was always walked in on by my ex, and she used to just take over and finish for me, also use to walk in on her too and never bothered us

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

My ex wife had a sixth sense for it and always knew where my porn stash was back in the day and always went ballistic. It's why she is my ex wife LOL.

Mrs N is much more forgiving and is why we have had 23 happy years together.

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By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

This is what we don’t get? Why do some people find it so unforgiving lol a few people who we know have told how there other half have walked out on them after catching them?

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
12 weeks ago

blackpool

I love watching my husband wank,especially when "he doesn't know I'm watching " he always looks so sexy especially when he tenses his thighs

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By *dventurouscouple4343Couple
12 weeks ago

KENT / SOUTH EAST

I (Andy) had an ex GF a long time ago who felt it was a big insult if I had a wank, she insisted that I should be completely satisfied because I was with her (the sex was pretty tame to be fair and there was no experimenting, dressing up, different positions etc.)

I carried on wanking but didn't let on

We lasted about 18 months

After we split I got with another girl (would become my 1st wife) and she was the opposite, she loved me wanking with her or without her and we did everything that was legal lol

Takes all sorts I suppose

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Hubby can do it right next to me and does it sometimes. It doesn't bother me at all. Why would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I guess its the ‘having fun without me’ element that they dont like.

Im sure other half knows i have many a wank, shes not naive 😂

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By *ryingNew55Woman
12 weeks ago

Newhey

I lived with 3 sons and a hubby. If I was offended by wanking I’d have been out before the 90s lol

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By *eyeYCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

"I lived with 3 sons and a hubby. If I was offended by wanking I’d have been out before the 90s lol"

🤣😂👍

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By *eyeYCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Frankly no, I encouraged him to do so earlier as I wasn't feeling it and he was horny after finding a rather lovely unicorn for us both to meet next week.. He sent me the video of his climax..

Likewise when he was unwell he had no issue with the rabbit and wand being utilised 🤷🔥😈

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It was always regarded as a personal insult until she lost interest (because she was cheating) and told me to wank at work...

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

id wank over you no bother

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By *ugarbearCouple
12 weeks ago

Tredegar

nope i don't mind my hubby wanking he even use my dirty knickers to wank with

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By *tsJustKateWoman
12 weeks ago

London

I don't have a problem with my husband having a wank. Can't imagine why anyone would really. I know he wantks off practically every morning before getting up, if I walk in he just carries on, sometimes I'll finish it off for him or give him a blowjob.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
12 weeks ago

Thurrock

Hedgehog has no issues with it in fact she only gets annoyed if I don’t show her I have

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By *hrops56Man
12 weeks ago

Telford

"I don't have a problem with my husband having a wank. Can't imagine why anyone would really. I know he wantks off practically every morning before getting up, if I walk in he just carries on, sometimes I'll finish it off for him or give him a blowjob."

He's a very lucky man

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We're both free to wank whenever, with or without the other one present.

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By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

We think you have a healthier relationship if your open about it, we don’t see anything wrong with wanking at all, people that walk out on there partner over it seems very drastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

We dont mind. If we walk in on each other it normally leads to oral or sex. We discuss it openly and what porn we watch, what we thought about. Its sexy af

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwichish

Personally I don’t wank. I don’t really get much enjoyment from it.

M on the other hand has a private browser tab full

of her bookmarked Pornhub pages that she uses when we aren’t spending the night together.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
12 weeks ago

belfast

"id wank over you no bother"

Intelligent input.

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
12 weeks ago

blackpool

"I lived with 3 sons and a hubby. If I was offended by wanking I’d have been out before the 90s lol"

Best response & best bio ever!! Well played

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By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Anyone else just let it flow? And let the partner just wank?

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By *oxy jWoman
12 weeks ago

somerset

the most natural thing to do so why would partners be upset by it ??

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By *ukold4uTV/TS
12 weeks ago

falkirk

Sadly mines says wanking is for teenagers

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By *orkshire500Man
12 weeks ago

Eyemouth

My ex used to love finding me wanking and would join in and vice versa.

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By *unglevipsCouple
12 weeks ago

Somerset

Ex wife would have gone nuts and did… Mrs and I encourage each other to early on. We’ll watch or join in if we catch each other.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
12 weeks ago

Nr. Oxford

We wank separately all the time.

Often I’m horny when sat on the sofa. A quick chat with Lily to see if she fancies any fun (often she does) and if not, upstairs to watch porn.

Lily often has a play when she’s home alone and one of her smutty books gets her a bit too excited.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Mutual for each other's enjoyment is my favourite

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By *irralvoyeur78Man
12 weeks ago

wirral

My wife just smiles when she walks in on me wanking...

Normally asks what I'm watching and sometimes even gives me a hand

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By *eautyabcCouple
12 weeks ago

bridgend

We love it both ways and always enjoy pleasuring each other also

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
12 weeks ago

southam

my wife sometimes likes to watch me have a wank before she goes on a date so that sh knows it willbe tiny and soft while she enjoys herself

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

My ex absolutely hated it we separated because she caught me wanking

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

This is probably the wrong place to ask since most couples in here are extremely open with their partners (bar the cheats)

I don't think many here have any issues with it at all.

We all wank.

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If I was married, I imagine that I wouldn't care much for coming home to catch my husband wanking..especially if it was a regular occurrence

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By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

But you can see it’s either 1 end of the spectrum to the other they either love it or hate it

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By *jcpl OP Couple
12 weeks ago

Any other comments?

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By *utlongjohnMan
12 weeks ago

It never bothered any of my previous partners

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I love the thought of my man wanking, I have caught him a few times and i always help him finish, in one way or another 😌

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By *ash0000Man
12 weeks ago

Southwest

"I love the thought of my man wanking, I have caught him a few times and i always help him finish, in one way or another 😌"

Apart from on here, I would think most wives would be horrified if they caught you wanking over other women

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
12 weeks ago

Merseyside

Genuinely don’t understand why some people are ashamed by wanking or disgusted by their partners doing it, it’s literally the most normal stress relieving thing to do. Any fellas (or ladies)with partners who guilt them about wanking should get rid

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By *aprica2Couple
12 weeks ago

Chertsey

Alot of my mates wives hate them having a wank they see it as cheating 😂 if only they knew about our hobby 😂 definitely wouldn't be friends anymore

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By *ash0000Man
12 weeks ago

Southwest

"Alot of my mates wives hate them having a wank they see it as cheating 😂 if only they knew about our hobby 😂 definitely wouldn't be friends anymore "

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By *aughtyloversCouple
12 weeks ago

Hull

"I lived with 3 sons and a hubby. If I was offended by wanking I’d have been out before the 90s lol"

Great analogy

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