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"I would suggest that you plan for a very large number of the men who “guarantee” they will be there to drop out - they always do. Make sure that you are inviting two or three times the number you think you will need and make sure that the majority have actually turned up to something like this in the past - they are the only ones you can really rely on." I agree we find at least 50% will talk the talk but not walk the walk on the day | |||
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"I would suggest that you plan for a very large number of the men who “guarantee” they will be there to drop out - they always do. Make sure that you are inviting two or three times the number you think you will need and make sure that the majority have actually turned up to something like this in the past - they are the only ones you can really rely on." so true - numbers matter and turnout is low | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " venue is a must otherwise you'll get guys saying yes then don't show because of distance | |||
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"I’d be keen to hear what percentage turns up. I’d love to plan a GB for the Mrs but the numbers scare me. We’re thinking 4-6 minimum, 10 max so d we invite 15/20 and what if they all turn up Mr " You folks are too far away. I’m planning to attend my first one in new year. I won’t chicken out | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " Have you told guests the time of the gangbang ? | |||
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"I’d be keen to hear what percentage turns up. I’d love to plan a GB for the Mrs but the numbers scare me. We’re thinking 4-6 minimum, 10 max so d we invite 15/20 and what if they all turn up Mr " They won’t ! But if they do she will have a lot of fun ! I always mentally prepare myself for all the men turning up but it never happens She can pm me anytime if it would help her Em x | |||
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"And as someone said - lots of condoms coz guys always forget, your phone for pics etc (not theirs), lube coz lots of guys in condoms does start to dry u out as you know, very clear rules and maybe a few quid towards room/suite cost too xx" interested to make this happen ... hotel or a club setting? DM us please xx Anne & George | |||
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"if you say invite 30 guys between 2 and 10 will turn up most guys are wanking at the thought but have no intention of turning up.. " We can echo this. We now need to have 30-50 guys who say they will come to get 5-10 men who actually rock up ! I think the difference between fantasy if you like and reality is huge. Maybe the thought of an everyday woman/wife/girlfriend being happy to fuck multiple men like in porn movies is something most men fantasise and wank over but actually turning up in the day is a totally different thing. Let’s be honest -for most women, being used by men in a gangbang is also a fantasy but can be scarry the first time for us | |||
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"And as someone said - lots of condoms coz guys always forget, your phone for pics etc (not theirs), lube coz lots of guys in condoms does start to dry u out as you know, very clear rules and maybe a few quid towards room/suite cost too xx interested to make this happen ... hotel or a club setting? DM us please xx Anne & George " If it’s in London. I am interested. As long as i am free i will turn up! xx | |||
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"if you say invite 30 guys between 2 and 10 will turn up most guys are wanking at the thought but have no intention of turning up.. We can echo this. We now need to have 30-50 guys who say they will come to get 5-10 men who actually rock up ! I think the difference between fantasy if you like and reality is huge. Maybe the thought of an everyday woman/wife/girlfriend being happy to fuck multiple men like in porn movies is something most men fantasise and wank over but actually turning up in the day is a totally different thing. Let’s be honest -for most women, being used by men in a gangbang is also a fantasy but can be scarry the first time for us " It can be overwhelming for Men for sure. Especially the first time. I remember my first GB in Summer. I was nervous but we were all made to feel very welcome by the females and before i knew it, i was getting involved & being watched. Loved it! Keen for more x | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " so difficult to arrange .I wanted 6 to 8 so I invited 18 ..1 turned up ..in my experience the ones who keep messaging saying what they are going to do are the ones guaranteed not to show by that time they have wanked themselves to death ..older guys above 55 are the most reliable | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " Ask double the number you want as around 50% will be no shows. So, if you want 10 ask 20. | |||
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" when it came to it 15 guys arrived at our place as give them address one before meet " I think you are very brave to welcome 15 male strangers into your home. | |||
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" when it came to it 15 guys arrived at our place as give them address one before meet I think you are very brave to welcome 15 male strangers into your home. " I agree - you really don’t know who these people are. That’s why I’d always say Hotel venue for this sort of meet - but how do you move a large group of people in a subtle way to a small hotel room ? (Not to mention the noise once you are in the room ?) Also what happens if things get out of hand ? - all fun with condoms then someone decides to slip inside without one ? Cameras - to be handed in at the door or are pictures OK ?? All things to think about…… | |||
