FabSwingers.com forum: How many verifications

By *enelope2U OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Fife

How many verifications is too many verifications?

Does it matter the type of the verification or is it all about the details and description that influences your decision?

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By *oxy jWoman
2 weeks ago

taunton somerset

some like me / us have been on this scene a very long time (30 years) some alot longer so number of veris really mean nothing as as you can see ive hardly any for a couple of reasons i had to delete my old profile due to a stalker and i no longer want veri's so it looks like i dont meet often .. i know other swingers who play very often who again dont do veris add in club play and private play then you see its impossible to know what a true number is..

not only that those who do like veris and have many play meet ones prove they are popular and nothing else ..i think those who think someone can have too many really dont understand the scene ..

its also a trick many will do by just deleting their profile and starting again deletes their fab sexual history from those who like to judge so theirs no real way of knowing anything via fab

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By *lik and PaulCouple
2 weeks ago

cahoots

We were swingers long before joining fab and swing with people who aren't on here so there's never a true number as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"We were swingers long before joining fab and swing with people who aren't on here so there's never a true number as such."

Likewise, swinging existed before this site!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

400 over one weekend might raise the odd eyebrow, but personally, I'd applaud them living life

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By *enelope2U OP Woman
2 weeks ago

Fife

Agreed with all of the above in a way. I started swinging after my 2nd sex partner which was 20+yrs ago. However I asked because I had someone message me with over 175 verifications and over 15 from just this month alone. I asked if he was into clubs he said no he just hasn't found anyone "regular". So for me it was a sorry to hear that and good luck in your search.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

"How many verifications is too many verifications?

Does it matter the type of the verification or is it all about the details and description that influences your decision?

It's down to personal choice. Personally we prefer to interact with those who meet occasionally, rather than those showing they look to meet several times a week. The details in verifications definitely influence wether we would look to meet. "They're real" doesn't do it for us, and certain details will mean it's a no from us.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol

More about content of the verifications for us. Especially of they have them from trusted mutuals.

If you've met friends of ours and they vouch for you being respectful, friendly and importantly good fun, then that says more than a number.

If people just look at our number and judge us because of it then they aren't the kind of people we want to play with anyway

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Leicester/Ipswich

It's not about how many for us, it's the content so when you see people writing Shakespeare novels describing the entire act, makes us cringe a bit!

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
2 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

We seen profiles with a high number of verifications but all is through seeing them on cam on fab. How is that even a verification, not having met in person? It's down to the content of the veri not the number.

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

coleraine

Beyond a single verification as being necessary we don’t focus on low or high numbers.

We know they hold little value in understanding true experience because it is limited to the length of a single profile.

I suspect some newbies or less confident people might be put off contacting someone with a string of verifications I know we were in the early days.

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