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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont all shout at once but....guys have this thing about asking you hundreds of questions about what u like or dont like, unless its a major dislike or like, then what the f..... difference does it make?? Sex is always different with someone new, so just touch and enjoy and learn, without all this tedious, do u like your back stroked, do u like your nipples tweaked, yadda yadda yadda ..... sorry rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont all shout at once but....guys have this thing about asking you hundreds of questions about what u like or dont like, unless its a major dislike or like, then what the f..... difference does it make?? Sex is always different with someone new, so just touch and enjoy and learn, without all this tedious, do u like your back stroked, do u like your nipples tweaked, yadda yadda yadda ..... sorry rant over "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes, they are trying to establish boundaries of what you do and don't wish to do sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol! or maybe they just like to please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont all shout at once but....guys have this thing about asking you hundreds of questions about what u like or dont like, unless its a major dislike or like, then what the f..... difference does it make?? Sex is always different with someone new, so just touch and enjoy and learn, without all this tedious, do u like your back stroked, do u like your nipples tweaked, yadda yadda yadda ..... sorry rant over "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I'd rather women and couples asked a few more questions to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits."

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!"

It's because they're typing one handed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!

It's because they're typing one handed! "

perv lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!"

I think i understand. Basically.....getting off on smalltalk.

Yeah i find that annoying too to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's important to know things like if people like fun to be hard or soft ie hair pulling, slapping or biting or outside of the norm fun that includes rimming, anal or BDSM???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!"
Im on the fence a bit, it is nice to be asked in advance as it maybe gives the guy the choice of deciding whether or not to meet the person concerned. What one person likes to do, another might not. But also having a chat over a coffee maybe? could also sort it out, then decide if you wanted to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't ask one million questions, but i ask enough to get a good idea of what the other person might enjoy. I'd rather avoid a lady's nipples completely for instance than in the heat of the moment be told that her nipples are completely off limits.

Oh i completely agree, if i had someone that was in the normal realm of foreplay/sex that i hated or loved, i would make sure i said before hand and the same for boundaries ie anal/swallowing. But as for general, do u like this, do u like that???!!!!!

I think i understand. Basically.....getting off on smalltalk.

Yeah i find that annoying too to be honest."

Not just annoying though is it.. Picture collectors are in the same group.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Do you like your cock being sucked?"

"No, not particularly...."

Usually puts an instant spanner in the works, hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're probably trying to draw you into sexy talk so they can have a wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted with a lady off here a few weeks ago and she said men kept saying do you want this done to you or that done to you and she just said look i just want to get fucked how difficult is that!.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Dont all shout at once but....guys have this thing about asking you hundreds of questions about what u like or dont like, unless its a major dislike or like, then what the f..... difference does it make?? Sex is always different with someone new, so just touch and enjoy and learn, without all this tedious, do u like your back stroked, do u like your nipples tweaked, yadda yadda yadda ..... sorry rant over "

I hate that too. I once had a meet who spent 20 minutes firing questions at me! I responded by asking him if I had got the job. He didn't know what I meant until I told him that I felt I was being interviewed. He admitted it was because of nerves - which is understandable. We had a great time, nonetheless.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do tend to find that most men ask 20/20 questions but they always seem surprised that I don't ask the same back!

I always respond by saying I prefer to have a normal conversation in order to find things out, not the Spanish inquisition! As someone has already mentioned, it's not a job interview I'm conducting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surly part of the excitement is the experimental exploration of another... A new body, a new set of rules, a new set of likes & dislikes.... That many Questions are for lazy people that can't be arsed, & just wanna condense a meet to get their rocks off as quick as they can.!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're probably trying to draw you into sexy talk so they can have a wank!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surly part of the excitement is the experimental exploration of another... A new body, a new set of rules, a new set of likes & dislikes.... That many Questions are for lazy people that can't be arsed, & just wanna condense a meet to get their rocks off as quick as they can.!!!"

Think sometimes it is the one nighters that want to know all the info.....if you want regular meets you find out what buttons to press but also know how to get more and more from that person (own preference) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask many questions before I would agree to meet a newbie, that is how I go about sorting the desirables from the undesirables, as I would like to have a high certainty that we are sexually compatible before we meet for fun.

It is how I operate, and not for others to like or dislike.

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