FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the first thing women look at on a man when they meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a question I always want to ask, what do you look a first on a meet. For instance legs and heels is my thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, teeth and bulge!!

Not necessarily in that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eyes u can tell a lot from a persons eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just think its funny that women looks at eyes, face etc and men look at arse, boobs and legs...

wow you can tell a lot from looking at those guys...lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, teeth and hands in that order for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, their smile (if they are lol), and the tone of their voice...........!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look ok always check out finger nails - if bitten it's a big no go - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes, teeth and bulge!!

Not necessarily in that order

thats me out the equation then, im boss eyed with manky teeth and hung like a hamster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes, teeth and bulge!!

Not necessarily in that order

thats me out the equation then, im boss eyed with manky teeth and hung like a hamster

but at least you have a sense of humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes, teeth and bulge!!

Not necessarily in that order

thats me out the equation then, im boss eyed with manky teeth and hung like a hamster

but at least you have a sense of humour!"

ahh if only i did, victor meldrew used to be my neighbour but he had to move away,said i whinged too much for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they look ok always check out finger nails - if bitten it's a big no go - Z"

Or dirty fingers nails - they won't come anywhere near me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth for me, i have a thing for bad oral hygine

if you dont have good, clean teeth the meets off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they look ok always check out finger nails - if bitten it's a big no go - Z"

i must admit i bite my nails, always have, tried to stop many times but its a habbit i just cant kick, i do get paranoid about it when meeting people as i know it looks ugly but so far ive never been turned down because of it, im sure i will one day tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes everytime followed by teeth. Nice smile and sparkling eyes do it for me, then shoes. If the shoes are scuffed, dirty and/or dont match it's a no no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eyes u can tell a lot from a persons eyes x"

What if your a really nice guy....but boss eyed lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm that boss eyed the tears run down my back when I cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes everytime followed by teeth. Nice smile and sparkling eyes do it for me, then shoes. If the shoes are scuffed, dirty and/or dont match it's a no no!"

been told I got nice eyes, nice smile and never wear odd shoes...do I have a chance?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Eyes, teeth and hands in that order for me.

I've got one eye, two teeth and three hands, do I meet the requirement? pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be a possible

I always turn up in freshly polished Wellies with Left and Right on them, Camo string vest and Y fronts on the wrong way round (coz I'm with it) I have a lovely eye that I take out and clean every 30 mins and I've had my leg fixed so it doesn't fall off anymore.

Will I be okay

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

eyes always eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice teeth and clean finger nails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

white band or dent on marriage ring finger...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"white band or dent on marriage ring finger...

haha I like it actually seen this a few times and been given very strange reasons. Exma was one lol x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"white band or dent on marriage ring finger...

Ooh, that's me outta luck then. I was married 10 years and am only recently single again. In those 10 years my hands got bigger and even though I've not worn my wedding ring for quite a while now, there's still a visible mark where it was.

It was a real bugger to remove, I can tell ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slightly visable fair enough.... bir huge dent and white bit like its been removed in a rush isnt lol x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"slightly visable fair enough.... bir huge dent and white bit like its been removed in a rush isnt lol x

Phew, so I'm back in with a chance then...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face/eyes and hands.

Don't care if he's Mr Universe with a cock like a mule,if he's got the face of an axe murderer and filthy hands its a non starter!

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only have one eye but its dead centre is that ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way he's dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot bout clean shoes, i always thought that was a cert with women? eyes i'd say too. ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wot bout clean shoes, i always thought that was a cert with women? eyes i'd say too. ha"

im always funny about what people wear, trainers for me are a big no no, cant stand the things they for running in and chavs lol also dont like track shits or jeans with track suit tops, to me it just makes people look like they have made no effort at all to meet me, when i meet someone off here i always try to look my best, do my hair, make up and wear wear nice going out type clothes so i dont expect the guy to turn up in a track suit and trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st impressions last for sure dont they...

each to their own i guess here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

teeth and shaven and one belly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if he dresses well, smells nice and has a good smile.... he's in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty hands is something I've often got. I have an office job so to save me from fancying boys I spend my free time building or fixing things with dirty tools.

Obviously I do wash but signs of tinkering with cars etc are hard to completely get rid of.

We just figure that if a few marks put someone off then they're not for us anyway. The only hair product I use is shampoo.

I like women who don't mind me turning up with the odd grazed knuckle once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does he look like he seen a bar of soap this side of the millennium........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is clean and presentable , who smells great. fantastic teeth .

pref in a suit or similar.

or smart casual.

