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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why o why is it only men view my profile been on fab for about 4 months only about 2 women have viewed my profile didn't bother to contact me lol is it because ladies get so many msgs don't need to bother searching ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes or maybe men fancy you more than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the ones who checked your profile you were not what they were searching for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally yes lol sorry but it's a fact that women/couples do tend to get a lot of messages on here and the guys could just be checking out the competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple solution is to block single males, check your security settings.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? Erm cos they can if they want to, CIA they wanna check out the competition, they might bat for that side, don't worry about it. It's not the end of the world.

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The simple solution is to block single males, check your security settings.

XXXX"
lol if I do that il get no views ??

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why? Erm cos they can if they want to, CIA they wanna check out the competition, they might bat for that side, don't worry about it. It's not the end of the world. "
not worried just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The simple solution is to block single males, check your security settings.

XXXX lol if I do that il get no views ??"

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I get so many guys messaging that I don't bother looking. I do look at the odd profile, normally when I see someone in forums or chat who catches my eye and I want to know more about them. In very rare cases I will keep coming back and looking at the profile while I decide if I want to message them. Each time I've done this the guy has always messaged me first so I still haven't messaged a guy first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There we just veiwed your profile and sent you a wink take that towel off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There we just veiwed your profile and sent you a wink take that towel off "

I second the towel coming off. B

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Pmsl ok ladies form a Q xxx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Or the ladies and couples could be like me. I look in stealth mode, you can't see if I have viewed your profile.

Saves those " I see you have been looking at my profile " messages. Especially if I didn't fancy them

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Or the ladies and couples could be like me. I look in stealth mode, you can't see if I have viewed your profile.

Saves those " I see you have been looking at my profile " messages. Especially if I didn't fancy them "
ahhhh didn't know you could do that ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl ok ladies form a Q xxx"
still waiting

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Pmsl ok ladies form a Q xxx still waiting "
teehee il show you mine if you show me yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 of my last 20 views have been men. And thats quite low. Usually I find I have 17 or 18 male views. There are always far more men viewing because there are so many guys on here. Just one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age I'm happy that anyone has peeked lol, although I won't be meeting any men soon .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The simple solution is to block single males, check your security settings.

XXXX"

What they said unless of course your a secret Bi .....

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm always in stealth mode and think lots of women are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why o why is it only men view my profile been on fab for about 4 months only about 2 women have viewed my profile didn't bother to contact me lol is it because ladies get so many msgs don't need to bother searching ? "

Women hide there profile from the looked at facility in the main to prevent unwanted mail. Some of the more confident ones will message guys they like rather than just sift through what is offered. There is no magic answer to it all just go with the flow and chill and if you meet great and if you don't then smile it off.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Or the ladies and couples could be like me. I look in stealth mode, you can't see if I have viewed your profile.

Saves those " I see you have been looking at my profile " messages. Especially if I didn't fancy them "

Those I see you've been looking at my profile messages can turn out pretty well. I'm meeting one of those for round two today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another reason for unwanted Male on Male views is that the search pattern will capture "men" if your profile as "men" in it....so if you dont want us lecturing Bi men looking up your trouser legs - remove men of your profiles......otherwise ...tough lol

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The simple solution is to block single males, check your security settings.

XXXX

What they said unless of course your a secret Bi ..... "
not a secret bi lol but if I did that I'd have no views

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm always in stealth mode and think lots of women are "
wondered why you hadn't viewed me yet

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Why o why is it only men view my profile been on fab for about 4 months only about 2 women have viewed my profile didn't bother to contact me lol is it because ladies get so many msgs don't need to bother searching ? "

Maybe more women and couples look at profiles in stealth mode.

We get our fair share of messages but doesn't mean that we don't go searching. Infact most of our meets have come from us making first contact.

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Didn't know about stealth mode lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I perve in stealth mode!!! So you never know, I might have had a sneaky peak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the ladies and couples could be like me. I look in stealth mode, you can't see if I have viewed your profile.

Saves those " I see you have been looking at my profile " messages. Especially if I didn't fancy them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn't know about stealth mode lol"

under privacy settings

choice of not showing on "looked at me page"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had never become a site supporter... looking at my 'viewed me' is almost entirely men lol

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I wish I had never become a site supporter... looking at my 'viewed me' is almost entirely men lol"
mind if the guys didn't look no one would view me that would be worse I think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had never become a site supporter... looking at my 'viewed me' is almost entirely men lol mind if the guys didn't look no one would view me that would be worse I think lol "

haha, love your fucking optimism, dude

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I wish I had never become a site supporter... looking at my 'viewed me' is almost entirely men lol mind if the guys didn't look no one would view me that would be worse I think lol

haha, love your fucking optimism, dude "
yip cheers

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

Lap it up, lots of guys look at me it doesn't bother me

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I get so many guys messaging that I don't bother looking. I do look at the odd profile, normally when I see someone in forums or chat who catches my eye and I want to know more about them. In very rare cases I will keep coming back and looking at the profile while I decide if I want to message them. Each time I've done this the guy has always messaged me first so I still haven't messaged a guy first"

that's not what us guys wanted to hear

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By *ombowie OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I get so many guys messaging that I don't bother looking. I do look at the odd profile, normally when I see someone in forums or chat who catches my eye and I want to know more about them. In very rare cases I will keep coming back and looking at the profile while I decide if I want to message them. Each time I've done this the guy has always messaged me first so I still haven't messaged a guy first

that's not what us guys wanted to hear

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