FabSwingers.com forum: Demanding face photos first message

By *oliteJay OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Now I know women outnumber men on here and yes generally men need to send the first picture. However when this comes from a completely blank profile? Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X

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By *ingle_docMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford

It’s a buyer’s market……

But with that said, I won’t chat for long without seeing a face pic

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By *ustardCream88Man
2 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

Totally understand why people wouldn't put face pics public. But if they are genuine they would soon send one in conversation. If they don't or are reluctant, I'd be super wary that they are fake or simply not good looking. Swerve it.

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By *oliteJay OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

I agree, it's a 2 way street even in a buyers market

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By *otcouple40sCouple
2 weeks ago

high wycombe

that’s where verifications help

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
2 weeks ago

If they start the conversation they should be the one to send the face pic first, I had a friend request from a hidden profile the other day

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By *vonne5exMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

I will not send a face pic but I give the option to walk away with a thanks but no thanks, far to many just searching for someone they may no with no intentions of playing with anyone

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Why are you even talking to blank profiles?

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By *andPextraCouple
2 weeks ago

North West

Anyone, male, female or couple on here DEMANDING anything should give themselves a reality and manners check

It is ludicrous the "send face pic, inside leg measurement, last 3 sexual references" generally comes from profiles with zero pics and zero write up

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

high on a hill with a lonely goat herd

I have no problems in showing my face

So I do like to see who I'm chatting to though I don't demand or ask for a face pic in a first message

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

People can ask for what they like.

If you don't want to provide it, you can move along to the next profile 💜

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By *eltic connectionCouple
2 weeks ago

Manningtree

I often think they are either fake or just playing with desperate men. Needless to say they get nothing from us!

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By *oliteJay OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Some very good points.... I'm big on manners so liked that one x

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By *oliteJay OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sleaford

Well you are a fine looking lot that have replied. X

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
2 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I have a face pic in my public gallery and ask for a face pic if a fella messages as I like to know who I’m talking to. Although you can never tell until you actually meet them. I’ve had a couple of meets and they’ve not looked anything like their pics.

If they don’t send a face pic then I terminate the conversation.

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By *oxy jWoman
2 weeks ago

taunton somerset

if i message a guy then i send a face pic first and yes i do often message guys if a guy message me he sends a face pic first its that simple and i stick to itand if no face pic within 2 or 3 messages then bye bye ...

why would anyone waste time with those who dont send also if you send a pic and its a no thank dont expect a face pic back like many guys do and often moan about it no going to send a pic if its a no...

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

"Why are you even talking to blank profiles? "
well said

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Just pass them by op.

They can ask for pics, but you don't have to send them to a profile where you can't see any of them.

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By *eachsidebestiesCouple
2 weeks ago

Kings Lynn

"Totally understand why people wouldn't put face pics public. But if they are genuine they would soon send one in conversation. If they don't or are reluctant, I'd be super wary that they are fake or simply not good looking. Swerve it."

What do you mean by soon?

(Genuinely interested)

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...generally men need to send the first picture."

No they do not. You have been duped if you genuinely think so.

"However when this comes from a completely blank profile?"

You are messaging women with blank profiles??? I suggest that you rethink your strategy.

"Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X"

It's a woman's prerogative to do as she pleases. If her demands don't align with your expectations then ignore and move on.

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By *hyguyvanilla1978Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

What about profiles that have been on here ages but still haven't uploaded a profile picture or other pics but then demand you send pic with first message

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"What about profiles that have been on here ages but still haven't uploaded a profile picture or other pics but then demand you send pic with first message"

You ignore them and show them the exit.

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By *runette n JayCouple
2 weeks ago

bilston

We won't even converse unless we have seen what you look like.

We don't demand, however it's their choice to show or not and if not we will politely decline.

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By *hyguyvanilla1978Man
2 weeks ago

Northampton

"We won't even converse unless we have seen what you look like.

We don't demand, however it's their choice to show or not and if not we will politely decline.

Will you check profile first if so what about if all private pics

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By *ndy 2010Man
2 weeks ago

grimsby

I think it's comical, a lot of them are blank, or with very little pics, and new profiles. And they come on like they are gods gift making demands, get a grip

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By *runette n JayCouple
2 weeks ago

bilston

"We won't even converse unless we have seen what you look like.

We don't demand, however it's their choice to show or not and if not we will politely decline.

Will you check profile first if so what about if all private pics

If we cannot see a face we won't converse.

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By *end1Man
2 weeks ago

southend on sea

In my local area of Essex more n more profiles especially single females demanding you send a face picture or their just delete your message. I've even come across profiles demanding you do this you do that and yet their profile is almost blank.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus

Wouldn’t think demanding anything on here would get you anywhere

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

What would tempt you even to send the first message beside being curious

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By *tu.xMan
2 weeks ago

around

"Now I know women outnumber men on here and yes generally men need to send the first picture. However when this comes from a completely blank profile? Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X"
if they have a blank profile id never know they wanted a face pic 😉

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
2 weeks ago

york

If we message first then we would usually send a face picture first.

If we receive a message we won't send a face picture until we've received one, after all they initiated contact.

Our policy is no face picture = no meet

At the end of the day there has to be an attraction, we won't just fuck anyone, even if it's just a quickie meet

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By *etWetWet453Couple
2 weeks ago

CAMBERLEY

An extract from our profile. Think it covers everything re pics.

If you do message us, and you do not have any public face pics , could you please attach face and body pics of you both, because, as much as we both love cock and pussy, respectively, a disembodied pic of either really isn`t going to show us what you look like. And Yes, we are that shallow. Also, it just saves us time asking for them when we reply. If you are not prepared to provide pics, then there really is no point in contacting us....we don`t do blind dates any more. To paraphrase somebody else`s profile - "We`ve all got jobs and unless you work for MI6, in which case they will already know what you`re up to, you`re really not as important as you think you are." If you do attach pics, could you please not `Auto Remove` them, as we may not both be able to view them at the same time. We don`t even bother reading profiles that have an avatar and/or no profile pictures - what`s that all about?

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By *aftarse59Man
2 weeks ago

workington

"Anyone, male, female or couple on here DEMANDING anything should give themselves a reality and manners check

It is ludicrous the "send face pic, inside leg measurement, last 3 sexual references" generally comes from profiles with zero pics and zero write up

Ah but they’re probably ‘professionals’ so they can demand whatever they want

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

I see no point in a face picture sending or receiving if 1) they aren't realistically local to meet

2) we have zero chemistry from just chatting

I actually don't care about any pictures whatsoever if those 2 minimum things aren't met first.

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By *akes coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Ambleside

We never ask for face pictures or would ever send them to anybody, as we don’t want friends or family to know what they already suspect about us.

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By *acky RacersCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincoln

I'll suggest it may feel unfair but it's fairly simple...

If people want a face picture with a first message but you're unwilling to send one then don't message them

If you want a picture of people before you message them and they don't have one on their profile then don't message them.

Hope this helps

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
2 weeks ago

Southern England

Who ever starts the conversation should send a face photo. No one wants to chat to a faceless person.

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By *alm_one4Man
2 weeks ago

RM16

Rule of thumb for me is if the profile has a face pic publicly available then I’m happy to send one. If not it comes down to either gut instinct or how keen I am to meet

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By *ustardCream88Man
2 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

What do you mean by soon?

(Genuinely interested)

I meant soon as in early in the conversation. As a form of 'dating' site, people need to know what the other looks like to see if there is attraction. Unless the person likes the idea of not knowing, but it doesn't seem that way with the OP.

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