Is on time and who laid back, and chilled and not up his own ass.

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By *uvpuppy39Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

What about nice shiny shoes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ian your in luck hun I dont mind hands that look like they build things day in and day out.

Hubby has hands like that cos he is always on the go helping the neighbours or friends with fixing things and is happiest when tinkering in the guts of something - why is it some men have to know exactly how something works the second you buy it??

For me as long as the person is clean neat and tidy Im happy to have a coffee with them, like others I look for the white "wedding band" around the finger.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice face with sparkly eyes do the trick for me, but they have to smell nice as it a real turn on for me.

I dress clean and nicely so expect the same from a meet as want them to feel that I made an effort to look good for them. Yes have something special under neath at all times so they might just get a peak of it.

So causal or super sexy what is under neath will race the heart all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong about the hands thing,Ric has always done manual work and tinkers about with the car.

Theres no way though that he'd go to a meet without cleaning under his nails and I know he'd be self conscious going with skinned knuckles.

I can understand that though.

I don't think many of us would fancy fingers with oil under the nails or freshly skinned knuckles inside us either.

Hence my attention to hands.

Surely its just a question of respect for the people you meet as well as yourself.

XXX

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

its got 2 be the shoes.. a nice pair of shoes tell a lot about a guy. then eyes teeth and hands in that order lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"eyes u can tell a lot from a persons eyes x"

agreed the eyes are the window to the soul

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Strange all this talk of fingernails not being bitten and shiny shoes as well.

I wear shiny shoes all day for work, but like you ladies, wearing heels, they ain't the most comfortable of things to wear. I as a bloke prefer black trainers to shoes when not at work.

Maybe some of you need to think about putting those sort of details in your profiles. Your contacts will tail off to nothing.

It'll save you not having to turn them down at the social meet when they don't come up to expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong about the hands thing,Ric has always done manual work and tinkers about with the car.

Theres no way though that he'd go to a meet without cleaning under his nails and I know he'd be self conscious going with skinned knuckles.

I can understand that though.

I don't think many of us would fancy fingers with oil under the nails or freshly skinned knuckles inside us either.

Hence my attention to hands.

Surely its just a question of respect for the people you meet as well as yourself.

XXX"

I know, and I do agree with you. Sometimes we can scrub and scrub and the ruddy stuff just wont come off.

Just another reason to not meet now lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong about the hands thing,Ric has always done manual work and tinkers about with the car.

Theres no way though that he'd go to a meet without cleaning under his nails and I know he'd be self conscious going with skinned knuckles.

I can understand that though.

I don't think many of us would fancy fingers with oil under the nails or freshly skinned knuckles inside us either.

Hence my attention to hands.

Surely its just a question of respect for the people you meet as well as yourself.

XXX

I know, and I do agree with you. Sometimes we can scrub and scrub and the ruddy stuff just wont come off.

Just another reason to not meet now lol!"

Surgical gloves mmmmmmmmmmmm so many uses!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile,hair and eyes

x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and arms, love mens arms, as long as they are manly arms.

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By *eprobatepairCouple
over a year ago

london

Clean shoes, clean teeth, fresh breath, nice clothes always make a difference. It's about respecting people. I'm lucky in having slender fingers and keep my nails trimmed as I play the guitar. It's incredible how that seems to be a big turn on. A bit of a shy grin and a sly gleam in the eye seemed to be the order of the day to seal the deal.

Sadly now I look like Mr Baldyman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will not from our earlier post that Zoe has a thing about lean hands & fingernails and some have said you cant help having slightly bad hands ect.

Well with respect i work all day on a building site and my hands are never less than spotless with well trimmed nails to boot, I feel its the least i can do as these are the things i am wanting some lady to have in all sorts of intimate places should we click.

Its a matter of respect for me to be honest. Steve

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By *eprobatepairCouple
over a year ago

london

Have to agree there. If you do work in a manual job at least use some swarfega then moisturise. Mrs Reprobate works as a therapist so is using her hands all day. Her nails are ultra short because of this. If she's been working on her motorbikes at the weekend she takes extra care.

If you were having someone's fingers inside you would you want them smooth and soft or hard and calloused? Saying it's difficult is an excuse. Work harder at making them presentable and pleasant feeling. Shimples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

barrier cream stops stuff getting on the skin in the first place too.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past it's usually been my bloody wallet ..

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Damn, no wonder people look right past me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They look straight past me now as well - I'm as poor as a church mouse

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