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" 15 where sounding nice and genuine and few we met via clubs." Did you ask any of them to verify you ? | |||
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"Greedy girl day at a club is your best bet. Otherwise atleast half wont show" we would tend to think this is correct from experience and awareness | |||
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"how many people is classed as a gangbang ? " 10 | |||
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"how many people is classed as a gangbang ? " We figure one female + at least four males. (Bry) | |||
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"how many people is classed as a gangbang ? 10" What would you call 9 ? | |||
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"how many people is classed as a gangbang ? We figure one female + at least four males. (Bry)" Correct | |||
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"how many people is classed as a gangbang ? 10 What would you call 9 ?" A gangban. 😆 🤣 😂 | |||
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"How do you get in contact with gangbang teams in the Leeds / York area? I’d like to sign up lol, particularly as I have a 38 yo pretty, slim FB who is looking to entertain but guys must be 45 + , educated , professional types " We'd suggest creating a couples profile first, then looking for such "teams". (Bry) | |||
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"We tried this earlier this year. 32 invites sent out. Ten confirmed attendance (five or six said they couldn't, the others ignored the message). On the day we had THREE turn up, and one of those was a friend that we'd asked separately. (Bry)" such a shame that you were let down would they have all got to fuck you | |||
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"such a shame that you were let down would they have all got to fuck you " Absolutely not - I'm Bry, the male half. (Bry) | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? so difficult to arrange .I wanted 6 to 8 so I invited 18 ..1 turned up ..in my experience the ones who keep messaging saying what they are going to do are the ones guaranteed not to show by that time they have wanked themselves to death ..older guys above 55 are the most reliable" Hoorah for the older guys | |||
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"Hi guys, yes we have done the same had some success but it's very hard work. I know it's not local to you but I host a greedy Girls event in Cupid's (Manchester) once a month. There is always plenty of group fun and orgys I'm pretty sure you'll get what your looking for! Please feel free to message me with any questions xxx" just you being there would be incentive enough for most guys If you are the only girl are you generous with your favous misssub | |||
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"I would suggest that you plan for a very large number of the men who “guarantee” they will be there to drop out - they always do. Make sure that you are inviting two or three times the number you think you will need and make sure that the majority have actually turned up to something like this in the past - they are the only ones you can really rely on. I agree we find at least 50% will talk the talk but not walk the walk on the day " Definitely agree with this. I always turn up specially if it's a first time event. I would love to organise one at my place and trues in the past but the no shows put me off even trying after a while. | |||
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"Is it best to meet away from the venue or not? " Depends on the venue and the security arrangements there. We use a hotel without any door security so we just give guys the room number (best they don't all come up together tho!) | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " if you want 8 invite 38 as most drop out after they have fantasised..a little tip is if they keep messaging and saying what they arebgoing to do to you they will be the guys who wank themselves off before the meet and won't turn up..if a guy says thank you I will be there at this time etc and that is it they normally turn up.but word to the wise is tell every guy to message you on the day about 5 hours before the meet to say ...."looking forward to our meet see you 8pm etc " | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " Did it ever happen? When we do ours guys love leaving verifications. | |||
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"This has been a massive learning curve. A date and venue have been organised. Invites to our selected fab members have gone out, date only not venue) Dom is chatting on FAB with them but there's been no face to face. 1. Have we missed anything out? 2. What would you do next? " Invite at least TRIPLE the amount you want as most won’t turn up. They love talking about it when they’re horny with cock in hand on fab, but most never follow through and let you down. So arrange way more than you need. Multiple experience talking | |||
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"We did one last year, far more time wasters and excuses on the day/ghosters than attendees." We have that t shirt lol ! | |||
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"It's planed for March. We have made our selection and we have a private address to play.😈" I hope you have a good day but I am looking forward to finding out who many turn up. | |||
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